Cutehector:
since a high number of men have slept around before marriage, also applicable to the ladies, dat means either of them is susceptible to cheating in marriage.. Irrespective of their religious views..



Don't tell me ladies dont engage in premarital sex just as d men Do..

Of course, women are involved as well.

Na lie.. Had sex with girls on d fast date severally.

maysimsimple:
Na lie.. Had sex with girls on d fast date severally.

and I believe those ladies u banged would come on social media to express their hate for sex on d first date

Cutehector:
supposing I were wooing you.. What sort of assurances would you appreciate I make.. Cuz you have seen it all..

So you assume and assumptions they say is the lowest form of knowledge.

Try better cutie.

Here's the thing.. Women most certainly want sex (sometimes casual) as much as men do, but coming to a highly hypocritical and judgmental society like ours they have to curb or completely hide this desire while occasionally caving in on strong promises of love and marriage.

Our men have not attained tolerance to women's sexually expressiveness even though they see nothing wrong with them being sexually active before they decide to settle down(which is very hypocritical and fundamentally wrong). So in societies like ours, its better for women to hide their sexual desires or resort to using dildos as someone suggested.

Bumbae1:

absolutly ''No''

Cutehector:
I still don't get it. Why do ladies want guys to lie to them about love to gain access to having sex with them? Am not trying to say all girls should go go fvck any guy that asks them out.. But what intrigues me boils down to these questions....



1. If a girl is feeling hornnny? Why can't she just have sex with someone without strings attached?


2. Why do ladies attach so much importance to sex? Its d reason for most heartbreaks..


3. Why do ladies frown at sex on d first date?



As a lady, must a guy profess love to you if you are sexually active?


To d guys, do you think a lady is cheap if she has sex with you with no strings attached?


please send constructive comments only.

For me, sex in Nigeria is over-rated and somewhat out of place. Lots of men take women here as sex-objects. As a result, they do not tend to figure out what makes every woman unique.

First, a lady who is feeling the urge to have sex might not actually do so with no string attached due to the behavior of the man involved. Most men don't understand how women think.

DeeTus:
For me, sex in Nigeria is over-rated and somewhat out of place. Lots of men take women here as sex-objects. As a result, they do not tend to figure out what makes every woman unique.

First, a lady who is feeling the urge to have sex might not actually do so with no string attached due to the behavior of the man involved. Most men don't understand how women think.

I understand you. The dude in question might take advantage of it and feel that she likes him..

Cutehector:
I understand you. The dude in question might take advantage of it and feel that she likes him..

Not only that. A woman may likely have sex with you with nothing attached if she thinks you're cool and will respect her afterwards.

Second, lots of women feel sex is so important to their dignity and of course, would want you to prove that you love them beyond reasonable doubt. Women are complicated!