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Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by gud4dbest(m): 11:22pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
ontruth: d matter of fact is dat King Solomon was not a christian! 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by purplekayc(m): 11:34pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
Which kind of question is this? @ op ,how many do you have? |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by ojinuocheibi(m): 11:38pm On Apr 15, 2017 |
i never marry b4 so i cant help u |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by okanlawon94(m): 12:23am On Apr 16, 2017 |
D only aristo wey i qet sef nvr chop belleful...aw will i feed 2 wives,yhu want me to force those heavenly children to dis world n suffer abi...my broda et cannot werk 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by AreaFada2: 12:32am On Apr 16, 2017 |
myking95: Thanks everyone for quoting raw data from certain sources. But to understand data, you need to break it down and analyse. Therein lies the usefulness or uselessness of any data. Not just taken at face value. Maybe I should have included the caveat. The same arguments were raised at a recent seminar. The conclusion was that there are more women of marriageable age than men. People easily ignore the fact that in many conservative cultures, girls from age 13 or 14 are considered of marriageable age already. While men may not be pressured into marriage until around 20 to 21 in same cultures. Then add the many widows still willing to remarry. When you consider the wider age range of marriageable women to men that typically marry when older (because culturally, they have to provide for the wife/kids), then women in need of marriage far outstrip men. The major exception is China, where men outnumber women by around 33 million. And culturally no pressure to marry in teenage years. Same has happened in some other countries where culturally males are preferred. Selective gender foeticide/infanticide is largely responsible for that. Female infanticide occurs more frequently in some countries like India (to avoid future dowry payment to husband, male seen as more valuable, males likely to be parents "pension", males likely to be richer/earn more to boost extended family, etc) and China due to one-child policy introduced in 1979, where a single male child is preferable to many parents. More than male infanticide. Considering that both countries make up about 2.7 to 2.8 billion people, gender imbalance there would affect world average male:female ratio. It does not mean that it is natural. But still in China, girls not married by the age of 27 are colloquially called "left over women", meaning they'd find getting a husband difficult. Even though for youths under the age of 30, there are 20 million excess men. It appears that when it comes to finding a marriage partner, other factors make the odds to be stacked against women. Like age, physique, culture, etc. These seem to easily negate whatever advantages higher male to female ratio would have conferred. Also various sources quote different figures for gender population. For example, for the age that really matters, in terms of marriage (age 15 to 64), one source puts the male/female ratio at 0.99/1.0. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_sex_ratio Also same source puts male/female ratio for over 65s at 0.80/1.0. It is therefore not surprising that biologically, there needs to be more males conceived. Since many will end in miscarriage, even when born still face more struggle to survive into adulthood, due to genetic, environmental/work & other hazards. Nature aims to balance things out at the end. But it is not able to take selective gender foeticide/infanticide and wars into account. When you put genetic (congenital illness killing men at younger age), cultural aspects and daily experience together, women in need of marriage are more than men. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Thecassanova: 12:40am On Apr 16, 2017 |
AreaFada2:Nice response. And at bolded, that's why color blindness strikes males frequently than females. The localization of the genes encoding the color sensing proteins of the retina on the X chromosome can't be corrected in males, but females have another X so having high chances of correcting the particular gene from the other X. It's a shame they attacked u even after putting down this much educative insight to explain fragility of man. |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by AreaFada2: 12:56am On Apr 16, 2017 |
Thecassanova: Well, the attack is welcome. As long as it makes people debate the topic, and hopefully inform themselves better through it. Science has been rather inaccessible to general population in the past. It is mostly about which population is more, male or female. I thought everyone understood that we're talking about marriageable age population. But alas many took it as the general population. Also most people are not interested in scientific nitty-gritty but rather simple (sometimes erroneous/subjective) information google & Wiki throw up within 0.00001 seconds from search engine. Scientific details can be sometimes boring and counter-intuitive to many. When it goes against widely held views, people respond rather hostile sometimes. But it's all fun. Early scientists already caused outrage thousands & hundreds of years ago. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by ungara17: 1:10am On Apr 16, 2017 |
Na penis u go give them suck as food? One cup of garri na #100. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by QueenSuccubus(f): 1:22am On Apr 16, 2017 |
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Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by remikunle: 1:37am On Apr 16, 2017 |
do as you wish |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 4:26am On Apr 16, 2017 |
okanlawon94: Stop dating poor and dependent women and it will work. Ass, gas or grass, nobody rides for free. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by imagrg(m): 5:30am On Apr 16, 2017 |
It's immorality everywhere. No regards for chastity; Africa is over-populated. Too many children; too many responsibilities; too many unemployed; less food to eat; dishonesty reigns and many more vices from many more people because we fail to control our libido! Remember, HIV/AIDS is REAL! Marry one wife and enjoy a lasting relationship with her; after all, the thing na the same hole. 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by VanBommel(m): 5:48am On Apr 16, 2017 |
Mrmoz: |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by demio007: 5:59am On Apr 16, 2017 |
Polygamy is a not something I pray anyone experienced. 4 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Amajerry83(m): 6:16am On Apr 16, 2017 |
It's because the women won't allow us marry another woman after them. |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 6:19am On Apr 16, 2017 |
Dojupyo:lmaooo,, aristo go soon claim ur husband |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by MurderX: 6:33am On Apr 16, 2017 |
We've started again. I just got me a second one. Hehehehe 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by UncleJJ(m): 7:05am On Apr 16, 2017 |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 7:06am On Apr 16, 2017 |
seyigiggle:you're crazy must you mention Islam in your affairs wen your religion doesn't have guiding principles, no directions just pick up things from your head and it's correct. Apostle Suleiman no dey cheat abi fool 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 7:08am On Apr 16, 2017 |
Billyonaire: I agree with you to a certain extent. About the uninhabited zones, no zone should be classified as uninhabitable...if engineers can recover land from the sea, what's left? It will surprise you to know that due to unwillingness of consecutive generations to make a sacrifice, we keep on living in dangerous zones (like San Francisco which is very earthquake prone, and Dubai which seats on a major fault line) while deserts far away from coastlines and deep forests remain largely abandoned. Who invented money? Who made the rules of money to favour a few and satisfiy their greed? I myself can with dedication and time create a financial system where value is created and there is enough means for everyone to have a standatd life, so far they are willing to work. The only caveat will be that then the definition of the word standard will tend to more of luxury. Its willingness man. But like my dad willnsay, there is enough for the needed of everyman not for the greed of a few. This planet can comfortably sustain twice its current population believe me. |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 7:12am On Apr 16, 2017 |
bukatyne:Oga park well jor were you there wen he was designing it or you're talking about your desire. if he created one woman for one man, my question is Why is he creating more women than men? be sincere with yourself 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Nobody: 7:13am On Apr 16, 2017 |
Fundamentalist:thank you bro don't mind that irresponsible guy 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by bigiyaro(m): 7:14am On Apr 16, 2017 |
who told you they stopped? |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by tintingz(m): 7:14am On Apr 16, 2017 |
dragonking3:Lol, where i work we've more men than women, what you stated cannot be used as census for gender stats/ratio. In football game venues, stadium, there are more men, in engineering companies there are more men than women, you can see your logic doesn't make sense. Banks need more female customer care and cashiers, churchs are mostly filled by miracle seeking women, women are more religious than men, the school varies, some department are filled with male while some are female, you should see the school registrar to conclude on your gender stats. The stats that was collated by authorized organizations like UN is not fabricated, the only time there are more women than men was during past wars where men go for wars. 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by tintingz(m): 7:46am On Apr 16, 2017 |
Thecassanova: AreaFada2: You guys are just spewing rubbish, you didn't even provide references to your biological claim that X-linked dominant inheritance affected gender ratio, claiming women are more than men. According to Wikipedia the report said: X-linked dominant traits do not necessarily affect males more than females (unlike X-linked recessive traits). The exact pattern of inheritance varies, depending on whether the father or the mother has the trait of interest. All daughters of an affected father will also be affected but none of his sons will be affected (unless the mother is also affected). https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/X-linked_dominant_inheritance Your claims that X-linked inheritance affected male depopulation is not true but fallacies, what i know is that men die early than female due to diseases, stroke etc. The only time men are more than women are during past wars where men only goes for wars, today there are no much wars like the past and women are even joining the military. The authorized stats said men are more than women. This is from United Nation report: According to United Nations, Sex ratio of world in 2015 is 101.70. It means that World has 101.70 males for each 100 females or 98.33 females for each 100 males. In absolute terms, World has 61,591,853 more males population than females population http://statisticstimes.com/population/countries-by-sex-ratio.php The statistics here from United Nation shows men are more than women, you should provide your evidence from authorized organization that said women are more than men if you can't then all what you posted are fallacies and lies and kindly keep shut. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by coltaine(m): 7:58am On Apr 16, 2017 |
introvertme: you guys won't see this o......cos it is in the old testament. they won't follow the old testament, when God spoke to people but will take the word of Paul as law.....issorait 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Bahddo(m): 8:01am On Apr 16, 2017 |
AreaFada2:statistics show there are more males than females in Nigeria and most other countries 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Kenchukky(m): 8:05am On Apr 16, 2017 |
bukatyne: The problem is when people who don't read make comments. Do you have an idea of the world population and statistics. As at 2016, the ratio of men to women in the world is 1:50. So how did you come about a balanced world. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by tintingz(m): 8:05am On Apr 16, 2017 |
Bahddo:You are minding them, even United Nations report stats also said men are more than women in the world. 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by coltaine(m): 8:12am On Apr 16, 2017 |
http://countrymeters.info/en/World you guys should check this out, don't know the authenticity of this though, it is like a clock, u choose the country nd it gives you the stats, reason why i said i can't vouch for the authenticity is that every second it shows people re dying nd babies re born, like it reads every sec mind u, use chrome or uc web browser not mini if u want to check it out........the stats in d screenshot below re for nigeria as at d time stated in the screenshot 3 Likes
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Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by onegig(m): 8:59am On Apr 16, 2017 |
tintingz: You are muddling up everything. Yeah men maybe more than women but there are more women of marriageable age than men. An average female is ready for marriage as early as age 16 in most cultures while her male counterpart is just starting out life and may not be ready till he reaches the age of 28 or even early 30s. The society expects men to be providers of the family and i doubt you would have a 16 year old guy or even a 21 year old guy who's ready to shoulder the responsibility of catering for a family. Meanwhile you have millions of ladies at that age already ready for marriage which akews the balance thus making it that there are much more available ladies for marriage than there are capable men willing to start a family. |
Re: Men, Why Did You Stop Marrying Two Or More Wives? by Jman06(m): 9:08am On Apr 16, 2017 |
From what i see in polygamous homes around me, i think it is suicidal for any man to marry more than one wife. One is enough trouble already. 1 Like |
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