profhezekiah:
Lust is about sex, infactuation is about his looks and pocket or bank account and love is just am ready to die with him,I dont care what he is or what he has,I just want to be with him, U don't either U eat or nt U just want to be looking at him n U always proud to introduce him to any1 anywhere nt because of his financial capability or looks but because U just him and nothing else. So decide which 1 is urs

Then love must be crazy

Teaser4:
Then love must be crazy

crazy U say? Love is mad, love is ecentric, love is suicidal, I nearly committed suicide when I was in love,it seems d lady stole my remote control from God

profhezekiah:
crazy U say? Love is mad, love is ecentric, love is suicidal, I nearly committed suicide when I was in love,it seems d lady stole my remote control from God

I swear bro, i knw how it feels. i don xperience dat b4, my 1st gf. God punish her ass

Teaser4:
I swear bro, i knw how it feels. i don xperience dat b4, my 1st gf. God punish her ass

Bros U can't even believe it, after she treated me shit and she gave birth for some1 else,some stupid part of me still love dat lady,she is just my achilles infact to d extend when I see her little daughter at church,I do carry her all around. Bros I enter dat one change.

profhezekiah:
Bros U can't even believe it, after she treated me shit and she gave birth for some1 else,some stupid part of me still love dat lady,she is just my achilles infact to d extend when I see her little daughter at church,I do carry her all around. Bros I enter dat one change.

haaaa egbon your case is serious oh.

obadizena:


Most likely, it's infatuation. As time goes on, it may develop into love or gradually die away.

Also, I agree with profhezekiah comment.

tnks alot dear

obadizena:
@ OP,

As u interact with more guys, u'll have more experience about the differences in the feelings.
Just be cautious, though!

agohmamuda is already seeking to join ur circle of friends. As u chat with him, access ur feeling towards him and compare....

Happy chatting!!!

lolss ayaf heard u,,,, agohmamuda seems like a nice pesin though

youngbelieve:


lolss ayaf heard u agohmamuda seems like a nice pesin though

You know right babe.

agohmamuda:

You know right babe.

so you stay in josyou kinda mentioned sumtin lyk dat above

youngbelieve:


so you stay in josyou kinda mentioned sumtin lyk dat above

Schooled there. UJ, Left the state. But i do visit jos at least twice every year.

linearity:


Simple solution.....

If you are in love you will know, dem no dey tell person say rain dey fall....since you don't know, it means you are lusting over him period!

True words.
sighs op is in lust

Teaser4:
haaaa egbon your case is serious oh.

Infact whenever I look back at d madness and stupid things I did in that relationship I felt I didnt have brain because love took away my brain,I fought frnds, I ignore family,even I may nt attend lectures because of her, that is why when I hear pple saying there is no love, I shake my head because they are either hypocrite,deluded or dey av nt met d right person

profhezekiah:
Infact whenever I look back at d madness and stupid things I did in that relationship I felt I didnt have brain because love took away my brain,I fought frnds, I ignore family,even I may nt attend lectures because of her, that is why when I hear pple saying there is no love, I shake my head because they are either hypocrite,deluded or dey av nt met d right person

It is well brother.

agohmamuda:


Schooled there. UJ, Left the state. But i do visit jos at least twice every year.

wow dats nice so you're an ex jossite

alexialin:


True words. sighs op is in lust

am jus confused fa

ZarZar:
Love doesn't ask why
It's straight from the heart
Love doesn't think twice
It comes all at once
A whisper from a distance

So the fact that you're asking alone is either you're a novice or just in lust. Nobody needs to tell you if it's love or not. You just know.

who wrote that poem, love?

youngbelieve:


wow dats nice so you're an ex jossite

yes oh.Econs Depart.
I messaged u on whatsapp "Beiber Fever"

agohmamuda:

yes oh.Econs Depart. I messaged u on whatsapp "Beiber Fever"

lolss I jus love daht boy,,,econs dept!!!!am currently studying econs there o

youngbelieve:


am jus confused fa

when u are confused it's infatuation or lust

When u are sure, then u are inlove... Even though he may not be the right guy for u..
But u are just inlove.

So choose.. Which tag do u fall into?

alexialin:



when u are confused it's infatuation or lust

When u are sure, then u are inlove... Even though he may not be the right guy for u..
But u are just inlove.

So choose.. Which tag do u fall into?

hmmm I'll say infatuation then

youngbelieve:

hmmm I'll say infatuation then

It could be love, lust or infatuation.. Complicated right?

mayorski01:
It could be love, lust or infatuation.. Complicated right?

really really complicated

agohmamuda:


This guy has killed me
Far from it. My intentions are good. we share a connection "Jos"

No bro! I didn't state that ur intentions are bad, in anyway. As a matter of fact, I am encouraging both of u to interact so she can get more experience.


My advice to her to be cautious, is in general sense, not insinuating u at all!

Cheers!

profhezekiah:
Infact whenever I look back at d madness and stupid things I did in that relationship I felt I didnt have brain because love took away my brain,I fought frnds, I ignore family,even I may nt attend lectures because of her, that is why when I hear pple saying there is no love, I shake my head because they are either hypocrite,deluded or dey av nt met d right person...

@ the emboldened,

I beg to disagree with u, bro. I know quite a few guys who cannot experience love. All they can feel is lust.
U see, some people have been brought up under certain circumstances that has made them become so self-centered that they're unable to give love. These people can only receive but cannot give out love.

Then there're quite a large percentage of guys whose love is always mixed with lust. This category of guys always confuse ladies. They're attracted to a girl only when she appeals to them sexually. Once the sexual appeal wanes, they look for a flimsy excuse & dump her in favor of another girl that has an appeal for them. Sometimes, however, love develops, with a few of them.

youngbelieve:


really really complicated

All the descriptions given here can only serve as a guide to u. No amount of explanations will let u know the real difference in the feelings.
It's through experience that u'll be able to know the difference.
It's like trying to explain being burnt by fire, to someone who has never been burnt before.
When it comes to communicating real feelings to each other, among human beings, the use of words is woefully inadequate! .

youngbelieve:

tnks alot dear

U're welcome, dear!

obadizena:


No bro! I didn't state that ur intentions are bad, in anyway. As a matter of fact, I am encouraging both of u to interact so she can get more experience.


My advice to her to be cautious, is in general sense, not insinuating u at all!

Cheers!

nice one bro

youngbelieve:


hmmm I'll say infatuation then

OK that's fair. But be careful and think with your head on compromising situations around him.. Very important.. Never get carried away. OK enjoy

alexialin:



OK that's fair. But be careful and think with your head on compromising situations around him.. Very important.. Never get carried away. OK enjoy

alright,, tanks alot dear

obadizena:


All the descriptions given here can only serve as a guide to u. No amount of explanations will let u know the real difference in the feelings.
It's through experience that u'll be able to know the difference.
It's like trying to explain being burnt by fire, to someone who has never been burnt before.
When it comes to communicating real feelings to each other, among human beings, the use of words is woefully inadequate! .

so in essence u're suggesting dat I'll kw wen I experience it??

gals... Abeg how can someone b in relationship with someone n u still trying to know if u love him.........seems u always feeling D anointing

plizavocalz:
gals... Abeg how can someone b in relationship with someone n u still trying to know if u love him.........seems u always feeling D anointing

its possible na!!