I was seeing it as a joke till last night when i realized she got angry with me because i told her I'm going to watch match (manchester united)...she doesn't have problem with me watching match buh she said she can't tolerate me entering late at night... (anything after 9pm) I was like bae you ll be robbing me of football life because best of football games are played late at night...i persuaded her and later went to watch d match last night that started around 8pm....pls note we are not living together I told her via the phone.. Buh till now she's still so angry with me.... I need advice on how to make her understand because I can't promise her I won't watch late night games..... I told her I myt adjust after marriage.... Buh she want d adjustment to start now.... She's not on nairaland buh I ll share this topic link for her if the advice go in my favour

Then stop. She loves you thats why

You have to chose between her and football.



For me, I will chose football.
A bae that cannot allow me to watch football anytime I want, that one na bae?
How would she feel if you, tell her she can't watch her favorite show at a particular time of the day?

Well, to make everything work out fine for you both, i think you have to compromise somethings.....She might not want you watching late night football outside due to security reasons... Why not device a means so you can start watching such late matches at home

I know football is more interesting wen u watch it wit people but you have to stop if you love her. Just stop and be watching it in ur house.

she must have her reasons though, but can't you just get dstv or gotv, to stop the wahala? ,my nigga,get everything for house,but.he enjoys watches matches,at viewing center.. he say the match dey sweet,when men,plenty and them dey argue.

stephleena:
she must have her reasons though, but can't you just get dstv or gotv, to stop the wahala? ,my nigga,get everything for house,but.he enjoys watches matches,at viewing center.. he say the match dey sweet,when men,plenty and them dey argue.

its much more interesting when u watch @ viewing centres

Make I help ya ministry. Lalastclala! Lalastclala! Lalastclala! I don see front page material.

She is concerned about your safety, viewing centers are usually rowdy and once argument starts fight follows. Listen to her she has your interest at heart.



To that person choosing football over his girlfriend, continue using your foot to think.

If the place is far from your side i think it's best you stop.

Buy Data download Kodi install addons and enjoy

Nollynude:
Well, to make everything work out fine for you both, i think you have to compromise somethings.....She might not want you watching late night football outside due to security reasons... Why not device a means so you can start watching such late matches at home

Once we are married I ll start watching at home... As a bachelor is like a waste of subscription to watch at home when it less expensive with more fun outside

The lady is concerned about your safety. She loves you!, if I were in her shoes I would do same. Staying out too late isn't good, it's not about jealousy.

umarshehu58:
Then stop. She loves you thats why

Indeed!
Love indeed.
Just like the "Femalefolk" can't do without Make-up even while going to bed, so also, the "Malefolk"(menfolk) can't do without Football EVEN if the Match is fixed at 2:00am.

Una neva sabi say na match wey people full watching centre dey sweet pass? Match wey pesin watch for im room na lik bitter kola.

As far as the viewing centre is not far from OP's abode and the security of lives is not 'threatened' in his community, he should be Ok

stephleena:
she must have her reasons though, but can't you just get dstv or gotv, to stop the wahala? ,my nigga,get everything for house,but.he enjoys watches matches,at viewing center.. he say the match dey sweet,when men,plenty and them dey argue.

I told her till we are married I ll adjust buh she want d adjustment now

adorablepepple:
She is concerned about your safety, viewing centers are usually rowdy and once argument starts fight follows. Listen to her she has your interest at heart.



To that person choosing football over his girlfriend, continue using your foot to think.

I understand her.... I watch match in a lounge on my street... Trekkable From home.. Not always rowdy... Viewers are of sane minds too

NeeKlaus:
So something like Real Madrid - Bayern Munich that is coming up in a few weeks time and will be played at NIGHT, she wants you to miss it too??

Guy, wahala dey oo...

As in ehn!

ibietela2:
If the place is far from your side i think it's best you stop.

Buy Data download Kodi install addons and enjoy

It so close.... On my street....i watch on my phone at times buh streaming can be annoying atimes I won't try it for tough matches I wanna enjoy

Benita27:
The lady is concerned about your safety. She loves you!, if I were in her shoes I would do same. Staying out too late isn't good, it's not about jealousy.

Madam, nobody is disputing her care and love for him BUT, there are some things you can't take away from a man...football is one of such.

It's not like those going to Viewing Centre don't have the means to watch the match at home, an handful of them does, but, there's no enjoyment when a match is view in your room compared to the viewing centre that's beaming with voices and tens of hundreds of Commentaries from viewers.

In my place, if a match is fixed even at 12:00am, there will be announcement on the radio to the Police and Vigilante not to harrass anyone coming back from viewing centres.

mykel25:


Once we are married I ll start watching at home... As a bachelor is like a waste of subscription to watch at home when it less expensive with more fun outside

I understand your point, but if you don't start curbing it now, it may be a little difficult after you get married simply because you are used to it

I swear a relationship with an African is like slavery sometimes! Op carry on and let her get angry. Stand your ground. It's not like you're married with children and you're rolling in after midnight drunk! She is controlling and if you start giving in now she will control all your movements. If she leaves you for watching football she wasn't worth wifing to begin with.

To those shouting she's worried about his safety, is she his mum? He's a grown man. If she's worried a simple "call me or text me when you get home safely" is enough.

OhMyG0d:
Madam, nobody is disputing her care and love for him BUT, there are some things you can't take away from a man...football is one of such.

It's not like those going to Viewing Centre don't have the means to watch the match at home, an handful of them does, but, there's no enjoyment when a match is view in your room compared to the viewing centre that's beaming with voices and tens of hundreds of Commentaries from viewers.

In my place, if a match is fixed even at 12:00am, there will be announcement on the radio to the Police and Vigilante not to harrass anyone coming back from viewing centres.

Some guys would rather see the match in their houses than to visit a viewing centre. It's an individual preference.

ibietela2:
If the place is far from your side i think it's best you stop.

Buy Data download Kodi install addons and enjoy

Your last statement...I don't get?

OhMyG0d:
Madam, nobody is disputing her care and love for him BUT, there are some things you can't take away from a man...football is one of such.

It's not like those going to Viewing Centre don't have the means to watch the match at home, an handful of them does, but, there's no enjoyment when a match is view in your room compared to the viewing centre that's beaming with voices and tens of hundreds of Commentaries from viewers.

In my place, if a match is fixed even at 12:00am, there will be announcement on the radio to the Police and Vigilante not to harrass anyone coming back from viewing centres.

If my woman won't let me watch football outside at anytime I want, we done!

Nollynude:


I understand your point, but if you don't start curbing it now, it may be a little difficult after you get married simply because you are used to it

This is exactly her point.... Seriously I can't curb it without an alternative

mykel25:


This is exactly her point.... Seriously I can't curb it without an alternative

Bros you just have to try, not like she is taking away football from you, but just that little sacrifice can settle everything.....i know Watching football with a lot of people is the real deal but it's a minor thing you can do away with since it's just at night. What if the roles were reversed, you want her to do away with something you don't like and she is being adamant: will you be happy about it?

I think your Lady cares too much... Left to me I would keep shut and wait till you meet your doom then I will give you the "didn't I warn you " treatment. Im not your mom after all

LeView1:
I swear a relationship with an African is like slavery sometimes! Op carry on and let her get angry. Stand your ground. It's not like you're married with children and you're rolling in after midnight drunk! She is controlling and if you start giving in now she will control all your movements. If she leaves you for watching football she wasn't worth wifing to begin with.

To those shouting she's worried about his safety, is she his mum? He's a grown man. If she's worried a simple "call me or text me when you get home safely" is enough.

Epic.......
sister you must be in spirit....

Get a dstv decoder and ask her pay 9420 sub for you every month

If she pays the bill for two month and she no follow u go watch 9pm match the third month make u call me bastard.

Moreoffaith:
Get a dstv decoder and ask her pay 9420 sub for you every month

If she pays the bill for two month my brother she go free you the 3rd month.

This got my rib cracking

Anyone that loves you must respect your feeling. What are her reasons.

ufuosman:
I know football is more interesting wen u watch it wit people but you have to stop if you love her. Just stop and be watching it in ur house.

Bro it's fun watching football at viewing centres