herdekunley9ja:
this one don mad ooo... abi na Highness dae worry her ...Ashewo

It's your type she is talking about..Why call her an 'asewo'...Keyboard warrior..Common get lost,silly rat-faced coward

GreenMavro:


First to comment...First of all(go down low), I thank God almighty for the gift of life, for allowing me to be alive today its not because i drank five alive or cos i attend deeper life, even doh my eyes are dim, am still redeemed. He provided food me daily on my table(na #100 dy my wallet now) even if na vegetable, it makes my belle stable, now i am able to read the bible.


Secondly, I no dy religious or Godly neither am i wordly but am worthy to be coounted among the living, inspite of the humble begining and the little cash am giving she's still nodding n m still secreting


Lastly, I hate ESSAY, i prefere THEORY

Abeg nairaland they pay first to comment me.

No b ESE na Dino melaye kind of husband dey await u.

toye440:

Abeg nairaland they pay first to comment me.

I will show you my bank alert wen lala pay me for month end...the money still dy fixed deposit e go drop month end

Just negodi nwanyi choro ilu di?


Wetin concern me

TINALETC3:
Just pray u marry a gud man while u 2 b a gud wife, 4get Al dis blah blah blah wey u dey yan, d highest u cn do is divorce.

A good wife doesn't define a psycothic man if you like be a virtuous woman he will still beat you because you are looking at him.
Atleast divorce is something and not bla bla ba.
Keep on praying until he kills you.
Mtcheeeeew

That's the spirit girl, if I cant fight u jst remember God is my strength....pls if u want to test ur power or strength go abeokuta olumo rock dey there go there and and contest with with the rock stop killing women.haba

TINALETC3:
Just pray u marry a gud man while u 2 b a gud wife, 4get Al dis blah blah blah wey u dey yan, d highest u cn do is divorce.

Wise lady.

GudluckIBB:
Blessed are the peace makers for they shall obtain mercy from their husband

Mercy? You are sick mentally.

CeoNewshelm:
Ese Eriata, one of the fake Big Brother Naija Housemate has reacted to the spate of domestic violence in Nigeria by issuing a stern warning to her future husband.

See her message as posted on Social network:


http://www.newshelm.com/2017/03/ese-of-big-brother-naija-warns-future.html

Wait a minute, that part of the wedding ceremony where the Priest asks, "will you love and cherish this man, honour him and respect him blah blah blah...", I think these women freedom fighters have deleted it from their own memory bank. Was there a place where it is written that a woman 'must not shut up' for once or even this so-called 'walk away? Why must only the man be in the position to walk away? These women are just so insecure it reeks to high heavens.

Women are like mad dogs barking at anything, husbandhoods, abeg, let walk away when seeing these ladies doing what they know best(mouth strength).

yourexcellency:
Then no husband for you

Who needs husband when you are successful and fulfilled

hardwerk:
yes but any lady that hits me first and expects me to knot a tie and act cool is still stuck with the dinosaurs

Okay, it's whatever.

morereb10:
anu ohia like

And what is our government waiting to short this good for nothing program down?

until they promote child rape?

this big brother Nigeria should not be airing in this country for Gods sake

Our kids are watching this and is not conducive

Because dstv doesn't have parental control i bet your kids watch porn and you blame it on porn websites
Rubbish.

kennes10:
So I was with a loved one d day d hubby hit her... Was shocked to see her hold her cheeks... Wen he attempted to hit her again. I stepped in and d beatings landed on me... But nah I will defend myself. For every physical pain u will feel physical pains too and financial pain. So yeah I was hit but then his properties were damaged. I am a woman and I won't let a man hit me without fighting back physically or legally

I totally agree with you .

That's why advice women to enroll in tekwando class, enroll in it for self defense.

That Jennifer Lopez's film "Enough" passed a lesson to me.

Vorpal:
So is she now giving excuse for uncouth women to run their mouth? It's okay for her to run her mouth and say any degrading thing about her husband, and the dude should just "walk away"?

I still don't understand why all these warnings her one sided. Why don't she warn women to not provoke the man to blinding rage? Or is it all men the have equal temperaments?

P: I don't support men beating their wife o, but I understand no sane man would beat a woman if he hasn't been aggravated to the point he can't take it anymore putting in mind his temperament.

So because a woman runs her mouth you decide to beat her so she will now respect you more abi.
Ode na poison you go chop last last.
Fear women.

Rose2014:
Naija women are now waking up slowly but surely

The issue of domestic violence should not be treated lightly.

As for ladies, u better have a source of income. Housewives are more likely to stay in abusive marriages for obvious reasons

Babe u said it all...Most women stay in abusive marriages because of lack of income...Ladies housewife no be work oh..just make sure u have something doing incase of tomorrow...

GiaGunn:
Lol....trust Edo girls

She's Urhobo!

sarahade:

Because dstv doesn't have parental control i bet your kids watch porn and you blame it on porn websites
Rubbish.

why wont u love the program

parental control...hmmmm chai

A couple living next to my house had a serious argument today. The husband was so mad at the wife for sending a message to their landlord, I don't know the content of the message but I heard the man fuming and scolding the woman and the woman in question was giving it back to him back to back. Some women will never learn, how can any sane woman test the patience of a man who is already raging like fire? What if that man picks up an object and use it on her? Thank God no blood was spilled all thanks to those who intervened.

kennes10:
So I was with a loved one d day d hubby hit her... Was shocked to see her hold her cheeks... Wen he attempted to hit her again. I stepped in and d beatings landed on me... But nah I will defend myself. For every physical pain u will feel physical pains too and financial pain. So yeah I was hit but then his properties were damaged. I am a woman and I won't let a man hit me without fighting back physically or legally

Try it with somebody lyk me. Na dat day u go fear fear

TINALETC3:
Just pray u marry a gud man while u 2 b a gud wife, 4get Al dis blah blah blah wey u dey yan, d highest u cn do is divorce.

Don't mind the stwpid lady...yarning dust.

Though i will never raisr my hand to beat a lady but some ladies must learn proper decorum cos some can make an angel turn to a wife beater

TinaAnita:
A couple living next to my house had a serious argument today. The husband was so mad at the wife for sending a message to their landlord, I don't know the content of the message but I heard the man fuming and scolding the woman and the woman in question was giving it back to him back to back. Some women will never learn, how can any sane woman test the patience of a man who is already raging like fire? What if that man picks up an object and use it on her? Thank God no blood was spilled all thanks to those who intervened.

With your mindset I believe you will have a domestic violence free marriage.

I once had this thread removed from front page by Seun and I guess it was because many people never read the contents but only judged by the title which is now modified.

The piece is a life saver as many ladies had thanked me for it.

https://www.nairaland.com/3094868/6-ways-women-avoid-domestic

Some men will be reading this and will be laughing because it is not every man that is frustrated in marriage beats the wife. Some simply date girls outside marriage without the knowledge of their wives while some beat their wives. So, to every woman and man, you must learn to have peace in your marriage.

Most women think their husbands are responsible for grooming peace in the home but it is a two way efforts. The man must stay faithful and the woman must stay with their mouth cultured. But, it is always the other way, some women sabi talk even when they are not supposed to talk so as some men like to look at other women to get tempted even when they are supposed to focus on their businesses.
When you give room to these opportunities, problems must abound.
Essay can say what she wants to say but the fact is that the way she talks, is the same way most of those who have problems talked that landed them in problems and yet they could not kill their husband. Mind her barely will a woman's power or strength equate to that of a man.
She should start learning to talk in a disciplined manner if she even wants to get married.

lady2sexy:
Please I came Here to read about Suleman's S*x scandal
that story is too juicy
please what is the latest development

latest development! happy about the issue smh

laplace19:
So she failed to advise women to stop perplexing their hubby or doing things that will make their husband to react....

This one no follow

mtchewwww...so some men that don't beat their wives do not know how to react abi, or re they from different planet. ladies cannot talk again cos men will say they re rude but men cab talk anyhow to women and they don't have the right to react abi. i guess that's how ur dad treated ur mum,men cant just think.

ekems2017:
You also got to behave well with your husband even though it's not a criteria.

Please can you explain the "it's not a criteria" part

Nathdoug:
You don't even know how to speak good English you ese...dat would be enough for a man to beat the helll out of you...olosho

Lol
You are a good example of what she's talking about

IamAirforce1:
No man should hit on a woman

And women learn to control your mouth

Well said
Let them know

laplace19:
So she failed to advise women to stop perplexing their hubby or doing things that will make their husband to react....

This one no follow

So the best way to react is to hit her?
No matter what a woman says or does... .No man has the right to hit her,its better you walk away or ignore..

missbronze:
I totally agree with you .

That's why advice women to enroll in tekwando class, enroll in it for self defense.

That Jennifer Lopez's film "Enough" passed a lesson to me.

Osheeey oh baby!