Dis will take a while, but pls read thru

Now I've been seeing lots of threads n blogs telling guys how to impress ladies, how to form hard guy, bad guy, alpha guy, how to do dis, dat, bla bla blaa...

The truth is...,

Guys, u dont have to "form" any kind of character to win or impress a lady. All you have to do is simply "BE YOURSELF, BE REAL".

Let me use myseld as a case study. I'm naturally a shy person, cool quiet dude. Growing up, i had lots of female frnds. One or two became my chic at some time. Why? cos i was dat cool, shy easygoing guy. Den i started forming bad/hard guy after reading threads abt how to act just to win d ladies over. Some gals liked dat, the ones dat lykd my old real self didnt. Who am i deceiving? Myself ofcos. Cos i know dats not d real me.

Now here is my point...

Why play a hard guy wen u r not one? Why pretend as if u dont care wen u actually do care? How long will u continue 2 form, to live a regimented life? and how many ladies do u intend to woo dat way?

Dere is a woman 4 every man. Be urself. No other person can be u. Be unique. No hiding, no pretending. Be open-minded. If u love, show it. If u care, display it. Some guys will say "dont tell her u love her". Who r u deceiving by hiding ur feelings? Woman wey go stay, go stay. The one dat will go, will go. no matter wat u do. Be original. Dont let one guy somwhere tell u how to run ur life simply because he has sampled many women yet cant find one 2 call his own.
Women are one, yet dey r not d same.

Fellas, dont get me wrong. Some guys grew up in hard conditions, thereby bcoming rugged themselves. U're not dem, so dey shudnt impose their ideology of life on u simply because gals lyk dem cos of dat. The ones dat will lyk u cos u r not are out dere, as long as u r being yourself. Its just a matter of time.

Drop ur comments guys. Ladies can view comments. No bashing abeg.

Please come again, I forgot to read it .

they say the easiest thing to be in life is yourself and the most difficult is trying to be someone else. please don't let anybody put you in that position.

Its best being urself.
For how lng will u continue to pretend to b wat ure nt. Character is like a flame...it will surely come out


Just like u cnt run away frm ur shadow, same way u cnt hide ur true self forever

missyge:
Its best being urself.
For how lng will u continue to pretend to b wat ure nt. Character is like a flame...it will surely come out


Just like u cnt run away frm ur shadow, same way u cnt hide ur true self forever

spot on.

RadiantBae:

the problem with black pple...we no dey read unless 4 exam

Uchesis:


the problem with black pple...we no dey read unless 4 exam

I didn't even read for that

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RadiantBae:


I didn't even read for that