How can one make a long distant relationship work?
Tosyne2much
Naijasinglegirl
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Do not engage in everyday calls


Thank me later

Communication is key.

Alero3Arubi:
How can one make a long distant relationship work?
Tosyne2much
Naijasinglegirl
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Trust, trust, and more trust...

Communication is key....

Prayers move mountains.....

With these few points of mine.....

Buy a very very loooong thick rope..especially the one used in tying NNAMAH(cow)..then tie one end on his waist and tie the other end on ur chest..so that when other girls are pulling...you will remain steadfast.

BEENUEL:
Do not engage in everyday calls


Thank me later

Why please explain.

Lagusta:


Trust, trust, and more trust...

Communication is key....

Prayers move mountains.....

With these few points of mine.....

How can one communicate normally and at the same time not too much?
Plus how do you build trust?
Then again how do you keep enduring the missing part?

Alero3Arubi:

Why please explain.

You bought a wig you have bn longing to have all your life, after the day you bought it, you fix it.

You so much like the wig, maybe a month later, you get tired of the wig..because you were putting it on everyday!.


Then you buy this prada shoe for occasions, you wear it once in a while, you still have the prada shoe, even.....after 2years....that Is because you don't use it too often.

Now calling each other everyday can make things complicated, you guys need to miss yourselves. You need to make him your prada shoe(valuable asset).

Okay?

Bye

Alero3Arubi:

How can one communicate normally and at the same time not too much?
Plus how do you build trust?
Then again how do you keep enduring the missing part?

Thank God for video calls... One video call a day won't hurt, but don't call at times you know he would be busy, or at church, or something shaa....

Trust is something you just have to build within yourself.... Just have it in mind that he loves you and would do nothing to hurt you. This is why communication is important!!! If you guys communicate well; gist, laugh, pray, kiss on phone, etc the love and trust grows more.....

And eerrmm, what missing part are you talking about??

BEENUEL:



You bought a wig you have bn longing to have all your life, after the day you bought it, you fix it.

You so much like the wig, maybe a month later, you get tired of the wig..because you were putting it on everyday!.


Then you buy this prada shoe for occasions, you wear it once in a while, you still have the prada shoe, even.....after 2years....that Is because you don't use it too often.

Now calling each other everyday can make things complicated, you guys need to miss yourselves. You need to make him your prada shoe(valuable asset).

Okay?

Bye

Hmmm.
Thanks.
That would take a lot of discipline. Ooo
Can I really do this?

Alero3Arubi:


Hmmm.
Thanks.
That would take a lot of discipline. Ooo
Can I really do this?

If you call him once a month, and he doesn't call you back, madam your relationship is going down....

Trust me on this, I'm talking from experience.....

Lagusta:


Thank God for video calls... One video call a day won't hurt, but don't call at times you know he would be busy, or at church, or something shaa....

Trust is something you just have to build within yourself.... Just have it in mind that he loves you and would do nothing to hurt you. This is why communication is important!!! If you guys communicate well; gist, laugh, pray, kiss on phone, etc the love and trust grows more.....

And eerrmm, what missing part are you talking about??

The cuddling and face to face hang out plus naughty pranks you want to do in his presence and see him embarrassed.

Alero3Arubi:


The cuddling and face to face hang out plus naughty pranks you want to do in his presence and see him embarrassed.

Video call maami, video call....

Lagusta:


If you call him once a month, and he doesn't call you back, madam your relationship is going down....

Trust me on this, I'm talking from experience.....

So should I refuse his calls everyday and pick only once a month?

Alero3Arubi:


Hmmm.
Thanks.
That would take a lot of discipline. Ooo
Can I really do this?

I'm not you, and you are not me...I don't really know.

Why the distance relationship sev. Can't you guys just make things formal.

Alero3Arubi:


So should I refuse his calls everyday and pick only once a month?

No nah, I didn't say that, you guys should call every day, that was what I said......

Lagusta:


Video call maami, video call....

Cuddling through voice call?
Hang out through voice call?
Lagusta!!!!

BEENUEL:


I'm not you, and you are not me...I don't really know.

Why the distance relationship sev. Can't you guys just make things formal.

Formal?

Alero3Arubi:


The cuddling and face to face hang out plus naughty pranks you want to do in his presence [/b]and see him embarrassed.

In full word [b]Sex

Ma'am, distance relationships sometimes is meant for inexperienced folks in sexual arena.

I can mean Virgins though.

Dillimilli:
Buy a very very loooong thick rope..especially the one used in tying NNAMAH(cow)..then tie one end on his waist and tie the other end on ur chest..so that when other girls are pulling...you will remain steadfast.

That can be arranged

BEENUEL:


In full word Sex

Ma'am, distance relationships sometimes is meant for inexperienced folks in sexual arena.

I can mean Virgins though.

Gosh, should I Brea up then?

It's very hard honestly.

Alero3Arubi:

Cuddling through voice call?
Hang out through voice call?
Lagusta!!!!

Yes Joor, you'll miss each other more....

Alero3Arubi:


So should I refuse his calls everyday and pick only once a month?

See it's not rocket science, if you love him you can make it work. I have been on a distant relationship for two years, I can tell you it's been awesome despite the usual once in a while fight. You need trust communication and friendship. Sometimes just be naughty talk about everything. Both of us are getting married in few months time. You are d only one to make it work but remember if you are the cheating type forget it cos you will be found out at the end of d day.

Lagusta:


Yes Joor, you'll miss each other more....

I am trying to not miss again ni.
It Is distracting me.

cejaypriesty:

See it's not rocket science, if you love him you can make it work. I have been on a distant relationship for two years, I can tell you it's been awesome dispute the usual once in a while fight. You need trust communication and friendship. Sometimes just be naughty talk about everything. Both of us are getting married in few months time. You are d only one to make it work but remember if you are creating type forget it cos you will be found out at the end of d day.

Thank you so much for sharing this.
But how did you make it for 2 yrs!

Alero3Arubi:


Thank you so much for sharing this.
But how did you make it for 2 yrs!

Communication and once in a while visit but remember from day one we knew were the relationship was leading to both families were aware.

Alero3Arubi:


I am trying to not miss again ni.
It Is distracting me.

Hmmmmmm

Then let him do the calling then, u do texting....

Lagusta:


Hmmmmmm

Then let him do the calling then, u do texting....

I tire for your matter sef
It's still communicating joor.

Alero3Arubi:

Gosh, should I Brea up then?

It's very hard honestly.

No you can actually visit him once in while, we all on Earth...or does he live in pluto?

cejaypriesty:

Communication and once in a while visit but remember from day one we knew were the relationship was leading to both families were aware.

Thank you.

Lagusta:


Hmmmmmm

Then let him do the calling then, u do texting....

Our calls are like 60/40.As d guy I call her d more and she calls too, she is not really d texting type tho. But I can tell distant relationship is not for everyone cos it's quite demanding but sweet.

Lagusta:


Hmmmmmm

Then let him do the calling then, u do texting....

Our calls are like 60/40.As d guy I call her d more and she calls too, she is not really d texting type tho. But I can tell you distant relationship is not for everyone cos it's quite demanding but sweet.