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I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Sexually Attracted To Someone Else. / I Am In Love With Her, But Not Sexually Attracted To Her. / “I Did This Since He Could Not Sexually Satisfy Me” (2) (3) (4)
Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by BlueShine(m): 2:33pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Sorry guys don't know if the topic is the right one or not I met this really pretty girl on 4th of march, her beauty caught my attention with her nice figure, we got talking, Went on a date and then I asked her out she accepted. She is a really nice person, well behaved with good character, a kind of girl any man would want, but the thing here is I don't feel sexually attracted to her at all! Don't get me wrong I am madly in love with her, but I don't feel urge to have Sex with her, I just love to be around her, I just love to hear her talk, her presence alone is soo satisfying that I don't even want sex. We are more like best friends. But guys I don't understand, she has a nice body and on top that she is beautiful but I am not sexually attracted to her 1 bit. I see her more as a friend and someone I just want to be with for the rest of my life. Although if I think of sex with her I get hard and all that but just normally without me thinking really hard, my mind never goes there, we could be together alone and not do anything, not that I cant make love to her if I want to but I just don't think of it, being with her alone is just so overwhelming. Guys I don't know if anyone here has been through this before, it's quite surprising, she is the only girl I have felt this attraction to, I am havin thoughts like maybe she is my soul mate or something that's why it's like this.? 1 Like |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by mazizitonene(m): 2:40pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
hmm....brb.....feeling sleepy..... |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Aliyeous(m): 2:41pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Ar u gay? Its lyk shes 2 soft 4 u 2 handle n u tink shes fragile u nid sumtn HARD...chck urself bro |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by BlueShine(m): 2:43pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Aliyeous: No not gay. |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Nobody: 2:43pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Is that the true pure love we keep hearing about? 2 Likes |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by BlueShine(m): 2:46pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
mazizitonene: Ok bro |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by BlueShine(m): 2:47pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Jodha(f): 2:50pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
It's because yhu feel true and pure love for her.. Just. Leave it that way... Don't spoil it! 3 Likes |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by ghost3040: 2:51pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
EXERCISE LIL PATIENCE...THE ELDERS WILL SOON ARRIVE TO DISH OUT ADVICE.. |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by ghost3040: 2:52pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
EXERCISE LIL PATIENCE...THE ELDES WILL SOON ARRIVE TO DISH OUT ADVICE... |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Nobody: 2:56pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
either u gay or u feeling the type of love someone would feel for a friend or a sibling.either way u ought not to have asked her out.u should have a sort of sexual attraction for ur wife or girlfriend..if u dont have such..dont ask her out . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Kondomatic(m): 2:57pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Jodha:So love get two types? 1. True and pure 1. Dirty and false Is that what you're saying? |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Nobody: 2:58pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Amarabae(f): 3:00pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
what do you want us to do now? 1 Like |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by BlueShine(m): 3:03pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Jodha: Okay thanks |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by BlueShine(m): 3:04pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Amarabae: Nothing I just wanted to know if someone else has gon through this? |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Jodha(f): 3:10pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Kondomatic: Love is pure and true... Lust is dirty and false.. That's what I'm saying 1 Like |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Kondomatic(m): 3:16pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Jodha:Love without lust in a relationship is nothing. |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Jodha(f): 3:32pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Kondomatic: My dear.. It's yhur opinion but you're totally wrong.. Yhu better change that mentality.. |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Nobody: 3:33pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
it's good ,it's not a problem in fact your relationship is still very young |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by REIIGN(m): 3:34pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Amarabae:We might as well start dancing "Ati logwu" cultural dance 1 Like |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Feranchek(m): 3:34pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Jodha: You make brain wella!!! BlueShine: You lobe her for who she is. She brings joy to you and that all that matters for now. Let's hear the continuation in 6 months time. Time, they say, reveals all things and is also a healer. |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Blazed(m): 3:53pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Maybe you guys are related by blood without knowing it. Pls investigate! |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Headlesschicken(m): 4:01pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Give it some time,buh if d feeling persists,then you bring her to me.... Before you bore her sexual life to death... |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by abduljabbar4(m): 4:21pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Aliyeous:You and your likes really have a serious problem. A man has the right to choose the type pf women he likes. Some like em fat, some slim, some chubby and so there is nothing gay about liking fit women |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Aliyeous(m): 4:25pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
abduljabbar4:did i in anyway cal ur name wen i made dat post? SAKARAI KAWAI |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by abduljabbar4(m): 4:37pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Aliyeous: Banza wawa. Who do you even think you are? |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Aliyeous(m): 4:40pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
abduljabbar4:am a nobody. Sannu dan gidan karuna |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by ShawttySoFyne(f): 5:15pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
This is the kind of bf most gals are hoping for Dont try to touch her 1 Like |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by BlueShine(m): 6:01pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Blazed: hmmm well, she is of a different tribe though, but the tribe is related to each other though, i will ask her more about her family though, thanks. because the way i feel for her is very different from normal love is the reason i have to come here to ask if anyone has been through this,m it is really weird, i insanely like her but not in a sexual way, feel lots of deep connection to her |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Nobody: 7:17pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
before we continue, how would you feel if you discover that another guy is smashing her? would you feel jealous? i |
Re: Not Sexually Attracted To My Gf by Kondomatic(m): 8:53pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Jodha:In dating and marriage, love without lust is useless and I personally prefer friendship and lust to love. |
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