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Re: Sex And Consent In Marriage by Nobody: 10:01am On Mar 15, 2017 |
bukatyne: To opine that consent be necessary in a state where consensuality has been forgone is to defy the canons of logic. And, no!, "blanket consent" would not be the right terminology to use in describing the nature of marital vows as we have them today. Both parties "specifically" vowed to submit their bodies to each other, and at all times. If one has taken the vow to be "readily available" to another, why then must one party still need to agree before the other party can excercise his/her conjugal rights? This is just another proof that marriage is a fraud.
Apples and oranges. While a child cannot choose his/her parents, a man/woman, however, can choose who they intend on living the remainder of their lives with. There's a big difference. A child never vowed to follow the dictates of his/her parents to the letter; married couples on the other hand voluntarily and conscientiously gave up their freewill – as regards sex – at the moment they recited their marital vows. It's only proper that they follow through with what they got themselves into. |
Re: Sex And Consent In Marriage by bukatyne(f): 10:09am On Mar 15, 2017 |
DarkRebel101: Please enlighten me, if a husband wants his wife, what does he do? @bold: I think that's what you are driving at. |
Re: Sex And Consent In Marriage by Nobody: 10:25am On Mar 15, 2017 |
bukatyne: You already know the answer. If she says NO, it is within his rights to take it forcefully and it shouldn't be labelled as a criminal offense. Ditto the woman; if a wife so desperately craves for a romp and is stymied by her husband; since, by virtue of him pledging unfettered access of his body and soul to her upon the moment they got married, she is therefore obligated to have her way with him and it shouldn't be considered criminal if she takes him by way of coercion, even though that appears to be one hell of a physical impossibility. The above might shake your senses a bit, but it's only in keeping true to the vow couples take on the day of their wedding. I am not unaware that sex in marriage, when it is consensual, does appeal more – it would be disingenous not to acknowledge that fact. What I am saying is it still cannot be said to be rape if it isn't consensual. Rape in marriage is a paradox.
Yes! It is one of the many things I am driving at! |
Re: Sex And Consent In Marriage by Blonchilli(m): 10:27am On Mar 15, 2017 |
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Re: Sex And Consent In Marriage by Nobody: 9:55pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
pcguru1: My wife deny me sex in marriage? I will travel and cheat on her...get a side chick and don't bother her for one year |
Re: Sex And Consent In Marriage by bukatyne(f): 11:01am On Mar 23, 2017 |
myking95: Really? And after one year what happens? 1 Like |
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