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She wants me to visit her but when I told her I am coming with a friend, she said I should not come again. I am a Christian and I am a virgin. She is a Christian and also a virgin. We attend the same church and I want to propose to her but it seems I will wait a little and know who she is. we have been dating for like 3years now. I buy her everything she wants but I have told her that I don't want sex till after marriage.

I am beginning to suspect that she is not self controlled enough to be my wife. please guys, should I move ahead by looking and praying for another sister or should I just propose to her and marry her? I love her so much but I am afraid perhaps she might destroy my ministry.

I am a youth pastor. God bless you all.

MAN OF God...... Is the bible not speaking to you when it says BY THEIR FRUITS YOU SHALL KNOW THEM?

do you not have a mature Pastor who mentors you on such issues? that you bring it out here to an ungodly forum to be judged by everyone?

WHAT IS THE HOLYGHOST SAYING TO YOU?

These questions are a proof that you have not considered your actions well enough.
HOW DID YOU KNOW SHE IS A VIRGIN? LADIES especially those in CHURCH lie alot o.

DOES YOUR CHURCH NOT HAVE A MARRIAGE COMMITTEE? get counsel from them and do not come here to get ungodly advice.
BE CAREFUL

Lolz

She we destroy ur ministry in which way....i taught that as a born again that d holy spirite we direct u on what to do

make we hear word abeg

Number 1 you're dreaming

Number 2 ur 5members na him u dey call ministry

Number 3 go buy more Vaseline

Number 4 if u mention me , i go do e-deliverance for u today

Explain how she want take destroy your ministry

Nigga came to hell for advice Better go to religion section

Sounds like my exgf........

maybe I placed this in a wrong section. mod please help me shift it to religion section.

If you understand the bible, you will know why I said she might destroy my pastoral ambition (ministry). But i am still confused. Any good advice will do. FTC thank you for your advice.

SaintAkindile:
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She wants me to visit her but when I told her I am coming with a friend, she said I should not come again. I am a Christian and I am a virgin. She is a Christian and also a virgin. We attend the same church and I want to propose to her but it seems I will wait a little and know who she is. we have been dating for like 3years now. I buy her everything she wants but I have told her that I don't want sex till after marriage.

I am beginning to suspect that she is not self controlled enough to be my wife. please guys, should I move ahead by looking and praying for another sister or should I just propose to her and marry her? I love her so much but I am afraid perhaps she might destroy my ministry.

I am a youth pastor. God bless you all.

Flee from her. Friendship with the world is enmity with GOD. She is of The devil. Flee