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What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by LazyAF: 9:53pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Good Evening, I decided to post this here because I need matured advice. We have been dating long distance for about 4 years now and somehow, the spark isn't as it used to be. My job is really tasking and so is his thats why we only get to talk at night and most times, one of us is usually asleep when the other person is ready to talk. I feel it slipping from my hands and need your advice on what to do to make this work again. |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
It takes great effort to keep a distance relationship going. There must be committed efforts to see that is really works out if you truly love and value your partner. To keep the spark going there should be creativity, create out time to talk with your partner, ensure there is physical contacts by visiting your partner once in awhile. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Flexherbal(m): 10:04pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Communication is the key. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by LazyAF: 10:06pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Dextology: Thanks for your contribution. Creativity is the one thing I am trying achieve. Do you have any ideas? |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
LazyAF: I was in that dilemma when I was involved in a distance relationship, have to check various means to keep the spark going. For a start how long have you been in the relationship? |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by ikbnice(m): 10:23pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Maje calls like you own MTN anf Goo combined. Communication is the key. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Try as much as you can to create time for both of you. and when you get that time, discuss important things to strengthen and sustain your relationship. During any short break at work, drop a text for him. make a short quick video and send to him. If possible, fly over and spend the weekend with him. |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by LazyAF: 11:05pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Joavid: I wish I could. I stay with my parents Dem no wan hear say you go see man... |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by LazyAF: 11:08pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
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Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by LazyAF: 11:11pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
I can see a simple solution and some people are busy blowing grammar get a part time boyfriend and save yourself some stress . |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 11:12pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
LazyAF:you be small pikin can't u give them one strong excuse? 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by LazyAF: 11:16pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
sasko: I no get power to keep one, so na two I go come dey do as once Abeg o. No strength for that. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 11:16pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Joavid: fly as in.... you forgot you are taking to a lady and not a bird or a witch . 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by LazyAF: 11:18pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Joavid: I have ran out of STRONG EXCUSES. Try giving excuses for 4 years and see where that would land you. I just want an idea of what to do to bring back the spark. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
LazyAF: forget the tory....hee don tey way nyash they for back, make we hear words jorr.. even in corporate world you must find a way to hold body but just be smart about it...just don't get caught if you can vouch for the very guy you can also believe Buhari will return dollar to Naira to its former price . 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
LazyAF:eleyi gidi gan |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Flexherbal(m): 6:10am On Mar 22, 2017 |
LazyAF: Make out time to go and see him. Hope this distance and work will not also be a challenge in marriage! |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 6:21am On Mar 22, 2017 |
Sorry,i dont bliv in d long distance ish.its either you are in a relationship with someone you can be with whenever you want,or you are single.who has time to be wasting on calls when the other person is surely flexing. Abi no be man again??no go kill yasef when you dey find sparks for person wey get fire wia im dey. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 8:06am On Mar 22, 2017 |
Not everyone is cut out for LDR. It's always rosy in the beginning but keeping it up is hard work. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by stunningjudy(f): 10:03am On Mar 22, 2017 |
LazyAF:Communicate as much as you can, reminisce on past memories, have crazy imaginations. LDR requires enough imagination and communication (video calls),it's not easy though. If your partner is in Nigeria, try to visit. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Janeyinspires(f): 11:17am On Mar 22, 2017 |
Lemmi take it from where you wrote,'when one is ready to chat,the other is sleeping.' There must be a committed effort from both of you to keep the spark.Let it not be one-sided.Both of you should agree on when to chat and all that.Always see it as a date with him online.You can be creative with your chat when chatting.Check this scenario......You:Hey boo,I'm coming down to your place.Him: Ok bae,I prepared your fav dish.Lemmi set the table for to.You:That's sweet!Can't wait to be there.Plz don't forget to play my fav song at the background.Him:I will.You:Boo,I'm at your doorstep,come open the door.......and it continues.With thiz type and way of chatting,you won't feel the distance let alone losing the spark.Again,don't forget to send text messages at interval and make videos to share. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by LazyAF: 6:06pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Janeyinspires: Wow! Thanks! I'll try this. In short, I'm calling him now. |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by LazyAF: 6:07pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
stunningjudy: Thanks. I appreciate this. |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by arleck: 6:22pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
chinma414:Evil gurl, see as she poision Op mind, sharp-sharp |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
arleck:lol |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Janeyinspires(f): 8:02pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
LazyAF:Ma pleazure! Hope it re-ignites your relationship. |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by stunningjudy(f): 10:32pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
chinma414:Don't generalize men, some men are exceptional. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
Constant communication. |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by arleck: 11:13pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
chinma414:Yeah! its you nau... buh why did u say such tin? |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by LazyAF: 6:42am On Mar 23, 2017 |
Thanks for all your contribution. So busy that I can't even keep this thread alive... Hmmmm. I'll keep trying and keep praying and what will be will be. Yesterday, I missed his calls late (10 missed calls) while at work and tried calling back but he seemed distracted, maybe because it was a video call. Tried again immediately I closed (didn't want to risk going home before I called coz he might be asleep) but alas! He was already dozing off! Said he had a really tiring day! See what I am up against? |
Re: What Do You Do To Spice Up A Long Distance Relationship? by LazyAF: 6:46am On Mar 23, 2017 |
sasko: I believe God will return Naira to its former value.. |
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