Imoy:
lol, na kpekus dey make u fall in love so?

Hahahaha, ogbeni u better wake up.

proxillin:
I work in Abuja but visit Lagos on official assignment every month. I met this laspotech girl through her friend who gave me her her contact. Any time I am in Lagos and I feel like relieving stress, I call her straight away and she is always there for me. But its on pay-as-you-go basis.
She was very helpful, one, I do not have to chase girls and around. Baby sitting, going out and shopping wahala is out of it. So I concentrate on my assignment in lagos.

I just found out that I am loving her personality. Beside sex, she has a good personality. When she is with me, I hardly remember she is a call girl. She is so caring, free, friendly, playful and humble. I even checked her on facebook, I found out that she is from a well-to-do family. At times she sleeps over and not charge me, at times, she will collect her money to the last kobo.

The thing is, she is my taste of woman. But the circumstance surrounding the we way we met is not ideal. Sometimes ago, I told her about my feelings for her, she said, "the problem with men is, they can't trust people like me, and I dont want wahala ooo. I dont want to give a man my heart and he breaks it. I like you too, I won't mind dating you".

Now, to make my decision to go into relationship or marriage with her, I am faced with some real life questions.

1. Will I be able to sexually satisfy a lady who is sleeping with many men per day?
2. Will I be able to trust her?
3. Regardless of my feelings for her, I still make sure I wear my protections anytime we are having sex, but if we go into relationship, will my life be at risk?
4. Why will a lady of such standard of living go into runs? I am very sure its not poverty.

I just need someone to encourage me right now. Or someone to dissuade me from doing it. I can't think straight right now.

tripplephi:
bros bros you do not NEED encouragement OR dissuading o.... YOU NEED WISDOM from everything you said.. it shows you lack it.

You need to understand that BONDING is not a respecter of persons.... EVEN IF YOU LIVED WITH A MAD WOMAN LONG ENOUGH YOU WOULD NOTICE GOOD THINGS ABOUT HER TOO. Is this girl the kind of woman/mother you want for your kids...runs kids is all you will have o

YOU DO NOT SEEM TO UNDERSTAND the depth of work involved in marriage... how you may even have kids from other men and not know.

Is your moral compass that LOW? Will you be kissing the lips other men have just finished with? or touching and licking the places they have just paid to use? FORGET CHARACTER ... its because you PAID o... get to no the person without money involved... besides you are not living with her fully so PRETENSE can be INTENSE.

One should never make a DOLLAR DECISION based on a NICKEL IDEA

The questions you asked are solely for you to answer but if SEX is all you think marriage is for then pls do not attempt it.
EVEN the devil will be an angel as long as he is getting profit.... so also she will be NICE and overlook many things with u as long as she gets paid.

CHEATING will be the norm. You are not God who loves unconditionally so stop thinking with your erection.

STOP this kind of life and get yourself into the right books and seminars for marriage.... then find a woman of respect and character with a clean track record and HAVE PEACE.

But there again i remember that ADVICE is what people ask for when they already know what they want to do.... SO bros enjoy o. You can only reap what you sow

babyfaceafrica:
Why will you want do date a call gal?....you will always share her with someone else...this shows your taste is low..you deserve better.I hope you won't complain when she dates someone dat can take care of her better than you do?.. Its your choice.for me a call is a nono for anything serious..they are there to stabilize conji..yournheart is deceiving you and I know you won't listen to your head

proxillin:
Wisdom.
But I will like to point out that, I am not driven by lust. I see goodness in her. She is not even the most physically attractive lady in my life.

proxillin:
Wisdom.
But I will like to point out that, I am not driven by lust. I see goodness in her. She is not even the most physically attractive lady in my life.

Nma27:
Follow your heart. You might make a responsible lady of her.

Xaos:
If you're willing to share her with other men please go ahead but if you want a happy life and a happy home, then I strongly advise you against marrying or even dating her.

You'll only end up regretting and wasting precious time and resources. Dude, hoes will always be hoes.

Xiadnat:
Hmm. You sound very familiar. Uber Work no dey again?

Xaos:


Wow. It's really you. The chatty passenger from yesterday... Ha madam, Why na?

I've been looking for you all over town. Seems you forgot your brain in my cap. Don't worry, I'll pm you an address to pick it up. BTW, that got me fired. Work no dey again.

hotwax:
I will talk my own. Which one be olosho?

All our girls are now olosho.

Where do you want to marry? You want to marry a lady in the bank with miniskirt and suit with high heel?

She went to the University too. These runs girl will not be olosho for ever. They will graduate from Unilag and work with a company..e.g. the company you work for for. When you see them...you will be like see cute decent babe. I pity you.

I read many comments here and I shake my head. Many ladies were into runs when they were in school. Your decent wife at home might be olosho in the past.

Guy..I wont judge anyone. This so called decent girls is overrated. A girl who is playing hard to get for you is not decent. She might be fcking 30 guys at your back.

Our society is a mess recently. Social media is not helping. Sex is now a purchased and sold at all levels

Nma27:
Follow your heart. You might make a responsible lady of her.