Sometimes I see people attacking each other on Nland I'd wonder why on earth would some spend good time online firing shots at a person you don't even know?When a negative comment pops up or an attacker fires at you on Nland.There is always an instantaneous urge to fire back but the right thing to do is to hold yourself andnot sink to the attackers level.I can remember the first time I was attacked here. I gave my opinion on a question one lady asked and the first mention I got was "YOU ARE FOOLI wanted to fire back immediately but then I remembered that somepeople are really going through hard times these days. Yea......They come online full of frustration, anger, and disappointment, etc. As all these pile up, they'd need a place to dump them, so I told myself that Iam not and cannot be their dump site. Maybe he would have said more if I had replied.Here Are Few Things You Should Do To Keep Your Cool When Attacked.1: Don't react immediately.Take amoment to gather your thoughts before saying or doing anything, no matter how much the comment may have stung. If you know you have a bad temper, or are prone to angry outburst then close the tab immediately and think about what was said.2: Ask a question rather than making a statement.This is really important. Try and find out why he/she is attacking you Instead offiring back. It could be a result of misconception of your standpoint. Remember not everyone here is an adult.3: Be gentle. No matter what the response is from that person who's going off on you, you must maintain your cool. In the end, if you are kindly and gentle in your response to that person, s/he is the one who will end up looking bad to others. A lady once fired a shot at me. She said"You are an ediot"I told her that I know cause some already told me.No matter what kind of person you're dealing with, the only thing you need to worry about is what kind of person you are. Remember youhave followers that see you as a responsible person.4: Don’t freak out. Suspend judgment. Don’t take what has been said personally. Resist the urge to react right awayInstead, take a deep breath, scrollup and read the Op and your comment once again. Maybe you made a mistake somewhere and the person(due to lack of manners) is correcting you in a terrible way. If the comment is ok then let it slide. If there is an error then correct it and move onSometimes the best thing one can say is to say Nothing at all.These are the few things that help me.If you know of any that isn't listedhere please add it let's learn.

Well said,working on my temperaments though,sometimes the tantrums displayed here hurts so bad dat u would want to fight back,esp wen d person does not understand the situation from ur own point of view.

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ReneeNuttall:
Well said,working on my temperaments though,sometimes the tantrums displayed here hurts so bad dat u would want to fight back,esp wen d person does not understand the situation from ur own point of view.

dat tru baby wen u matured learn to ignore sometin cos post say tins to make u mad.

RoyalBlak007:
♤Too clumsy

♤But still you've got a point

I dont get

jakandeola:
dat tru baby wen u matured learn to ignore sometin cos post say tins to make u mad.

sure

[quote author=jakandeola post=54870185]Sometimes I see people attacking each other on Nland I'd wonder why on earth would some spend good time online firing shots at a person you don't even know?When a negative comment pops up or an attacker fires at you on Nland.There is always an instantaneous urge to fire back but the right thing to do is to hold yourself andnot sink to the attackers level.I can remember the first time I was attacked here. I gave my opinion on a question one lady asked and the first mention I got was "YOU ARE FOOLI wanted to fire back immediately but then I remembered that somepeople are really going through hard times these days. Yea......They come online full of frustration, anger, and disappointment, etc. As all these pile up, they'd need a place to dump them, so I told myself that Iam not and cannot be their dump site. Maybe he would have said more if I had replied.Here Are Few Things You Should Do To Keep Your Cool When Attacked.1: Don't react immediately.Take amoment to gather your thoughts before saying or doing anything, no matter how much the comment may have stung. If you know you have a bad temper, or are prone to angry outburst then close the tab immediately and think about what was said.2: Ask a question rather than making a statement.This is really important. Try and find out why he/she is attacking you Instead offiring back. It could be a result of misconception of your standpoint. Remember not everyone here is an adult.3: Be gentle. No matter what the response is from that person who's going off on you, you must maintain your cool. In the end, if you are kindly and gentle in your response to that person, s/he is the one who will end up looking bad to others. A lady once fired a shot at me. She said"You are an ediot"I told her that I know cause some already told me.No matter what kind of person you're dealing with, the only thing you need to worry about is what kind of person you are. Remember youhave followers that see you as a responsible person.4: Don’t freak out. Suspend judgment. Don’t take what has been said personally. Resist the urge to react right awayInstead, take a deep breath, scrollup and read the Op and your comment once again. Maybe you made a mistake somewhere and the person(due to lack of manners) is correcting you in a terrible way. If the comment is ok then let it slide. If there is an error then correct it and move onSometimes the best thing one can say is to say Nothing at all.These are the few things that help me.If you know of any that isn't listedhere please add it let's learn.[/quote
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When you are done lamenting face your front or I help u do that

ReneeNuttall:


sure

neva come down to dia level cos in real life some are useless dat cant stand u if u see dem u spit on dem. I ignore dem. God bless u dear

obiorathesubtle:



You have a point though.... But I can't let a nigga bite my ass without crushing his balls..


That's weakness..

is not d best wat de proof u mature pass dem if u act like dem

jakandeola:
neva come down to dia level cos in real life some are useless dat cant stand u if u see dem u spit on dem. I ignore dem. God bless u dear

yeah u are right, amen ,same here.

jakandeola:
is not d best wat de proof u mature pass dem if u act like dem

There are different sides to it.

At least your English is getting better...

u ignore but if u cant ignore then baff the person cold water

[quote author=Doxie69 post=54870747][/quote] oga get sence

HateU2:
kini itumo gbogbo eleyi bayi

hahaj omo yooba

Alesandese:
At least your English is getting better...

d day i will tell u word u will cry to sleep

And you expect people to read this nonsense without paragraph?

I'm just asking question ooooo......

jakandeola:
hahaj omo yooba

its Yoruba

Nice blog

lalasticlala pls put dis in front page

HateU2:
its Yoruba

it yooba go learn histry

wordbank:

It's a lie
It's a lie ooo
It's yoloba

ode ni e

jakandeola:
d day i will tell u word u will cry to sleep

Since you have been typing in signs and symbols, I will await the day. Condemned cretin