omochelsea004:

The problem now is my fiancee has a very low sex drive, she is not in any way interested in sex at all, it's not as if i love sex too much but at least i enjoy sex as every other human being should

Datingcomrade:
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well.

Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex, locate her weak point and biko, make she at least reach orgasm for once.

Nackzy:
Chaaiii if you really love her as you say, you will make do with her least libido..what we do 4 love as far as you use to put your dick deh once in a blue moon that's enough

pcguru1:


Some people are asexual. Not everyone likes or craves sex

Datingcomrade:
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well.

Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex all the time, locate her weak point biko, at least make she reach orgasm for once.

thesicilian:

If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14) . The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage.

Datingcomrade:
Unless she is circumcised, there is nothing you can do, you just have to cope with her, but if she's not circumcised, she's programmed to enjoy sex and that means you ain't handling her very well.

Every woman has her own weak points which when activated, will definitely make her crave for sex all the time, locate her weak point biko, at least make she reach orgasm for once.

thesicilian:

If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14). The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage.

thesicilian:

So after 8yrs he should keep looking for her weak point to activate? Even the buttons to nuclear weapons don't take that long to locate.

omochelsea004:
exactly my fear bro, if she is like this with no burden or pressure whatsoever, how will it be when she start taking care of kids, & other burdens that come with marriage, at that time will i even be relevant at all?

Munzy14:
Op, I don't knw y u people always explore loop holes when it's time to seal the deal. If u dated her for 8yrs, you should know u aren't sexually compatible na. U would av ended and walk away.. But u kept on till last minute, u now reminisce reality.
U said u have done everything possible, wat and wat could that be?.
I hope u are good looking and maintain good hygiene in and out.
Do u guys really have a real heart to heart talk?
Are two of you comfortable with each other even when naked?.
explore her Oga. She will open up ones u make her comfortable.
If u are doing religious in a relationship, it will mess up everything.
I swear if she is very comfortable with u, to extent she can be stack naked with u all day at home... Their is no way the drive will be lacking.
if she is not sexually compatible with you, find a way to resolve this. Other wise you will cheat on her. And it will be a wreck. Nothing like she is cool with it.
Sex is primary thing that binds us with women. U need it.

omochelsea004:
initially i thought she was pretending so that i can believe she is a decent girl, but along the line i discovered she wasn't pretending at all, it's just the way she is & that's when i start having this feeling it's gonna be very hard... to ans your question, she is very much convenient being unclad around me, she is very free & we are free with each other, the only problem is this sexual aspect, & no matter how happy we are, no matter how deep we might have played, immediately i initiate a single move, she will lose interest in everything & her mood will automatically switch to offline, in fact it's already affecting me psychologically, because i noticed this days that she isn't sexually attracted to me again the way it was, as in i don't usually feel sexual arouse whenever we are together, sexual urge towards her have reduced tremendously, & to be candid i don't like it

thesicilian:

If you're not sexually compatible, it's going to be a huge strain on marriage later on. If she doesn't like sex now, imagine how bad it's going to be after having one or two children, maybe you'll be having sex twice a year: on your birthday and Valentine's day (or maybe once a year if your birthday is Feb 14). The ideal thing you should do is either learn to deal with it like that, or leave her alone and find someone else more sexually compatible with yourself. Otherwise you just might end up in a frustrated, infidelity-laden marriage.

tyup:


more reasons why Nigerian girls are not my taste

leave her if you can or get you a side chick pick either ways

Ryan03:
Nigerian girls are not your type so you advise him to get a side chick, will the side chick be from another country?

Michelle55:
No one is ever complete/perfect.. Op, that's her own imperfection, either you deal with it and accept her like that or let her go to avoid strain and infidelity during the course of your marriage.

omochelsea004:
are u guys saying there is no remedy, there is no solution, there is no pills or medication for it at all? should I take it that there is no way at all to help improve her sex drive?

Munzy14:

Check if she had a past, to me it appears she has a past that comes in the moment u want to...
She really need to open up, if she is not using that to fast forward the marriage.
let her understand marriage is life issue. U need sanity to be the best man for her in it.
Her problem might be a case of mindset.

Michelle55:
is she circumcised? I don't think there's any medication except you want to give her aphrodisiac? But the question would be for how long will you continue to boost her sexual drive if atall there's a medication for it.

pcguru1:
Wow it took 8 years to finally reach this obviously she won't be, if 8 years you guys can go on, it will be assumed that you are already cool with it. Mehn best of luck I don't ever wish to be in your shoes

omochelsea004:
yes she was circumcised... the person that did it no even try at all, & i knw that's the problem with her, but if there are medications that can help improve her sexual drive, i am ready to take it as one of my responsibilities, as a matter of fact i heard about one "[b]Spanish fly[/b]but i don't know much about it & i don't want anything with side effects