Ask any heartbroken partner from a relationship split apart due to infidelity: affairs can be bad news. That being said, they're also complicated, yet so often blamed on the evil "home-wrecking" woman, who surely must be out to steal someone's man and cause as much damage as possible. But it doesn't always start out with cruel intentions.

"The forbidden and the taboo is one of the biggest turn-ons for people. They're not trying to steal him, or take him, but it's appealing that he is unavailable," says Dr. Michael Aaron, therapist and author of Modern Sexuality. "She's thinking that being with this guy is ideal because he's not going to want more from her because he's already is married."

For other women, while they may feel uncomfortable about the man's marriage, their own intimacy issues draw them to someone unavailable. "You may have an individual who wants deeper intimacy, but for whatever attachment reasons, they may be afraid," explains Aaron. From enjoying no-strings-attached sex to simply falling for a friend and coworker.

Please share why you sleep with married men, and what it taught you about them.

So you are one of them?

Hmmm