bukatyne:

Even if there is blanket consent by the virtue of their vows and definition of marriage, there is still a need to agree before se.x.

A parent by virtue of having a child has automatically declared responsibility for all the needs of the child. Yet the child has to ask, cajole or accept the rejection of his parents sometimes.

DarkRebel101:


To opine that consent be necessary in a state where consensuality has been forgone is to defy the canons of logic. And, no!, "blanket consent" would not be the right terminology to use in describing the nature of marital vows as we have them today. Both parties "specifically" vowed to submit their bodies to each other, and at all times.

If one has taken the vow to be "readily available" to another, why then must one party still need to agree before the other party can excercise his/her conjugal rights?

This is just another proof that marriage is a fraud.



Apples and oranges. While a child cannot choose his/her parents, a man/woman, however, can choose who they intend on living the remainder of their lives with. There's a big difference. A child never vowed to follow the dictates of his/her parents to the letter; married couples on the other hand voluntarily and conscientiously gave up their freewill – as regards sex with the other party – at the moment they recited their marital vows.
It's only proper that they follow through with what they got themselves into.

bukatyne:

Please enlighten me, if a husband wants his wife, what does he do?

@bold: I think that's what you are driving at.

bukatyne:


The idea of seperating is to deny your spouse whatever benefits they enjoy been married to you so they can sit up. It's just like a parent taking all privileges of a child to correct a behaviour.

E.g. a wife doesn't have se.X with her husband (for no justified reason) and the husband has tried several stuffs which did not work.

He can leave the house for a while to the woman to sit up. When she begins to do things her husband traditionally does, she begins to weigh if her behaviour is worth the stress she is undergoing and change.

Again, this will only work if both parties really cherish the marriage else it's good riddance to bad rubbish and they go their seperate ways.

pcguru1:


Feminist said we men should take NO as NO and anything further than that is rape, so you can blame us.

myking95:


My wife deny me sex in marriage? I will travel and cheat on her...get a side chick and don't bother her for one year