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Advice Please by Aityluv: 2:20pm On Apr 22, 2017
I met him during my service year, my senior colleague then, from d same locality. Broke up 3 yrs ago but we were still communicating to some extent. He wants me back again. Pls is it advisable to start up a relationship wd him again?
Re: Advice Please by Nobody: 2:23pm On Apr 22, 2017
Is your life better with or without him?
Re: Advice Please by hardbody: 2:23pm On Apr 22, 2017
What would you lose if you gave a come-back a chance? There lies the answer to your question
Re: Advice Please by Aityluv: 2:27pm On Apr 22, 2017
VolTOxic:
Is your life better with or without him?

Nt at all, I always missed his presence
Re: Advice Please by Bekwarra(m): 2:27pm On Apr 22, 2017
ok
Re: Advice Please by Aityluv: 2:30pm On Apr 22, 2017
hardbody:
What would you lose if you gave a come-back a chance? There lies the answer to your question
Nothing, cos I don't ve a serious date for not, but my fear is how genuine is he wanting me bk, pls any advice on what to watch out from him?
Re: Advice Please by Fuckshiit: 2:32pm On Apr 22, 2017
He fûçkiñg wants to $másh Ur pússy again
Re: Advice Please by Aityluv: 2:33pm On Apr 22, 2017
Bekwarra:
ok
if u don't knw how to say something gud to some one, just don't say at all
Re: Advice Please by Nobody: 2:38pm On Apr 22, 2017
Aityluv:

Nt at all, I always missed his present.

Well... I hope he isn't back to waste your time. Because time is precious. All I can say is If infidelity have nothing to do with your previous break up, then give him a chance.
Re: Advice Please by McBeee(m): 2:41pm On Apr 22, 2017
Aityluv:
I met him during my service year, my senior colleague then, from d same locality. Broke up 3 yrs ago but we were still communicating to some extent. He wants me back again. Pls is it advisable to start up a relationship wd him again?
the major question is why did you guys break it off in the first place
Re: Advice Please by Aityluv: 2:47pm On Apr 22, 2017
VolTOxic:


Well... I hope he isn't back to waste your time. Because time is precious. All I can say is If infidelity have nothing to do with your previous break up, then give him a chance.
Infedelity wasn't involved,
Re: Advice Please by hardbody: 2:50pm On Apr 22, 2017
Aityluv:

Nothing, cos I don't ve a serious date for not, but my fear is how genuine is he wanting me bk, pls any advice on what to watch out from him?

The only way you confirm the genuineness is by giving it a chance. While a leopard can never change its spots, people grow out of some behaviours and become more mature. What were the negatives you were not happy with? Look out for those. Confirm what you yourself wants and determine whether the guy wants the same, eg marriage. Don't push it but access his attitude and see how his acts and operations tends towards just him or you both.

Open your heart and mind. Some people become serious during the second missionary journey

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Re: Advice Please by MrSavage: 2:51pm On Apr 22, 2017
Aityluv:
I met him during my service year, my senior colleague then, from d same locality. Broke up 3 yrs ago but we were still communicating to some extent. He wants me back again. Pls is it advisable to start up a relationship wd him again?
people like this dey tire me.... you go soon come to NL to ask if it's wise to bath in the morning. Go and ask your pastor
Re: Advice Please by Bekwarra(m): 2:51pm On Apr 22, 2017
Aityluv:
if u don't knw how to say something gud to some one, just don't say at all

so OK is not something good? kpele
Re: Advice Please by Fmartin(m): 3:02pm On Apr 22, 2017
Aityluv:

Nt at all, I always missed his present.
which of his 'present' did u missed precisely?

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Re: Advice Please by YoungBlackRico(m): 3:05pm On Apr 22, 2017
McBeee:

the major question is why did you guys break it off in the first place
Aityluv, answer this question.

©YBR

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Re: Advice Please by YoungBlackRico(m): 3:06pm On Apr 22, 2017
Fmartin:
which of his 'present' did u missed precisely?
You no serious, saw wat u did there. grin

©YBR

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Re: Advice Please by ikp120(m): 3:09pm On Apr 22, 2017
Fmartin:
which of his 'present' did u missed precisely?
His present account balance, car and Ikoyi mansion. Hehehehehe grin grin grin grin grin grin

Re: Advice Please by Fmartin(m): 3:10pm On Apr 22, 2017
YoungBlackRico:
You no serious, saw wat u did there. grin

©YBR
grin SHHH! lipsrsealed

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Re: Advice Please by akaahs(m): 3:54pm On Apr 22, 2017
Aityluv:

Nothing, cos I don't ve a serious date for not, but my fear is how genuine is he wanting me bk, pls any advice on what to watch out from him?
u haven't tell us what lead to ur break-up, hw can we know whether u should accept him or not
Re: Advice Please by Aityluv: 10:30pm On Apr 22, 2017
The only way you confirm the genuineness is by giving it a chance. While a leopard can never change its spots, people grow out of some behaviours and become more mature. What were the negatives you were not happy with? Look out for those. Confirm what you yourself wants and determine whether the guy wants the same, eg marriage. Don't push it but access his attitude and see how his acts and operations tends towards just him or you both.

Open your heart and mind. Some people become serious during the second missionary journey[/quote]
Thank u so much, I will give myself a chance for him. God bless u
Re: Advice Please by Aityluv: 10:36pm On Apr 22, 2017
MrSavage:
people like this dey tire me.... you go soon come to NL to ask if it's wise to bath in the morning. Go and ask your pastor

Bros, ur advice would have gone a long way, rather than this
Re: Advice Please by Aityluv: 10:40pm On Apr 22, 2017
YoungBlackRico:
Aityluv, answer this question.

©YBR
as at then, we were distanced, dt mks us find it difficult to trust ourselves n problems set in from there
Re: Advice Please by Aityluv: 10:42pm On Apr 22, 2017
[quote author=Aityluv post=55822060]The only way you confirm the genuineness is by giving it a chance. While a leopard can never change its spots, people grow out of some behaviours and become more mature. What were the negatives you were not happy with? Look out for those. Confirm what you yourself wants and determine whether the guy wants the same, eg marriage. Don't push it but access his attitude and see how his acts and operations tends towards just him or you both.

Open your heart and mind. Some people become serious during the second missionary journey.
Re: Advice Please by Aityluv: 10:45pm On Apr 22, 2017
ikp120:
His present account balance, car and Ikoyi mansion. Hehehehehe grin grin grin grin grin grin
those u mention are all secondary. The primary aspect is a remarkable thing the person has left behind which is not inclusive in ur writeup
Re: Advice Please by Aityluv: 10:51pm On Apr 22, 2017
hardbody:


The only way you confirm the genuineness is by giving it a chance. While a leopard can never change its spots, people grow out of some behaviours and become more mature. What were the negatives you were not happy with? Look out for those. Confirm what you yourself wants and determine whether the guy wants the same, eg marriage. Don't push it but access his attitude and see how his acts and operations tends towards just him or you both.

Open your heart and mind. Some people become serious during the second missionary journey
Thanks so much, ur advice will really go a long way. I will give him a chance

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