I met a girl online. Same day i found out she takes lecture at school which isnt too far from my end. I asked to see her after work, and she accepted.

We met at an eatery. We gisted. Had dinner together and stayed up to around past 8pm. She told me it was time for her to go as she resides on the island. I escorted her to the bus stop and that was it for that night.

We kept in touch afterwards and she told me her exams will be starting in the coming week. We kept in touch most especially on whatsapp. After writing her first paper i asked her on whatsapp how she was coping coming all the way from island to mainland, and she told me she is squatting with her classmate, not too far from the school. I asked for the address and i went over to see her.

I got there at about 7;30pm. She asked me to wait at the junction since it wasn't good to entertain visitor when she herself is a guest. And so she came out and we talked and then we took a stroll. From our conversation she mentioned how she sleeps on the floor because her classmate has another friend she is squatting. And also how their noise distracts her whenever she tries to read.

I asked her to come with me, and promised to get her a place so she can study comfortably. She was like no. But i insisted and kept on insisting until she agreed.

She went back to the room, carried her small bag and other items and we headed to my crib. I stay in a 3-bedroom anyway.

When we got to my place i showed her the guest room. Prepared dinner and off to bed.

For 9 days she stayed. For 9 days we acted like brother and sister. For 9days we didn't do anything intimate. I get aroused and excited when ever she is on her transparent white night gown but that was how far i got. No touching. I have set my head on default against taking advantage of her staying with me.

A day she was to finish her exams i was out hanging out with my colleague. My ex, who happens to be a good friend (we broke up mutually anyway, so no grudges) called to hang out since it wasnt far from her end. We spent so much time that i asked her to follow me since it will not be safe for her to go back. But i told her i have a female friend, my sis friend at my crib, she is writing exam bla bla bla.

We got home, went in and slept. No intimacy. I knew my guest must have slept off by the time we got home anyway.

Sunday being the next day, i was at the sitting room when my guest came out all dressed up, telling me she has to leave that day, due to emergency meeting. I didn't protest. That was how she left.

After some days she whatsapped me telling me she wasn't comfortable seeing me and a lady. Well i told her she was my good friend. I invited her over since she has finished her exams, which she agreed to.

After a week she came. On a sunday night with her small bag. She planned on leaving on Tuesday, which is more like 2days. This is where the journey began.

That sunday night while we were on the couch watching tv, knowing she doesn't have exams or maybe because she had that inviting look, we kissed. we cuddled. we caressed each other. We sleep on the same bed now, but she didn't allow me make love to her. This continued, forcing her to postpone her departure date.

Friday came.

She told me while we lay down that she is having feelings bla bla. And enquired if I have same feelings too. I told her I liked her. She even gave me a bj that night. I for one didn't persist or persuade to have sex. I was contented with what was going on.

Before i continue, suffix it to say i have a serious girl friend. Someone i plan to marry. She only comes weekend since she is at her folks place. That was why I had no fear having this gal around.

Back to my guest. She said the day is coming when she would make love to me like no other girl. And that she likes it raw. There are crazy things she said anyway, making me look forward to it. From the styles and manner she mentioned, I was like.....hmm.

She went back saturday morning. Her plan is the next time she would sex me crazy.

You see? as i am typing this now, today is March 1st. ASH WEDNESDAY. Fasting don start. I am going to use this as a weapon for me to avoid her coming to my crib. Something is telling me that, if I enter that hole....to come out will be hard.

Hope I will be able to say NO, DON'T COME when she ask.

How do you deal with this kind of situation people.

I opened this new account, because who knows, she might be an active Nairaland reader.

THIS IS NO FICTION. IT S ONGOING. WRITING FROM IKEJA

please tell with all honesty that you wouldnt be entertaining guests 4 the period of 1 month.secndly,flee 4rm her..u alrdy av a serious date so y d double dealing? God over everything!

Some of you unconsciously play with ladies feelings.

I thought you said you're in a serious relationship?.

kimbra:
Some of you unconsciously play with ladies feelings.

I thought you said you're in a serious relationship?.

Yea but I started with no hidden agenda. I helped her because I have a good heart. And I proved it during her exam stay.

Michelle55:
please tell with all honesty that you wouldnt be entertaining guests 4 the period of 1 month.secndly,flee 4rm her..u alrdy av a serious date so y d double dealing? God over everything!

So what happens after one month?

pentiumboy:


Yea but I started with no hidden agenda. I helped her because I have a good heart. And I proved it during her exam stay.

Since when them dey keep "Goat" and "Yam" together?.

Hope if you get to know that the girl you are serious with and want to get married to is also kissing,caressing and giving another man head you won't run back to nairaland to disturb our peace on how girls are wicked..

...Lent or no lent there's no set time and or period to or not to sin,always do what is right in eyes of the lord

Lol

pentiumboy:



So what happens after one month?

during dat period u must av taken tym 2 reflect on if wat u r doing s ryt or wrong.. Only den wil u b able 2 make d ryt decisns nd determine if u stil want her 2 b part of ur lyf or nt

Lsofdk:
na im be say the goat go chop the yam clean mouth

The guy dey surprise me with him story.

Hadar4328:
Spa, Dinner date or Tour? I love the'God over everything' phrase in this context... Op, this!

Tour!

Honestly, you know what to do. Don't come acting dumb.

vedah:
Honestly, you know what to do. Don't come acting dumb.

No, why not you tell me.

I can go for both options.

pentiumboy:


No, why not you tell me.

I can go for both options.

You love your girlfriend and want to keep her right? If you know this answer, you're good. And your Christian faith is important too.

so op you can't do without it for 40days...
O ga oh

optional1:
so op you can't do without it for 40days...

O ga oh

its possible. but not when the person is willing and ready. and besides she knows my day by day routine. She now knows when I am at home. what if she comes unexpectedly? Tell her to go back Its crazy

pentiumboy:



its possible. but not when the person is willing and ready. and besides she knows my day by day routine. She now knows when I am at home. what if she comes unexpectedly? Tell her to go back Its crazy

Singing PSquare song This na Temptation....

The devil has set one million traps for those who are willing to take their cross and follow Jesus in his fourteen step, if you not courageous and strong you will surely fall more than three times as Jesus....

Oga she is a trap open your eyes you know what to do.. If you don't when she comes around with her surprise visit and she start showing sign of heat.. Simply say 'get behide me satan' before you know it she will be confuse and she will start asking questions before you could reply her she is gone..


Note: the devil hate that word 'get behide me satan' they so much hate it......

Man shall not live by puna alone but every single fourteen steps Jesus took to save us....


All the best sir open your eyes temptation plenty this season of lent to all Catholics especially... The Lord see us through.

optional1:


Singing PSquare song This na Temptation....

The devil has set one million traps for those who are willing to take their cross and follow Jesus in his fourteen step, if you not courageous and strong you will surely fall more than three times as Jesus....

Oga she is a trap open your eyes you know what to do.. If you don't when she comes around with her surprise visit and she start showing sign of heat.. Simply say 'get behide me satan' before you know it she will be confuse and she will start asking questions before you could reply her she is gone..


Note: the devil hate that word 'get behide me satan' they so much hate it......

Man shall not live by puna alone but every single fourteen steps Jesus took to save us....


All the best sir open your eyes temptation plenty this season of lent to all Catholics especially... The Lord see us through.

Well that's a nice tip. I just got to ignore her WhatsApp messages plus phone calls henceforth, or juat hi, hello etc. Hoping that would pass the message to her

pentiumboy:


Well that's a nice tip. I just got to ignore her WhatsApp messages plus phone calls henceforth, or juat hi, hello etc. Hoping that would pass the message to her

so u already know say to ignore her messages and chat na part of weytin u suppose do. You come come here dey ask jamb question bah......



No allow me slap you from here oh.

optional1:



so u already know say to ignore her messages and chat na part of weytin u suppose do. You come come here dey ask jamb question bah......



No allow me slap you from here oh.

But that leaves the aspect of her appearing at my door step. Women! She might decide to appear by 10pm knowing I cannot be so mean to push her out

pentiumboy:


But that leaves the aspect of her appearing at my door step. Women! She might decide to appear by 10pm knowing I cannot be so mean to push her out

oga d ball they ur hand the goal post dey look you no keeper.. If u like throw the ball inside d empty net if u like find person to b keeper....

You know what to do A woman can't rape a man according to naija law of reasoning..

Jacksparr0w127:
Lol

If na you na to bleep am throway face ba

optional1:



oga d ball they ur hand the goal post dey look you no keeper.. If u like throw the ball inside d empty net if u like find person to b keeper....

You know what to do A woman can't rape a man according to naija law of reasoning..

Thanks dear, I will send you a message for every day I escape temptation

optional1:



oga d ball they ur hand the goal post dey look you no keeper.. If u like throw the ball inside d empty net if u like find person to b keeper....

You know what to do A woman can't rape a man according to naija law of reasoning..

hahhaha this is funny but true... The Op has already involved himself by having those hot romance and BJ... At the end of the day, at least someone will get hurt...

firstking01:
If na you na to bleep am throway face ba

Na you talk am o. I didn't say nothing

Singing #i know that I can make it.....I know that I can stand....no matter what....

pentiumboy:


Thanks dear, I will send you a message for every day I escape temptation

lolz
for wat reason am not a priest na....


So d day u fall inside the trap you wont message me.. So this will happen for 40days abi? Ode

optional1:



lolz
for wat reason am not a priest na....


So d day u fall inside the trap you wont message me.. So this will happen for 40days abi? Ode

I will post the message here. Today is day 1.....%100 pass