ToriBlue:
Pride too is a reason.

motivator4:

Every man knows what he wants when it comes to choosing a life partner. If you want, fix N1m hair, put on the most expensive cloths, fix the longest nails, rub the highest make-up or give him the highest and latest sex style on bed, it wouldn’t and will never make him propose.

For some single ladies that may be wondering why they are still single and want to get married please read, digest and practice this few points.

KNOW THEY KIND OF THINGS YOU POST ON FACEBOOK.
Most ladies don’t care about what they post on facebook. Any man that wants to date you must first ask you if you are on facebook. Some of them use it to access the kind of lady you are. You want to settle down, every time you upload pics you snap with different guys, in different cars and different hotels. You update post like Alcohol or flexing thing on mind, clubbing mood activated, last night was really hot and sweet, ‘boo’ you are the best, feeling Hot etc. any man that sees this kind of update will only come to you with sweet mouth just to follow chop and clean mouth. Some men can do anything, tell you what you want to hear as in go extra mile just to have a test of your puny. When they get it, they will start behaving some how just to discharge you and move to the next victim.

ALWAYS EATING OUTSIDE FOOD WITH YOUR MAN.
95% of men like to eat at home. If your man doesn’t eat your meal, please check very well maybe you don’t know how to cook. Don’t always go to fast food with your man to eat. Once in a while, tell him to give you that money let you prepare delicious meal for both of you and it will be bigger, sweeter and cheaper. This will make him see sign of wife material in you and some one that can manage. If you always eat fast food with him, he will spend the money on you, use you, dump you and look for a homely girl that knows how to cook when he wants to settle down.

DON’T BE TOO DEMANDING.
This one is the major part that scares men away. Even the poorest guy will still tell you that you are a gold digger while he doesn’t even have a pin let alone gold to give.
Please ladies don’t be too demanding, unless you know the guy wants to just chop and clean mouth. some men that are married today are victims of this. They may have intention of coming to chop and clean mouth but seeing your character, they will cherish you and propose to you. I believe that any responsible man that truly loves you must love to spend on you no matter how little he has. Unless the guy doesn’t care. Every responsible man knows his responsibilities in the family. Being too demanding, will only scare him away. just mellow down, after marriage everything will still be your own.

THE KIND OF MAKE-UP YOU PUT ON.
Men love girls that put on less or natural make-up when it comes to life partner. If you are the type that put on too much make-up and your man doesn’t tell you or complain, please just bear in mind that right deep inside him, you are just his sex mate, flexing and outing mate. When he wants to settle down, he will go for a natural looking girl. That is when you will be asking yourself what he saw in that local girl? Please dear, he knows what he saw in her and also what he wants when it comes to marriage. Abi you wan use the whole feeding money for house de buy make-up?

KNOW THE KIND OF AGE YOU DATE.
You can’t be 24yrs and above and be dating a guy of 22-27 yrs and you expect him to start pressurizing you about marriage in this our country. As a young lady, immediately you are approaching 24yrs, always date a serious and matured minded person that is at least from 28yrs upwards because some of his thinking will also be on choosing a life partner. Remember we ladies have time. We are like fruits.

WAITING FOR A PARTICULAR GUY ALL IN THE NAME OF LOVE.
90% of unmarried matured ladies today was as a result of this. Ladies have to know that they are like flowers and they have time. Ask some matured unmarried ladies today if one or two guys or more didn’t ask their hands in marriage. Many of them had suitors but because of the love they had for guy ‘A’ made them to reject those suitors thinking that guy ‘A’ will marry them. Please love fades with time. They will be highly frustrated when the so called guy ‘A’ will share his wedding invitation or they hear it from someone that guy ‘A’ is getting married to another girl leaving you heart broken after 3-5yrs of dating and waiting for him. to some ladies, it may take them more years to recover from the heart break with the impression that all men are the same. All this years of dating plus the heart broken years will now be wasted years. Before you know it, you will be old already. Majority of guys now no matter their age go for young girls for marriage. We are having sweet beautiful girls every day. Who no like better thing? One thing you have to know is that guys don’t reason like women. A guy can never open his mouth and tell you he wouldn’t marry you. He will always tell you things like future will tell, let's look on to God etc. this waiting of a particular guy of a thing always make some ladies miss their right partner thinking that that person is their right spouse. No matter how long you date someone, you will never know they person unless you guys are married. Please ladies, always pray and settle down with someone that is ready and loves you. Try and love the person you married. He is the only one that deserves your true love. Moreover the highest love should come from your husband and respect/ submission from wife. That is the standard of God. If your man loves you, he can do anything for you including respect. But no matter how a wife loves his husband, if she doesn’t respect the man or is not submissive to him, the marriage may not last. Please ladies, learn to pray to God to direct you to your right spouse and don’t allow your flesh to make choice for you all in the name of love if not, that marriage wouldn’t last.

CHOOSING.
This is another major reason why most matured ladies didn’t marry on time or are not even married. The worst mistake any woman will make is to marry a man because of appearance, pocket size, height, size, super man on bed etc. please marry someone that God has destined for you. Marry someone that loves you, respect you, cherish you, will take you like his own blood, can do anything for you, will always want to see you happy, etc. every woman needs a man that will pet her, be there for her and understand her feelings in marriage. Please marriage is not a relationship. A lot of women have married some men because of appearance, height, pocket size, etc but where is the marriage today? Please there is more to marriage than appearance, height, pocket size, super man on bed, etc. Ask any married woman, she will tell you that. A man may be rich today and be poor tomorrow. Also a man may be poor today and rich tomorrow. Marry a man that has prospect. Though some of those guys do mess up when the money starts coming in. they wouldn’t remember how the girl suffered with him and how she was there for him in hard times. No matter what, God will reward you. There is nothing that hurts a woman in marriage than being married to a proud man, abusive man, wife beater, and the worst is being married to an unfaithful man. You will end-up looking like a rag in your home because your heart will be full of bitterness and anger which will turn you into a nagging wife and it may lead you to cheat too because its women that do conceive, you may take in because any slightest drop of sperm must bring an offspring if you are in your fertile period. But when you are with a faithful spouse, you will be the happiest person on earth, peaceful and you will feel at home in your husband’s house. Please always pray for God’s direction. Don’t allow your flesh to choose your spouse for you. seek for God's direction yourself. Dont allow your pastors to deceive you. talk to God yourself, He is our Father. He must show you sign.

KIND OF FRIENDS YOU KEEP.
Please know the kind of friends you keep. Many ladies have missed their Mr. right today just because of questions like ‘what will my friends say?’ ‘my friends will laugh at me’ etc. everybody’s destiny is not the same. For the fact that lady ‘A’ married a rich, handsome etc guy doesn’t mean you must marry the same. Your destiny may be to build your home with your spouse etc. please let me tell you something, those your friends will still be the one to mock you if eventually you didn’t marry. You will see your mates rocking their kids while you are all alone because you are looking at what your friends will say.

Conclusion: IN THIS WORLD, YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN AND OUR DESTINIES ARE NOT THE SAME. so make hay while the sun shines because DELAY MIGHT NOT BE DENIAL BUT CAN BE DANGEROUS IN MOST CASES.
. (Okekearu Joy Chinemerem).

RedRubberDucky:
but being single isn't abnormal . most of the worlds population is single .

we don't have to pair up like we're boarding Noah's ark

RedRubberDucky:
but being single isn't abnormal . most of the worlds population is single .

we don't have to pair up like we're boarding Noah's ark

RedRubberDucky:
but being single isn't abnormal . most of the worlds population is single .

we don't have to pair up like we're boarding Noah's ark

RedRubberDucky:
but being single isn't abnormal . most of the worlds population is single .

we don't have to pair up like we're boarding Noah's ark

RedRubberDucky:
but being single isn't abnormal . most of the worlds population is single .

we don't have to pair up like we're boarding Noah's ark

Supermansteve:

Remember we were made in pairs. Eve from Adams rib and you from mine

ha ha but now I've been taken from u....I'm leaving u

LePrezident:


Eh ehn? Puff puff, where have you been?

been here I've been all over the form

RedRubberDucky:
been here I've been all over the form

LePrezident:


You have been difficult to track then... maybe because of your thousand and one monikers

but all the others are deactivated and I always write in color. How am I hard ta find??

RedRubberDucky:
but all the others are deactivated and I always write in color. How am I hard ta find??

LePrezident:


Ok, I just found a solution by following you... however why the this duck dp, puffpuff's ways are usually s*ltry pics

but that IS what I look like....I'm a red rubber bath ducky . see my moniker??

RedRubberDucky:
but that IS what I lock like....I'm a red rubber bath ducky . see my moniker??

LePrezident:


Lol you sure don't look like a red rubber bath ducky... I pétition that you use a picture that is more like the live you.

RedRubberDucky:
only if u put up 1

LePrezident:


Hahahahaha... that's like passing a camel thru the eye of a needle.... we can however find a way to do that one-on-one. What do you say?

then bye

RedRubberDucky:
then bye