True, I am a relationship counsellor, but can't aid my very self.
For the past three years of practise, here is my report:
On cheating, when ladies come lamenting about a cheating partner their sole aim is not to end the affair, but win his heart back and kick off the other woman.
Ladies use comments like,"what does the girl have that I don't?" "Will he leave me in the end?" "Does he love me?"


Otherwise for the gentlemen
They start by abusing the "bitch"(they refer to their cheating lovers as bitches not even girlfriends).
They mostly want me to give them an antidote to the pain they feel, and clues on how to move on faster after they dump the girl.


It is not an unequal amount of pain males and females feel yet i can infer that males can not tolerate cheating as much as we females do.

PS: created a thread about quitting my engagement and i got tongue lashed as though i was a witch....i am certain a guy wouldnt have much criticisms for doing likewise with his fiancee

And the moral lesson of this narration is?...

Frolic:
And the moral lesson of this narration is?...

The moral is booty calls like u should shut the hole in your face if you have nothing reasonable to say..cunt

Michellekabod:

The moral is booty calls like u should shut the hole in your face if you have nothing reasonable to say..cunt

oh! That was so unnecessary madam

Like you gotta choke on a chill pill or something?

Michellekabod:

The moral is booty calls like u should shut the hole in your face if you have nothing reasonable to say..cunt

You seem lika complicated fellow

firstking01:
You seem lika complicated fellow

Because I counsel people and can't counsel myself?

I am simple

Michellekabod:
Because I counsel people and can't counsel myself?
I am simple

Your life is complicated.

Frolic:
Like you gotta choke on a chill pill or something?

My apologies!
Found your comment offensive....was expressing my view and there you came

firstking01:
Your life is complicated.

Can you leave me alone and stop ass licking?

God loves me still....

Our Nigerian counselors sha.... Op sounds so unprofessional. counselor Eliza.

@ op,pls,be my wife

Women, if una dey love, love with one leg

ItsQuinn, maybe you'll have something to say, so Dockybae, Jacksparr0w127 and others can scrutinize

OP you're confused, and your post is wallowing in it

This one is confused

MY DEAR AS SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN IN THIS COUNSELLING BUIZ FOR SOME TIME NOW SHOULD HAVE KNOWN TO ESTABLISH THE FACT THAT THE MAN AND THE WOMAN THOUGH RELATED IN THEIR NATURE ARE ALSO QUITE UNIQUE IN THEIR OWN FUNCTIONS.

Lemme give u some traits tips:
1. Tolerance : It's indeed no news that statistically and scientifically proven that the female species have far more Tolerance level than their male colleague, hence you always see in most cases the Masculine figure reacting more aggressive to tiny issues.
2. Love : Well you need not be told about this feeling as in most cases the woman tends to feel more committed to this feeling than her male colleague, that's why you at times find the woman holding unto someone she feels she loves despite all prevailing factors.

So my dear with these few traits listed here you shouldn't be surprised at what you experience as that is how it should be.

MEANWHILE CONCERNING YOUR OTHER THREAD; LEMME QUICKLY CHEAP IN THAT THE GUY WAS RIGHT TO BE EMOTIONALLY SHATTERED.. ANYWAYS I WISH YOU THE BEST IN FINDING THE RIGHT SUITOR; BUT IT SEEMS YOU ARE ALSO A GOOD REPRESENTATIVE OF THE FEMALE TRAIT CALLED LOVE AS IT IS VISIBLE THAT YOU STILL VERY MUCH HAVE A SOFT SPOT FOR YOUR BABY DADDY WHO WAS A MUSLIM HENCE YOU HAVE VIRTUALLY REFUTED OTHER SUITORS JUST TO BECOME FRIENDS WITH ANOTHER MUSLIM GUY. MY DEAR YOU NEED TO BREAK WHATSOEVER EMOTIONAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL TIE YOU HAVE WITH YOUR EX INORDER FOR YOU TO MOVE FORWARD IN LIFE

Me sef

I don't understand op

If your partner cheats quit and simply move on

Michellekabod:

Can you leave me alone and stop ass licking?

God loves me still....

Lwkmd, asslicking huh?...you are really bereaved of what asslicking is...



Ok, have a nice day

firstking01:
Lwkmd, asslicking huh?...you are really bereaved of what asslicking is...



Ok, have a nice day

Asslicking frolic because I tongue lashed her/him......wat testament do u have that my life is complicated?


You are living the sorriest life....I am not bereaved.

MummyIMadeIt:
MY DEAR AS SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN IN THIS COUNSELLING BUIZ FOR SOME TIME NOW SHOULD HAVE KNOWN TO ESTABLISH THE FACT THAT THE MAN AND THE WOMAN THOUGH RELATED IN THEIR NATURE ARE ALSO QUITE UNIQUE IN THEIR OWN FUNCTIONS.

Lemme give u some traits tips:
1. Tolerance : It's indeed no news that statistically and scientifically proven that the female species have far more Tolerance level than their male colleague, hence you always see in most cases the Masculine figure reacting more aggressive to tiny issues.
2. Love : Well you need not be told about this feeling as in most cases the woman tends to feel more committed to this feeling than her male colleague, that's why you at times find the woman holding unto someone she feels she loves despite all prevailing factors.

So my dear with these few traits listed here you shouldn't be surprised at what you experience as that is how it should be.

MEANWHILE CONCERNING YOUR OTHER THREAD; LEMME QUICKLY CHEAP IN THAT THE GUY WAS RIGHT TO BE EMOTIONALLY SHATTERED.. ANYWAYS I WISH YOU THE BEST IN FINDING THE RIGHT SUITOR; BUT IT SEEMS YOU ARE ALSO A GOOD REPRESENTATIVE OF THE FEMALE TRAIT CALLED LOVE AS IT IS VISIBLE THAT YOU STILL VERY MUCH HAVE A SOFT SPOT FOR YOUR BABY DADDY WHO WAS A MUSLIM HENCE YOU HAVE VIRTUALLY REFUTED OTHER SUITORS JUST TO BECOME FRIENDS WITH ANOTHER MUSLIM GUY. MY DEAR YOU NEED TO BREAK WHATSOEVER EMOTIONAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL TIE YOU HAVE WITH YOUR EX INORDER FOR YOU TO MOVE FORWARD IN LIFE

Thanks alot

Nma27:
Our Nigerian counselors sha.... Op sounds so unprofessional. counselor Eliza.

Thanks for that....my post was to speak up for a fellow female like you. And this is what I get?
If it were a male that quoted me as you did....i can understand that. But a female?....nah nah
Unprofessional or professional, my carrier as a counsellor is successful....cheers!

Michellekabod:

My apologies!
Found your comment offensive....was expressing my view and there you came

It was an innocent question you dont seem to have answer(s) for yet though...I mean, come on, men are generally known to be less emotional , and there could be arrays af reasons for that. So what if they fail to scream when deeply cut? Papa didn't raise a cry baby lol... The fact that those men on your referral came seeking for help albeit , their more toughened up disposition is enough pointer they're weak in the knees and are deep in emotional shi.ts!

Frolic:
It was an innocent question you dont seem to have answer(s) for yet though...I mean, come on, men are generally known to be less emotional , and there could be arrays af reasons for that. So what if they fail to scream when deeply cut? Papa didn't raise a cry baby lol... The fact that those men on your referral came seeking for help albeit , their more toughened up disposition is enough pointer they're weak in the knees and are deep in emotional shi.ts!

The major point is that men show less mercy than women....i am a feminist(advocate for gender equality). Want ladies to know that the male gender ain't as merciful as they are when it comes to cheating, so the next time HE calls a booty call or sleeps around and they intend showing him mercy, they should recall if it were vice versa, their ass would be shoved out of the relationship (in exception of if he truly loves her-which is rare)

My apologies still

Michellekabod:

The major point is that men show less mercy than women....i am a feminist(advocate for gender equality). Want ladies to know that the male gender ain't as merciful as they are when it comes to cheating, so the next time HE calls a booty call or sleeps around and they intend showing him mercy, they should recall if it were vice versa, their ass would be shoved out of the relationship (in exception of if he truly loves her-which is rare)

My apologies still

Holy molly! U think men are generally incapable of loving truly just cos the one's you've met find it hard tolerating a cheat? Thats about the wierdest stereotype I've ever heard! Or is this just cos you serve the false god (imo tho) "equality" whence cooking up claims that are borderline strangers to reality to promulgate your course? Thats not good for business miss!

Frolic:
Holy molly! U think men are generally incapable of loving truly just cos the one's you've met find it hard tolerating a cheat? Thats about the wierdest stereotype I've ever heard! Or is this just cos you serve the false god (imo tho) "equality" whence cooking up claims that are borderline strangers to reality to promulgate your course? Thats not good for business miss!

My point was giving based on experience (those I have counselled).
How those my business come into this?
I have the audacity to give a report from my working experience.... Abuse, make fun of, or castigate me for being a feminist, I still proudly proclaim I am one.

Cheers!


PS: have dated twice only, the first hit the rocks when I was carrying his baby and the second hit the rock when I rejected his marriage proposal. in case you were thinking I ever cheated and got dumped for it.