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How To Behave After Sex by Nikkyissakhutie(f): 8:50pm On Apr 12, 2017
1....Let the intimacy of the moment fade gradually. Just because you’ve enjoyed yourselves doesn’t mean that the feeling of intimacy should end when the sex does. Put another way – you use pre-intimacy to gradually ramp up the sexual attraction, and you should use the time afterward to gently return to the “real world.” The biggest mistake people make after sex is getting up and leaving as soon as it is over, destroying all of the intimacy you’ve built together.

There is no rule saying you have to talk right after sex. Spooning, cuddling, or even holding hands is a good way to slowly relax back into everyday life.If you want to put some clothes back on, keep it casual (underwear, sweats, pajamas, etc.) and hop back into bed. You don’t need to stay naked if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

Turn off the phone—no one wants to feel like their partner would rather talk to someone else.

Stay out of the kitchen – it is natural to feel hungry after sex, but that doesn’t mean your first comment should be “I could use some food.”Stay awake—falling asleep right after sex will make your partner feel disrespected, used, and unloved. 


2.....Enjoy some time in silence if the conversation feels awkward.Enjoy the quiet and only speak when you have something to say. There is something incredibly loving about being with someone, enjoying each other’s presence, and not saying a single word. Sex is an intimate act, and a lot of intimacy is unspoken.

Try just making eye contact, smiling or laughing, holding hands, or cuddling. When the two of you are ready to talk, you’ll feel conversation bubbling up organically.

3....Keep any conversation candid and casual. After a moment as intimate as sex, conversation can seem incredibly mundane and difficult.

Don’t feel like you need to drop a movie-worthy line – you won’t come up with a good one and it won’t sound nearly as romantic as you think. The most important advice for pillow-talk is to be yourself. Be relaxed, honest, and open and the conversation will feel natural.

Opening up about your day – share a funny story, talk about work, or explain a new project, hobby, or event that you’re excited for

.Asking questions— you don’t need to start an inquisition; simply ask your partner how their day went, if they have any weekend plans, and let the conversation unfold.


Thank you.....

#nikkycares
Re: How To Behave After Sex by SINZ: 8:56pm On Apr 12, 2017
How to behave after sex?

Can't I just sleep?

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Re: How To Behave After Sex by optional1(f): 9:06pm On Apr 12, 2017
see as op dey teach grandfathers and grandmothers how to behave after s*x..



Lols who won say e be learner..
Re: How To Behave After Sex by Nikkyissakhutie(f): 9:06pm On Apr 12, 2017
SINZ:
How to behave after sex?

Can't I just sleep?
lol.... no

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Re: How To Behave After Sex by SINZ: 9:09pm On Apr 12, 2017
Nikkyissakhutie:
lol.... no
Come and wake me na undecided

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Re: How To Behave After Sex by Nobody: 9:35pm On Apr 12, 2017
So many professors on nairaland which school una learn al dis? Nice write one rily so sleeping immediately is disrespectful no wonder she always get angry after I woke up bt d tin no be small exercise oooo.
Re: How To Behave After Sex by Nobody: 9:38pm On Apr 12, 2017
How did I get here?
Re: How To Behave After Sex by pressplay411(m): 10:38pm On Apr 12, 2017
Not bad.
Now from a man's POV.

Get that ninja a well package meal for a job well done (it's only right to recoup the dissipated calories) Serve him while still half nude. Stroke his Big Ego and prep that Giganosaurus for another round.

That's how to behave.

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Re: How To Behave After Sex by firstking01(m): 10:45pm On Apr 12, 2017
Sleep remains the best therapy after sexual exercise.
Re: How To Behave After Sex by NnamdiN: 1:24am On Apr 13, 2017
after sex is





more sex wink
Re: How To Behave After Sex by Nobody: 1:33am On Apr 13, 2017
Nikkyissakhutie:
1....Let the intimacy of the moment fade gradually. Just because you’ve enjoyed yourselves doesn’t mean that the feeling of intimacy should end when the sex does. Put another way – you use pre-intimacy to gradually ramp up the sexual attraction, and you should use the time afterward to gently return to the “real world.” The biggest mistake people make after sex is getting up and leaving as soon as it is over, destroying all of the intimacy you’ve built together.

There is no rule saying you have to talk right after sex. Spooning, cuddling, or even holding hands is a good way to slowly relax back into everyday life.If you want to put some clothes back on, keep it casual (underwear, sweats, pajamas, etc.) and hop back into bed. You don’t need to stay naked if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

Turn off the phone—no one wants to feel like their partner would rather talk to someone else.

Stay out of the kitchen – it is natural to feel hungry after sex, but that doesn’t mean your first comment should be “I could use some food.”Stay awake—falling asleep right after sex will make your partner feel disrespected, used, and unloved. 


2.....Enjoy some time in silence if the conversation feels awkward.Enjoy the quiet and only speak when you have something to say. There is something incredibly loving about being with someone, enjoying each other’s presence, and not saying a single word. Sex is an intimate act, and a lot of intimacy is unspoken.

Try just making eye contact, smiling or laughing, holding hands, or cuddling. When the two of you are ready to talk, you’ll feel conversation bubbling up organically.

3....Keep any conversation candid and casual. After a moment as intimate as sex, conversation can seem incredibly mundane and difficult.

Don’t feel like you need to drop a movie-worthy line – you won’t come up with a good one and it won’t sound nearly as romantic as you think. The most important advice for pillow-talk is to be yourself. Be relaxed, honest, and open and the conversation will feel natural.

Opening up about your day – share a funny story, talk about work, or explain a new project, hobby, or event that you’re excited for

.Asking questions— you don’t need to start an inquisition; simply ask your partner how their day went, if they have any weekend plans, and let the conversation unfold.


Thank you.....

#nikkycares
hmm the fu.... Ck lord
Re: How To Behave After Sex by Tajbol4splend(m): 1:42am On Apr 13, 2017
If one reads this kinda posts every time you will one day have ur head slashed into two equal halves
Re: How To Behave After Sex by BasketballGURU(m): 2:25am On Apr 13, 2017
cheesy
Re: How To Behave After Sex by Nobody: 2:33am On Apr 13, 2017
Nice teach buh I dnt think I can keep up with some off them.
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Re: How To Behave After Sex by ameezy(m): 5:36am On Apr 13, 2017
NnamdiN:
after sex is





more sex wink
grin cheesy

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Re: How To Behave After Sex by Li2Finger: 6:14am On Apr 13, 2017
optional1:
see as op dey teach grandfathers and grandmothers how to behave after s*x..




Lols who won say e be learner..
And just when I thought someone is still naive of the term "coit-us"
Re: How To Behave After Sex by dingbang(m): 6:18am On Apr 13, 2017
Sex mustn't always take place at nights...
Re: How To Behave After Sex by Divay22(f): 6:46am On Apr 13, 2017
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: How To Behave After Sex by Lionessza(f): 6:46am On Apr 13, 2017
Nikkyissakhutie:
1....Let the intimacy of the moment fade gradually. Just because you’ve enjoyed yourselves doesn’t mean that the feeling of intimacy should end when the sex does. Put another way – you use pre-intimacy to gradually ramp up the sexual attraction, and you should use the time afterward to gently return to the “real world.” The biggest mistake people make after sex is getting up and leaving as soon as it is over, destroying all of the intimacy you’ve built together.

There is no rule saying you have to talk right after sex. Spooning, cuddling, or even holding hands is a good way to slowly relax back into everyday life.If you want to put some clothes back on, keep it casual (underwear, sweats, pajamas, etc.) and hop back into bed. You don’t need to stay naked if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

Turn off the phone—no one wants to feel like their partner would rather talk to someone else.

Stay out of the kitchen – it is natural to feel hungry after sex, but that doesn’t mean your first comment should be “I could use some food.”Stay awake—falling asleep right after sex will make your partner feel disrespected, used, and unloved. 


2.....Enjoy some time in silence if the conversation feels awkward.Enjoy the quiet and only speak when you have something to say. There is something incredibly loving about being with someone, enjoying each other’s presence, and not saying a single word. Sex is an intimate act, and a lot of intimacy is unspoken.

Try just making eye contact, smiling or laughing, holding hands, or cuddling. When the two of you are ready to talk, you’ll feel conversation bubbling up organically.

3....Keep any conversation candid and casual. After a moment as intimate as sex, conversation can seem incredibly mundane and difficult.

Don’t feel like you need to drop a movie-worthy line – you won’t come up with a good one and it won’t sound nearly as romantic as you think. The most important advice for pillow-talk is to be yourself. Be relaxed, honest, and open and the conversation will feel natural.

Opening up about your day – share a funny story, talk about work, or explain a new project, hobby, or event that you’re excited for

.Asking questions— you don’t need to start an inquisition; simply ask your partner how their day went, if they have any weekend plans, and let the conversation unfold.


Thank you.....

#nikkycares




How to behave after sex? Well how about doing whatever feels right to you at that moment
Re: How To Behave After Sex by newguy1(m): 6:53am On Apr 13, 2017
If it was a good sex u get . A Cuba cigar with ciroc n jam to d track I 4k are good shikena
Re: How To Behave After Sex by Lunagirl(f): 7:16am On Apr 13, 2017
How to behave after good sex

Please give me food, after then we can now cuddle and talk or something. But I need to eat first biko.
Re: How To Behave After Sex by twentyk(m): 8:22am On Apr 13, 2017
how to behave after sex......how i go behave again...
Re: How To Behave After Sex by MusicPromota(f): 9:18am On Apr 13, 2017
:-(
Re: How To Behave After Sex by optional1(f): 9:19am On Apr 13, 2017
firstking01:
Sleep remains the best therapy after sexual exercise.




you never do d upgrading of dat app
Re: How To Behave After Sex by kingPhidel(m): 9:30am On Apr 13, 2017
Outta experience.
Kontino.. Issorite

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Re: How To Behave After Sex by Headlesschicken(m): 9:43am On Apr 13, 2017
embarassed nowadays wat everyone now wants to talk bout x sex,is dis d way forward?
Re: How To Behave After Sex by NnamdiN: 9:49am On Apr 13, 2017
ameezy:
grin cheesy
I'm telling you boss cool
Re: How To Behave After Sex by firstking01(m): 10:07am On Apr 13, 2017
optional1:





you never do d upgrading of dat app
For where, i don upgrade tire, atimes it will read upgrading/dowmloading failed in the endsad.
Re: How To Behave After Sex by optional1(f): 10:35am On Apr 13, 2017
firstking01:
For where, i don upgrade tire, atimes it will read upgrading/dowmloading failed in the endsad.



kukuma delete am nd download another one.. Dats if ur phone is in support of d app oh... Hope say ur phone no join those wey they go stop from June 31st bah...
Re: How To Behave After Sex by firstking01(m): 10:52am On Apr 13, 2017
optional1:




kukuma delete am nd download another one.. Dats if ur phone is in support of d app oh... Hope say ur phone no join those wey they go stop from June 31st bah...
Nah....i 'll sure do the ugrading, hopefully todae....

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