Sometimes I think I'm not destined to have r/ships, Even when I try to be d good guy (keep 1 girl at a time) to these girls, they still leave me, My last r/ship was a big blow on my ego. I met her a week b4 I left for service. While i was in camp I called her everyday cos I really loved her. when I came back to town, she refused to see me for 3weeks till I went back to where am serving. D last I called her she told me bluntly dat we never had anything together, Now wat do U call dat?

find a real friend to point out what about ur personality is off putn. I found a similar problem wit a guy that was tryin 2 get wit me he was nice n all but i cld understand why girls left him he was jst too stalkerish n clingy + too serious. Small dosage of everything is always good.

try to find out if u have any problem.identify it and get it soughted out.

mcnikes:

Sometimes I think I'm not destined to have r/ships, Even when I try to be d good guy (keep 1 girl at a time) to these girls, they still leave me, My last r/ship was a big blow on my ego. I met her a week b4 I left for service. While i was in camp I called her everyday cos I really loved her. when I came back to town, she refused to see me for 3weeks till I went back to where am serving. D last I called her she told me bluntly dat we never had anything together, Now wat do U call dat?

Guy you no try atall, you should have been her friend, before dating her, calling her everyday would only make you look like a WUSSY, call her once ot twice in a week and make her enjoy it when you talking to her, and she'll miss you if you don't call her.

Its not like I have a personality problem. I have girls dat I flow well with. But I feel nothing for them, though sumtimes we do IT. But once I see a girl dat I really feel something for, she calls off d r/ship even b4 it grows.

Its not like I have a personality problem. I have girls dat I flow well with. But I feel nothing for them, though sumtimes we do IT. But once I see a girl dat I really feel something for, she calls off d r/ship even b4 it grows.

Sorry, but may i ask what you mean by IT.

chipmunkey:

Sorry, but may i ask what you mean by IT.

QUIT PLAYIN DUMB. IT MEANS SEX OFCOURSE.

UR PROB IS NOT BEING TOO SERIOUS ITS NOT BEING SERIOUS AT ALL.

D GIRL DT QUITTED UR NEVER EXISTING RELATIONSHIP JUST DID BCUZ SHE DINT FEEL NUTHIN FOR YOU.
OTHER GIRLS DID BECUZ U WERE NOT SRIOUS WIF THEM.

PINTO.

You have no problem dear.You haven't found the right girl yet.And when you do,you will know

@poster

Are you under a curse?

^^^^^dammmm
na fight

Maybe u're used to gettin' "IT" from girls you feel nuthin 4 dat when u find d girl u feel sumthin 4, u go haywire and begin to light up lyk a christmas tree. I mean; you called d last girl everyday 4 God sake! afta jst meetin' her d previous week, i'm sure even her mum doesn't call dat much!
Moderation is d key, i'm sure d oda gals u hang out with can lecture u on dat. Try 'em!

@ mama gee. Am not under a curse.
@ moneyrule. U could be right, seems like I overdid d calling

I suggest u look for some books that talk more on relationship building or Romance novel to read and understand more about relationship handling

This is a fine topic unlike others.

@poster follow all the advice given

give advice not criticize

mama-gee:

@poster

Are you under a curse?

@ humblemate, romance novels are just bunches of rubbish, A lost man meets a shy innocent girl who 1st resists his advances, then later agrees to date him and they live happily everafter, such stories are for 13yr olds and not for someone my age, cos they don't happen in real life. Not in Naija.

@poster,you ve to take time out and rediscover ursef n then know what you want from a woman not all those fantasies n get to know ur kind of woman.I guess you have not find a woman that loves you.