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Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Nobody: 5:11pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
DauraDullard0:Lol. You this dullard, I resemble person wey dem dey beat? . I always see guys on NL saying women deserve beating for running their mouth. He deserves it too. They didn't beat him well sef 6 Likes |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by koms: 5:13pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Who knows what even happen between them? all of u just jump into conclusion as if it happens in ur presence. What if the lady was the one at fault and the guy was defending himself? what if the guy was drunk? what if the lady was drunk? what if both of them were drunk?... many things can cause it, since the lady was even defending him. The gym guy deserve jail term for what he did. 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Boss13: 5:16pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
pcguru1: No! It is equally wrong to hit your kids. However what women do these days is to cry foul when they cannot manage their issues or their husbands. They leave the underlying issue which they are the initiator and start extracting sympathy because their husbands lost it and decided to assault them. Even if it was the first time, they run to social media to show the world - why, because they want to hide from their sins. The main reason they were beaten. Kids who grow up abroad do this too. When their parents discipline them, they call the cops but fail to tell the cops what they actually did to get the spanking. You hear wives insulting their mother in-law, insulting the siblings of their husbands, disclosing personal secrets to the world in the name of argument, belittling their husbands in public and even confronting their husbands with their hands in fist mood ready for combat. When you engage them - social media will not rest. They show their legs, squeeze their face and threaten law suits. They will never tell social media how they told their husbands that they are ready to fight. 4 Likes |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Nobody: 5:19pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Boss13: Obviously i know women first hand especially when it comes to playing the victim, it's different when a husband comes in and saying he has the right to do that, we all know women push men to the wall, However no one is going to listen if you act on it, because women will always be women, it's the man that should take the high road now if it's self-defense i can understand. But i do see your point of view. |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by koms: 5:20pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
To be sincere that gym guy deserve jail term, is he court? even police don't have the right to do that 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by coolviv: 5:22pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Boss13: No pray say your children end up with person wey go dey 'mistakenly' beat them. YOU don't know what you are saying. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by koms: 5:25pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
pcguru1: Imagine yourself in that scenario, as a man confront with stranger on your family issue will you prostrate and start pleading guilty? |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by fof1: 5:25pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
carzola: SHUT UR VERY DIRTY BUCAL CAVITY. INGNORAMUS VICTECTUM ASMANCU... 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by coolviv: 5:25pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Boss13: What's this one saying? 3 Likes |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Nobody: 5:30pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
koms: No woman can push me that far enough to punch her, i've met my share of crazy women i'd rather just leave the b.itch and calm down. there's a difference between family issue and a black eye. I grew up seeing my father beat my mom so it's not like i haven't experienced it. I've seen enough to know it's not my thing. I rather just walk out of the marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Boss13: 5:30pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
TinaAnita: I have lived with women well enough to know their tricks. I have never beaten my wife before and I don't wish to. I believe she is matured enough to know there is a limit and I'm matured enough to know when she is angry. However, I have also come to understand that women can devilishly test and push you. I respect boundaries and I believe my wife should do the same and not overstep it. My overall principle is not to hit anybody or cause anybody to hit you - just respect yourself. And like I said a wife can easily manage the husband's emotion. I know this because I am married. That is the sweetness of women. Only a stupid one would do otherwise and we know they always end up in the streets, many of them in their 3rd marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Boss13: 5:32pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
pcguru1: Get married first then come back later. When a woman wants to push you, they know how to go about it. Pray you meet an understanding one, else - |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by DauraDullard0(m): 5:32pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
PaperLace:I know say dem no dey beat you... But don't you think bringing third parties to molest your husband under whatever guise is a bit above board? Don't you think it has the potential to permanently wreck havoc on that marriage? Looking at it from a different perspective, don't you think there's the possibility of one, two or three of those poke-nosing thugs desiring to take a morsel from the cookie jar? Destroying that marriage would definitely would create the much needed leverage and leeway to achieve their aim. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Boss13: 5:36pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
coolviv: What I have been saying is that people in marriages should learn to respect themselves and their emotions. A wife who insults the husband, assaults the husband; a man who beats the wife, assaults the wife. Jesus - what kind of kids come to nairaland these days 1 Like |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Nobody: 5:37pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Boss13: Fair enough you have a point, Amen I pray so too, because i doubt there's no woman on this planet that doesn't frustrate men but as for black eye not me o. |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by princeemmma(m): 5:38pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Hadez:and you think this is write
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Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by kerryjossy(f): 5:38pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
Boss13: And is that enough reason to beat her up?? U see the problem we have in Nigeria is that our men think that hitting their wife is the sole solution to her misdoings. Majority of men even hit their wives for no just cause. And hey, there is nothing like 'mistakenly hit his wife'. My stand here is ON NO ACCOUNT SHOULD A MAN RAISE HIS HANDS ON HIS WIFE!!!. And if we should play your little game of 'what if', what if the guys beat him up because of the way he talked to them?? What if , the man threatened to beat them up or prolly get them arrested that made them pounce on him? The marriage has already been destroyed the very first day he raised his hands on his wife. I'm only sad that the woman has decided to choose death over this precious free life. 3 Likes |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by mitchyy(f): 5:39pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
hilaomo: If it was psychological, how did her guy buddies notice? And where did the black eye come from? Whichever way it is, violence is wrong and should outrightly be condemned. We can't exonerate the husband because his beating was 'supposedly' worse. The husband met his fellow violent men and all of them are sickos. The man is a worse sicko for treating his wife like garbage. |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Nobody: 5:43pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
DauraDullard0:Experience? She didn't bring them to beat him, na him find them come. He wrecked havoc on the home the first day he started hitting his wife_ they only helped him finish the work. 4 Likes |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Nobody: 5:45pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
mitchyy:There's always 2 sides to a coin.Bet your perspective would change if you get a chance to hear him out. |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by DauraDullard0(m): 5:46pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
mitchyy:I'm sure that as soon as the marriage packs up(which by the way is looking very likely), the poke-nosing thugs would show their true colors. The woman has definitely ruined her marriage by herself. How the fvck do you allow third parties to publicly molest your husband? 2 Likes |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Nobody: 5:46pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
mitchyy: Gym guy: Hey ma are you alright ? you look psychologically abused Abused Wife: (Breaks down in tears) it was my husband, he tortured me emotionally and is giving me the silence treatment This part got me tripping up. even thinking about it is funny |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
DauraDullard0: Yeah i think so too, he waited for the perfect time for her to have a black eye so he could act, I don't trust gym guys. they have patience for cardio exercise and Six packs, so i won't really be surprised |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Toshiba49ja(m): 5:49pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
PaperLace: Lol If dem no beat him well, go hospital nd beat ur own join |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by mitchyy(f): 5:51pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
hilaomo: Not just him tho. Both sides know the truth to the story |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by megareal: 5:52pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
pcguru1: Thank you. That's the summary from most of the posts here. They will prefer nobody stood up for the woman forgetting that every action begets a reaction, whether positive or negative. As far as I'm concerned, the man got served. The mere fact that fellow men like him beat him up cos of his abuse towards his wife will sober him up and teach him that being abusive is not right. Yes the marriage may not continue, but I bet you, he will respect the next woman he is in a relationship with. 2 Likes |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by DauraDullard0(m): 5:53pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
PaperLace:In the first instance, it is reported that he came to pick her up from the gym. What's their fvcking business if he screams at his wife? She didn't package herself well, otherwise they won't dare lift a finger against him. At the end, who is the loser here? I wonder when people would start minding their business and stop poke-nosing into other people's lives. Wetin concern them? 2 Likes |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by mitchyy(f): 5:53pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
pcguru1: Lol. It might not be as trivial as that though. |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Nobody: 5:53pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
mitchyy:BABE you dey sale land I wan get land o! |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Nobody: 5:55pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
megareal: Lol it's something i grew up experiencing with my father, it's a shame he died I'd always thought one day when am much grown i'd be the one to beat him up if he ever tries that or patricide or something. |
Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by Souljaboi1: 5:57pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
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Re: Abusive Man Beats Wife, Wife's Fit Male Gym Buddies Beat Him Up Too In Revenge by megareal: 5:59pm On Feb 07, 2017 |
pcguru1: Thank God the man died with his wahala rather than you soiling your hands with his blood or beating him up. Most parents don't know the enmity they leave in their young children's mind when they maltreat their spouses. |
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