Help I won't stay for one year without sex if you travel abroad

My fiancee cried out.


Hello my brothers and sisters, happy Sunday to you all.

Please, am seriously in dire need of an advice.

The company where i am working is about to send us for one year course outside the shores of Nigeria, but am having a problem with my fiancee who am about to get married to very soon.

Sincerely speaking she told me pointblank that she can not afford to stay alone without me for one year without sex.

Initially I thought this was suppose to be a celebration when i informed her about my travelling abroad but the reverse was the case.

However, a friend had suggested that i should introduce a vibrator to her but am not comfortable with that because of my hard stance on masturbation and the fear that it may lead her to lesbianism.

As it stands now, I dont know what to do because I love her so much and I dont want to loose her.

Be that as it may, this is a life time oppurtunity for me to attain the height of success in my chosen carer as a person if i travelled.


Please what do I do?
Matured advise needed, be nice am on a crossroad right now.

Thanks

She has told u d koko. Its either u let sex stand in the way of your career or you pursue your dreams..


By the way.. A focused man would choose the latter..

This one pass me o .

Bleep Bleep every where

if she can't sacrifice a year without sex to enjoy a better and more comfortable future with you, my brother dump her and move ahead with your journey, life is full of sacrifice, what will be the story if u are sick or have future commitment that makes u unavailable in the future how will she cope., Sex is nt food that she cant cope without,
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Adaptation is the key to a successful home.

hmm.. nothing last forever. u choose ur job or fornication..

Weak me

Nd u dont knw wht 2 do abi..........she does nt want u 2 go where u ll successed nd u re here asking wht u shld do,stay wit her den nd continue playing love

Fuckshiit:
..and yo friend might fúçk her when yöu fûçking aínt there

don't think he can do such wickedness. more so he is a correct Gee not a modafu*ka

I can gladly keep her company

Go for your studies bro

Collyno82:
don't think he can do such wickedness. more so he is a correct Gee not a modafu*ka

Do not fûçking trust...I REPEAT do not fûçking trust no Gee wîth Ur fúçkiñg favourite pú$$y

he ain't gonna fúçking tell you when he starts hîtting that pöt ...and she definitely fûçkiñg won't tell ya either

She's indirectly telling that during the course of your relationship/Marriage, should anything happen to you thag will render you unable to satisfy her sexual urge, she'll leave you.

My advice is, tell her point blank too that if that's her final decision then you two have to part ways.

Your fiancee has a high libido...buh i believe if the relationship really matters to her, she will stick to the commitment.



Talk to her bout it, and tell her u will be faithful to her too while over there.


Buh don't trust her even if she says she will wait, expect anything.

modsfucker:
She's indirectly telling that during the course of your relationship/Marriage, should anything happen to you thag will render you unable to satisfy her sexual urge, she'll leave you.

My advice is, tell her point blank too that if that's her final decision then you two have to part ways.

You've written it all!

Oussh wat am i doing here sef

End that relationship now.

bro...make gud passionate luv to her b4 u leave...also while away, at least once a wk or thereabout, engage her in sensual or fone sex, video call preferably...make sure she cums b4 u conclude each session...always keep in touch wth her on calls 24/7....believe me, she will nt miss ur absence dat mch and wouldn't knw wen one year will elapse.....i gave u dis advice because she is ur fiancee. ....bt i trust benita27, she can wait for me for jst a yr

vanida6:
Oussh wat am i doing here sef

answer d guy naa

modsfucker:
She's indirectly telling that during the course of your relationship/Marriage, should anything happen to you thag will render you unable to satisfy her sexual urge, she'll leave you.

My advice is, tell her point blank too that if that's her final decision then you two have to part ways.

but I so much love her n she madly loves me too. No quarrel since we started dating. In short she is an angel by my standard

Someone should get me a medal.

That Lady is not serious

Honestly a year without sex is not that long... She should support your new opportunity and come up with ways to cope.

I think you should tell her that she is being unreasonable and this is showing holes in her loyalty.

You guys can still be intimate together... Through Skype , phone calls . Don't allow her to get a vibrator , it will only push her to want the real thing ( not a lesbian lol)

Will u allow her to atleast use her fingers ... A pillow or items in the house while you guys Skype? You also need to be accommodating

prettyesther20:
Your fiancee has a high libido...buh i believe if the relationship really matters to her, she will stick to the commitment.



Talk to her bout it, and tell her u will be faithful to her too while over there.


Buh don't trust her even if she says she will wait, expect anything.

which one is high libido again Lol....pls OP said one yr and not one week. A lot of pple cannot even go without bleep for one month. They'll ask you if you wanna kill them

Pinkpetals:
Honestly a year without sex is not that long... She should support your new opportunity and come up with ways to cope.

I think you should tell her that she is being unreasonable and this is showing holes in her loyalty.

You guys can still be intimate together... Through Skype , phone calls . Don't allow her to get a vibrator , it will only push her to want the real thing ( not a lesbian lol)

Will u allow her to atleast use her fingers ... A pillow or items in the house while you guys Skype? You also need to be accommodating

Let's be realistic.. Its a whole year or even more. She will definitely cheat.. Even him as well.. Let's not decieve ourselves..

i think you need Jesus


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Collyno82:
but I so much love her n she madly loves me too. No quarrel since we started dating. In short she is an angel by my standard

She has succeeded in deceiving you rather. A girl that loves you, find it very difficult to have sex again when you die, not to talk of one year absence.

dingbang:
Let's be realistic.. Its a whole year or even more. She will definitely cheat.. Even him as well.. Let's not decieve ourselves..

I agree he will cheat... They always do

But honestly a year is not so long if u aren't idle... If she works too and has things to keep her busy she won't really think of cheating especially if she has committed to be loyal

Pinkpetals:


I agree he will cheat... They always do

But honestly a year is not so long if u aren't idle... If she works too and has things to keep her busy she won't really think of cheating especially if she has committed to be loyal

I trust a woman on dat...

Pinkpetals:
Honestly a year without sex is not that long... She should support your new opportunity and come up with ways to cope.

I think you should tell her that she is being unreasonable and this is showing holes in her loyalty.

You guys can still be intimate together... Through Skype , phone calls . Don't allow her to get a vibrator , it will only push her to want the real thing ( not a lesbian lol)

Will u allow her to atleast use her fingers ... A pillow or items in the house while you guys Skype? You also need to be accommodating

can u stay one year without bleeping

Collyno82:
can u stay one year without bleeping

I'm short of 4 months... I'll update you when reaching a year