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10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by handsomenonny(m): 8:10am On Apr 08, 2017
There is a reaction to every action; most ladies are
naturally cautious and it would be a lie to think most of
them do not think or assume men would want to sleep
with them the very first time they visit them.
As a result of this, women also devise methods that
would protect them as much as possible so the guys
would not sleep with them on the first date. Having s*x
may be inevitable in that relationship at the long run, but
women are able to prolong the abstinence for as long as
possible when they do take certain steps.
Find below some of the things ladies do when they do
not want a guy to sleep with them anytime they go visit
them:


1. Keeping the door opened
Ladies sometimes are on the defensive side and ask men to open the door to their rooms so everyone could see what is happening in the room.
To an extent, ladies feel comfortable this way as they
know it is near impossible for the guys to attempt being funny or try to have sex with them with the door wide opened.

2. Wearing tight clothes
Another thing ladies do when they go visit men in their
houses is to wear tight clothes that have restrictions. It
would be pretty difficult getting them out of the cloth
and it would give them enough time to allow sanity creep back in peradventure they got carried away.

3. Red flag shows up
Ladies know that men do not like hearing the fact that
the red flag is on. Most men would be irritated seeing the blood bank of the girls when they want to sleep with
them.
It is a natural turn off for men so ladies use it as a
weapon and say they are on. Some even go on to wear
pads just to prove it is real.

4. They would have a friend with them
Ladies do not like visiting men for the first time alone.
They would rather go with one or two friends that would help them break the tension that could be around the place.
Having one or two other girls in the room apart from the main girl visiting would spoil the show for the men.
Ladies can be sure nothing would happen then.

5. They avoid sitting on the bed
Many ladies avoid sitting on the bed when they visit men as they feel they are falling into a trap. The bed makes them more cautious and to avoid being tempted or lured into doing something they do not want to do at that moment, they would rather sit on the chair.

6. They receive calls at intervals
When ladies feel like they have stayed long enough in a
place, they start to receive calls that would make the guys feel they need to be on their way. Some even become apologetic on the phone to make the guy feel they have to go somewhere immediately.
In some cases, girls put their friends up to this and make them call them at intervals just to prevent the guy from launching his sex idea on them.

7. They focus on something
Another thing ladies do when visiting guys in their houses is to concentrate on doing a particular thing. Some place all their attention on books while some watch movies and do not give the guys the time to want to get personal with them.

8. List of house chores
Ladies avoid having sex with men they visit by coming up with the excuse of leaving for their own house. Usually, the guy would try to persuade them and they would come up with the annoying list of things they need to do at home before their parents or guardians get back.

9. Stories that touch the heart
Sometimes, ladies cook up all sorts of stories that would make men pity them; they talk about how they have suffered one or two forms of abuse in their previous relationships. They act traumatized and this would naturally throw the men off balance.
It would after all be inappropriate for the guys to want to try anything funny after they have heard their heart
touching tales.

10. They act edgy
Sometimes, ladies deliberately put up an edgy front when they visit men in their houses. They act uncomfortable and would be cold towards the guy till they leave. Men sense their defense and aloofness and would rather leave them alone till they adjust.

Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by ILoveToFuCcK: 8:12am On Apr 08, 2017
Even though I'm an advocate of pυssy fυcking... I don't like the picture you used...it decipicts rape...
Fυck pυssy joyfully.... Say no to rape angry

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Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by QueenSuccubus(f): 8:14am On Apr 08, 2017
grin

#4 is so me..
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by ILoveToFuCcK: 8:15am On Apr 08, 2017
QueenSuccubus:
grin
#4 is so me..
You sabi fυck?? undecided
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by lordm(m): 8:19am On Apr 08, 2017
Have you noticed that some banks have stopped paying interest capilization

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Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by MJBOLT: 8:20am On Apr 08, 2017
they start preaching the gospel angrygrin

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Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by QueenSuccubus(f): 8:21am On Apr 08, 2017
ILoveToFuCcK:
Even though I'm an advocate for pυssy fυcking... I don't like the picture you used...it decipicts rape...
Fυck pυssy joyfully.... Say no to rape angry


I dunno what decipict means but i dont think that's a photo of a girl being raped while they taking pictures . undecided


Can u blame the man with a monstrous meat thrusting her tight NUNU ? Her facial reaction is juz normal...
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by newyorks(m): 8:23am On Apr 08, 2017
funny but i don't hav chair(s) so she must lay on the bed.unless i marry i dont intend buying any.

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Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by adroitvezy(m): 8:33am On Apr 08, 2017
cry number 4 mostly used by 9ja girls even when you tell to come alone
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by RoyalBlak007: 8:36am On Apr 08, 2017
♤No matter how they do their stuff

♤I always keep bypassing these Firewalls cool.

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Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Nobody: 8:41am On Apr 08, 2017
RoyalBlak007:
♤No matter how they do their stuff

♤I always keep bypassing these Firewalls cool.
rapist in the making

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Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by adegeye38(m): 8:43am On Apr 08, 2017
handsomenonny:
There is a reaction to every action; most ladies are
naturally cautious and it would be a lie to think most of
them do not think or assume men would want to sleep
with them the very first time they visit them.
As a result of this, women also devise methods that
would protect them as much as possible so the guys
would not sleep with them on the first date. Having s*x
may be inevitable in that relationship at the long run, but
women are able to prolong the abstinence for as long as
possible when they do take certain steps.
Find below some of the things ladies do when they do
not want a guy to sleep with them anytime they go visit
them:


1. Keeping the door opened
Ladies sometimes are on the defensive side and ask men to open the door to their rooms so everyone could see what is happening in the room.
To an extent, ladies feel comfortable this way as they
know it is near impossible for the guys to attempt being funny or try to have sex with them with the door wide opened.

2. Wearing tight clothes
Another thing ladies do when they go visit men in their
houses is to wear tight clothes that have restrictions. It
would be pretty difficult getting them out of the cloth
and it would give them enough time to allow sanity creep back in peradventure they got carried away.

3. Red flag shows up
Ladies know that men do not like hearing the fact that
the red flag is on. Most men would be irritated seeing the blood bank of the girls when they want to sleep with
them.
It is a natural turn off for men so ladies use it as a
weapon and say they are on. Some even go on to wear
pads just to prove it is real.

4. They would have a friend with them
Ladies do not like visiting men for the first time alone.
They would rather go with one or two friends that would help them break the tension that could be around the place.
Having one or two other girls in the room apart from the main girl visiting would spoil the show for the men.
Ladies can be sure nothing would happen then.

5. They avoid sitting on the bed
Many ladies avoid sitting on the bed when they visit men as they feel they are falling into a trap. The bed makes them more cautious and to avoid being tempted or lured into doing something they do not want to do at that moment, they would rather sit on the chair.

6. They receive calls at intervals
When ladies feel like they have stayed long enough in a
place, they start to receive calls that would make the guys feel they need to be on their way. Some even become apologetic on the phone to make the guy feel they have to go somewhere immediately.
In some cases, girls put their friends up to this and make them call them at intervals just to prevent the guy from launching his sex idea on them.

7. They focus on something
Another thing ladies do when visiting guys in their houses is to concentrate on doing a particular thing. Some place all their attention on books while some watch movies and do not give the guys the time to want to get personal with them.

8. List of house chores
Ladies avoid having sex with men they visit by coming up with the excuse of leaving for their own house. Usually, the guy would try to persuade them and they would come up with the annoying list of things they need to do at home before their parents or guardians get back.

9. Stories that touch the heart
Sometimes, ladies cook up all sorts of stories that would make men pity them; they talk about how they have suffered one or two forms of abuse in their previous relationships. They act traumatized and this would naturally throw the men off balance.
It would after all be inappropriate for the guys to want to try anything funny after they have heard their heart
touching tales.

10. They act edgy
Sometimes, ladies deliberately put up an edgy front when they visit men in their houses. They act uncomfortable and would be cold towards the guy till they leave. Men sense their defense and aloofness and would rather leave them alone till they adjust.
are you talking about guys who live in a one room apartment or wat?
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by RoyalBlak007: 8:48am On Apr 08, 2017
funmisticqueen:
rapist in the making

♤Did you

♤júst type this? Höw does this relate to "Rape"……?
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Nobody: 9:28am On Apr 08, 2017
RoyalBlak007:


♤Did you

♤júst type this? Höw does this relate to "Rape"……?
it is simple, a girl is giving u clues that she does not want to sleep with you, but you are passing firewalls na like one badass hacker. Even if you do touch her in the right places or sweet talk her, her body will respond which is normal but deep in her mind she doesnt want to but cant talk because her body is betraying her, now you will see that as a green light becos konji dey catch you and u r using your joystick to think b4 you know the deed is done. The bottom line is even though you did it, she didnt really want it, rape is not only sex by force, it is sex by coercion too. Not everyone is so strong willed. It is things like this that make girl fake it. The day can come when she will give you clues, then say no but brain don shut down and it will turn to real rape. That is how it starts. And this why i called you rapist in the making. Imagine a woman did this to you and you are married, she is seducing you but u wanna stay faithful. The dicck will definitely rise and she will still do it. Did u want it? no. Have you cheated? Yes, even though u didnt want to? Did she rape you? Hell yes, rape by coercion. That is why i said what i said dont take it the hard way.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by RoyalBlak007: 9:54am On Apr 08, 2017
funmisticqueen:

it is simple, a girl is giving u clues that she does not want to sleep with you, but you are passing firewalls na like one badass hacker. Even if you do touch her in the right places or sweet talk her, her body will respond which is normal but deep in her mind she doesnt want to but cant talk because her body is betraying her, now you will see that as a green light becos konji dey catch you and u r using your joystick to think b4 you know the deed is done. The bottom line is even though you did it, she didnt really want it, rape is not only sex by force, it is sex by coercion too. Not everyone is so strong willed. It is things like this that make girl fake it. The day can come when she will give you clues, then say no but brain don shut down and it will turn to real rape. That is how it starts. And this why i called you rapist in the making. Imagine a woman did this to you and you are married, she is seducing you but u wanna stay faithful. The dicck will definitely rise and she will still do it. Did u want it? no. Have you cheated? Yes, even though u didnt want to? Did she rape you? Hell yes, rape by coercion. That is why i said what i said dont take it the hard way.


♤Rule 1"I do whatever pleases me"

♤I have done it countless times and they all ended up liking it(keep cûmming back)


♤some ladies dunno how to say "Let's have sex" instead they twist it around...Wanting you to be rapacious. It turns some ladies on

♤...All Firewalls can be bypassed..All cool
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Nobody: 9:57am On Apr 08, 2017
Lol. Dahs so me buh i don't do number 4
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Divay22(f): 10:02am On Apr 08, 2017
Can i play here please cry cry cry
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Nobody: 10:25am On Apr 08, 2017
Divay22:
Can i play here please cry cry cry
lol,u jux dey play everywhere.
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Divay22(f): 10:30am On Apr 08, 2017
Anitateddy:
lol,u jux dey play everywhere.
grin grin grin grin I can only play online o cheesy cheesy
Love to jump upandan, because very soon i won't be able to again cry
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by mayorski01(m): 10:33am On Apr 08, 2017
Divay22:
grin grin grin grin I can only play online o cheesy cheesy Love to jump upandan, because very soon i won't be able to again cry
Let's play together. hope u won't do me any of the above stuffs
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Nobody: 10:33am On Apr 08, 2017
Divay22:

grin grin grin grin I can only play online o cheesy cheesy
Love to jump upandan, because very soon i won't be able to again cry
Lol. Life is too short,so lets enjoy it while it lasts

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Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Divay22(f): 10:36am On Apr 08, 2017
mayorski01:

Let's play together. [/b]hope u won't do me any of the above stuffs[b]

Yes o...I'll do number 2 grin grin
Are you game cheesy
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by mayorski01(m): 10:40am On Apr 08, 2017
Divay22:

Yes o...I'll do number 2 grin grin Are you game cheesy
Of course darling grin I feel like ripping things off anyway
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Nobody: 10:44am On Apr 08, 2017
RoyalBlak007:



♤Rule 1"I do whatever pleases me"

♤I have done it countless times and they all ended up liking it(keep cûmming back)


♤some ladies dunno how to say "Let's have sex" instead they twist it around...Wanting you to be rapacious. It turns some ladies on

♤...All Firewalls can be bypassed..All cool



it is wrong to do whatever you like with people. That is where i draw the line. i have said my own, has there ever been an instance when you noticed she was not in the mood and you stopped.
I trust you wont pass mine. I will only give toto to whomever i deem worthy. It has nothing to do with yanga
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by mayorski01(m): 10:49am On Apr 08, 2017
funmisticqueen:
it is wrong to do whatever you like with people. That is where i draw the line. i have said my own, has there ever been an instance when you noticed she was not in the mood and you stopped.

The guy is right. Persistence and skill are big turn on where a woman is concerned. in fact if she wasn't in the mood as you indicated the mere fact you were able to put her innit would have her drooling over. Works everytime

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Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by RoyalBlak007: 10:50am On Apr 08, 2017
funmisticqueen:
it is wrong to do whatever you like with people. That is where i draw the line. i have said my own, has there ever been an instance when you noticed she was not in the mood and you stopped.

♤Once the Firewall is down, it's a smooth ride all the way...No stopover...No potholes

♤it is wrong to do whatever i like? So you mean you act based on other people's opinions? Tell me please
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by RoyalBlak007: 10:54am On Apr 08, 2017
funmisticqueen:
it is wrong to do whatever you like with people. That is where i draw the line. i have said my own, has there ever been an instance when you noticed she was not in the mood and you stopped.
I trust you wont pass mine. I will only give toto to whomever i deem worthy. It has nothing to do with yanga



♤like i said "All Firewalls can be bypassed" it all depends on the "Hacker's skill' and the "software&hardwares"

♤.at bolded(It means ur also doing "what pleases you...Innit?)
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Divay22(f): 10:54am On Apr 08, 2017
mayorski01:


Of course darling grin
I feel like ripping things off anyway
Give your life to Christ..

Come lemme pray for you

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Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Nobody: 11:02am On Apr 08, 2017
RoyalBlak007:


♤Once the Firewall is down, it's a smooth ride all the way...No stopover...No potholes

♤it is wrong to do whatever i like? So you mean you act based on other people's opinions? Tell me please
no, i also do as i please but not to people feelings, i dont act based on people's opinions, there is a difference, it is called empathy, it is something you learn
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by mayorski01(m): 11:02am On Apr 08, 2017
Divay22:

Give your life to Christ..

Come lemme pray for you
grin.. Oya, lemme kneel in front of you, place your hands on my head. Close your eyes and start praying.......


What can you imagine me doing?



P.S who needs prayers now. grin
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Nobody: 11:09am On Apr 08, 2017
mayorski01:


The guy is right. Persistence and skill are big turn on where a woman is concerned. in fact if she wasn't in the mood as you indicated the mere fact you were able to put her innit would have her drooling over. Works everytime
i see you and his point, you are right Persistence and skill are big turn on where a woman is concerned but it is not everytime, does that mean you would do this to a girl who just broke up with her boyfriend, wouldnt that make you a rebound lover or to a sick or mad person. My whole point is that not in all cases that diick will enter for every rule there is an exception. That is what i am trying to say
Re: 10 Things Ladies Do When They Visit A Guy They Don’t Want To Sleep With by Divay22(f): 11:11am On Apr 08, 2017
mayorski01:

grin.. Oya, lemme kneel in front of you, place your hands on my head. Close your eyes and start praying.......


What can you imagine me doing?



P.S who needs prayers now. grin
Abeg am hungry and when am hungry I'm not happy sad

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