Matt Duczeminski
We men sometimes get a bad rap. The stereotypical “man” doesn’t do any of the following. However, the only men who are actually like this are created by writers as sitcom fodder (hopefully). In truth, when a man finds the person he knows he’ll be spending the rest of his life with, he’ll certainly work his hardest to keep them by his side at all times. If you have a man that adheres to the following, you know he’s a keeper for life.

1. He’s fully committed to you and your relationship together.
Being there throughout the good times is easy. It’s when the going gets tough that it’s important that you both stick together. Real men don’t run out after a little fight, and they don’t take it out on their significant others when they’re in a bad mood. They understand how important their relationship is, and won’t let anything at all get in the way of persevering.

2. He doesn’t avoid problems.
Like I said, a real man doesn’t run out when things get rough. And he also doesn’t bottle up his feelings until he explodes, either. If something is bothering him within the relationship, he brings it up carefully and respectfully. He is comfortable talking through the issues he’s been having, and will make a genuine effort to fix any underlying issue that’s been plaguing the relationship. He understands that even major problems don’t define the relationship; it’s how you both work through them that does.

3. He pays attention to the little things.
If he lived alone, he probably wouldn’t care if the dishes weren’t done, the garbage was overflowing, or if the only thing to eat in the house was pizza rolls. But he knows you care about these things, so he takes time away from what he enjoys doing to make sure the house is clean and the fridge is stocked. He won’t ever watch a movie you both love without you by his side, and he lets you pick the iPod playlist in the car. Even if he really, really despises Top 40 radio…

4. He is smart and wise.
I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt that you picked a smart one. But the true measure of a man’s intelligence is not simply how smart he is, but what he does with his wisdom. He sees things from an objective point of view, and is able to give you great advice with any situation you face. He puts himself in your shoes constantly, so he understands exactly what you’re going through, and he doesn’t blow you off with half-hearted cliches. And you just know he will pass on great words of wisdom to your future children.

5. He wants you to feel good about yourself.
He thinks you’re beautiful; why would he be with you if he didn’t? But it’s not enough for him to think so; he also goes to great lengths to make sure you know you’re beautiful. And it’s not just simple words of reassurance, either. He’ll be able to sense when you think you’re having a bad hair day, and make it a point to compliment your ‘do. He’ll come up with ways to make you feel beautiful, inside and out, regardless of how you feel at the time. He’ll do whatever he can to make you see yourself as he sees you each and every day.

6. He makes your problems his own.
If something’s bothering you, it bothers him. He will take on your problems and try to figure out ways to solve them, or at least get through them with the least amount of pain possible. Your issues keep him up at night, but that doesn’t bother him. What does bother him is when you’re facing a problem that he can’t help you with. When these situations inevitably arise, he does the best he can by standing by your side no matter what.

7. He laughs at your mistakes.
He knows everyone makes mistakes, and he’s able to shrug yours off easily. If you say something that offended him, he knows you didn’t mean it. He’ll laugh it off, even if it did sting a little. If you let him down in some way (like you had to stay late at work even though he had a nice dinner planned), he won’t hold it against you. He may be caring and sensitive, but he’ll never make you feel bad for unintentionally hurting his feelings.

8. He takes his own mistakes seriously.
On the other hand, anything he does that ends up hurting you will weigh heavy on his shoulders for a long while. He rarely beats himself up about much, but when he causes you pain, he’ll do anything to right his wrongs. He’ll never tell his love to “lighten up” or that he “was only kidding.” He knows you enough to know exactly what to do to harm you, but he would never in a million years dream of doing so.








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Give your best in relationship, if it doesn't work out with one, move on, there's someone who will surely value you and the traits you possess

very romantic .see as dat guy lift im babe over im shoulder with ease ....though if my babe was sized like Eniola Badmus i had think twice putting her over my shoulder .Dextology...top of the morning to u .

Nice points

lefulefu:
very romantic .see as dat guy lift im babe over im shoulder with ease ....though if my babe was sized like Eniola Badmus i had think twice putting her over my shoulder .Dextology...top of the morning to u .

Morning boss, how your night na?

Hope you de gym enough to fit lift Adeolar15?

Abi Na queen you want lift?

Dextology:


Morning boss, how your night baby?

Hope you de gym enough to fit lift Adeolar15?

Abi Na queen you want lift?

Aderola15 wey be like feather
hmmm QueenSuccubus i lift dat one she go bite my ear

lefulefu:

Aderola15 wey be like feather
hmmm QueenSuccubus i lift dat one she go bite my ear

Hehehe, no be by the size o. Some lepa get weight pass some orobo people o

PEOPLE CHANGE!!!!!!!!

lefulefu:
very romantic .see as dat guy lift im babe over im shoulder with ease ....though if my babe was sized like Eniola Badmus i had think twice putting her over my shoulder .Dextology...top of the morning to u .

You know if the guy wan carry am go do rituals? E fit no be romance my brother

So this is why girls don't want to leave me once they got to know me

Goldenheart:
PEOPLE CHANGE!!!!!!!!

People don't change, it's their interest that change.

If I see a fine girl in the club and decided to take her for a fast ride. I will do everything to impress her, once we are done and she wants to stick around then things must surely change cos my interest was short term.

For someone I am genuinely interested for a long term affair, I will tell you the harsh reality of what I expect and I can never change.

Most times, these expectations do scare them away cos they didn't expect such responsibility from so early in a relationship so they bail. However the one that stayed, I treat her like a queen.
For others, I have to tell them what they want to hear so that I get what I want fast

lefulefu:


hmmm QueenSuccubus i lift dat one she go bite my ear

Follow me in za oza room ...

Show me that ur a BIG MAN

QueenSuccubus:







Follow me in za oza room ...

Show me that ur a BIG MAN

Hahahahaha
Lefulefu you are in trouble today

Why you dey form?.

ITbomb:
So this is why girls don't want to leave me once they got to know me

thornapple:
Why you dey form?.

My Lagertha. Do you wish to know me more?
Promise me you will not fall in love with me

thornapple:


Hahahahaha
Lefulefu you are in trouble today

He will ....

Goldenheart:
PEOPLE CHANGE!!!!!!!!

Yes but we always hope for the better.

ITbomb:

My Lagertha. Do you wish to know me more?
Promise me you will not fall in love with me

Lol
u men are so full of yourselves o. for real.

thornapple:
Yes but we always hope for the better.

u mean by trial and error

Tajbol4splend:


You know if the guy wan carry am go do rituals? E fit no be romance my brother

African men and ritual things make me weak.

Goldenheart:


u mean by trial and error

Who wan do trial and error with her happiness?.

ITbomb:

People don't change, it's their interest that change.

If I see a fine girl in the club and decided to take her for a fast ride. I will do everything to impress her, once we are done and she wants to stick around then things must surely change cos my interest was short term.

For someone I am genuinely interested for a long term affair, I will tell you the harsh reality of what I expect and I can never change.

Most times, these expectations do scare them away cos they didn't expect such responsibility from so early in a relationship so they bail. However the one that stayed, I treat her like a queen.
For others, I have to tell them what they want to hear so that I get what I want fast

Hmm. that's another way to look at it

Dextology:



Hehehe, no be by the size o. Some lepa get weight pass some orobo people o

so true ..e be like u sabi d matter sef .there was this playful babe in the lodge then.there was a time i was coming frm a long trip ...as i enter the lodge that evening she just rush at me the way Dangote truck go speed come .omo as i carry her na so my back wan almost bend cos i no expect say she go heavy like dat since she slim and petite .but then sha if u can carry a bag of rice without flinching...there is no lady u cannot lift in this world cos on average na we guys weigh pass dem cos of our stronger denser bones .

Tajbol4splend:


You know if the guy wan carry am go do rituals? E fit no be romance my brother

Lmaoooo nairalanders wont kill somebody

QueenSuccubus:







Follow me in za oza room ...

Show me that ur a BIG MAN

thats not u but Ratsputia .carrying u to za oza room right now ...abeg leave that snooker board alone

Tajbol4splend:


You know if the guy wan carry am go do rituals? E fit no be romance my brother

if to say na rituals he wan take her do na like dis he for carry her

Dextology:
Give your best in relationship, if it doesn't work out with one, move on, there's someone who will surely value you and the traits you possess

you are so correct..i like your comment..i wish i could turn it to 2 million likes

Datz so true

lefulefu:

if to say na rituals he wan take her do na like dis he for carry her

This one na marriage in those days nah
No time for story...just nak apako and carry go

Nigerian men can't relate.

sirusX:

This one na marriage in those days nah
No time for story...just nak apako and carry go

badt guy