_{Hi. I'm not sure how long I needed to be here before posting a new thread, but I had 2 questions I reallly wanted to ask. Please pardon me if this is a repeat topic.}

Question 1- Does it mean anything when a man flirts with another man's girl secretly in his presence? Like is it an intentional macho challenge or disrespect to the boyfriend/husband, or is it flattering to the guy- that somebody is admiring his girl?,  How do thik guys usually feel about this?

Question 2- If you know your girl has been faithful - How do men feel about their girls flirting with other guys while the two of you are together? Is this considered harmless, or is it disrepectful when SHE does it?

C'mon - I know Nairaland has some smooth and Pimpilicious FLirts. What's your viewpoint!

Does it mean anything when a man flirts with another man's girl secretly in his presence? Like is it an intentional macho challenge or disrespect to the boyfriend/husband, or is it flattering to the guy- that somebody is admiring his girl?,  How do thik guys usually feel about this?

Ans: No It doesn't . . . We all believe anyone bold enough to 'flirt' with our girl in our presence isn't capable of doing such behind our backs! That makes about 80% of the entire African men azzholes. . . 
Most Naija guys aren't smart enough to know some playfulness could exhibit some of our internal desires. . .

Conclusion: I don't appreciate other guys flirting with my girl! WTF!!! Ere kini aja'n b'ekun se? He must have thought about having a fling with my girl before flirting with her in a playful manner. . . Nigerian sense!!!

Question 2- If you know your girl has been faithful - How do men feel about their girls flirting with other guys while the two of you are together? Is this considered harmless, or is it disrepectful when SHE does it?


Ans: It is considered harmless, but as harmless as it is considered, it gives a friggin clue about ur babe's whereabout everytime you call her and doesn't pick up.

Hope that answers your Qs. . .  LMAO!

@ jasie
what if the guy has what you call an 'unconscious charm' and flirts with your girl unintentionally

I sincerely do not even know what this questions are even all about~