guys just out of interest.

if you had to go for one?

- the single mum
- or the single lady (but has abortion in her history)

this is controversial and quite sensitive i know and sorry not to hurt any one or anything
i just wanted to know how guys' mind operate.

some of them say the would never date a woman with kids and then
what if you give them a lady who doesnt have kids due to an abortion?

thanks all.

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cant wait 2 c d responses, dz wil b a very stiky topic.
muhahahaha(evil laff)

OgaMadam:

guys just out of interest.

if you had to go for one?

- the single mum
- or the single lady (but has abortion in her history)

this is controversial and quite sensitive i know and sorry not to hurt any one or anything
i just wanted to know how guys' mind operate.

some of them say the would never date a woman with kids and then
what if you give them a lady who doesnt have kids due to an abortion?[/b]thanks all.

. . . . . . or is it [b]can't have kids due to abortion.

Man! That's tough.

Depends on the conditions.

puskin you have to take both with the buggage they come.

tough one. i guess i'll have to flip a coin on this one, for real.

to this, I thought it's up to you, whether you find the truth love with that Girl
every girl is an angle from God.

Not hard at all:

1. which one is prettier?

2. which one can i get along with?

3. which one got her head on her shoulders?

4. which one has the tightest p***sy?!!! (heehehhe just had to add that one in there)

Neither

but if the lass who aborted is no longer capable of having kids I would opt for the single mother without hesitance.

@bk baybe99 nice one

Lord knows,i'd never take either of both,no matter what the face or body shape looks like!!!

i think the issue is: you will not know if she cannot have kids unless you try to impregnate her first.
The current statistics on the rate of abortion in Nigeria - is alarmingly high.
So many girls have done abortion at least once or more in their life.
So, i dont blame those guyz that will only agree to marry the girl after she gets pregnant for them.

As for the woman with a kid already, i wont bother to go near her normally. Women have enough
wahala already without even adding the kid in.

Konjour:

Lord knows,i'd never take either of both,no matter what the face or body shape looks like!!!

Some women will hold on to a secret till they die. Your little angel will never tell you she has
had an abortion. Never ever!

This is ludicrous i can't . . . , whatever. So the girls you know carry their abortion history around on their head eh ? Help me answer this, how many females in your immediate family do you suspect have/have not committed abortion ? If you find that out then you might be able to form a better opinion.

i will go the the single mother, cuz she's clean, she didn't kill anybody. room how u see am,

who cares if she cant have kids? theres many children out there waiting to get adopted!!!

Not hard at all:

1. which one is prettier?

2. which one can i get along with?

3. which one got her head on her shoulders?

4. which one has the tightest p***sy?!!! (heehehhe just had to add that one in there)

who cares if she cant have kids? theres many children out there waiting to get adopted!!!

i lv d wae u fink,no joke, lol,
dts d ish ryt there,well saed.

HOW MANY ABORTION HAD THE SINGLE MOTHER HAD BEFORE SHE DECIDED TO LEAVE THE LAST PREGNANCY? IT IS BETTER TO GO FOR A SINGLE MOTHER WHO WAS PREGNANT BY MISTAKE AND IS BOLD ENOUGH TO KEEP THE PREGNANCY THAN FOR SOMEONE WHO COULD NOT DEFEND HER MISTAKE AND OPTED FOR ABORTION,

go for the woman who has a child. she is more mature and better at dealing with issues that arise in life since the abortions is nothing more then running from the problem

tngtech:

i will go the the single mother, cuz she's clean, she didn't kill anybody. room how u see am,

This may not always be true. A single girl could have had several abortions, i know many of them do it.
I have friends that perform abortions (i have a number of doctor friends) and i know many young girls
patronize them. So even the single mother could have done several abortions, and some may be told
when they go for abortion that if they abort, they may never born again, so they will keep that last pregnancy.

Summary, the fact that a girl does not have a child does not mean she is clean. Out of all my several girlfriends,
only one came out straight and told me she has had abortions without me asking her - most of them will rather
die than tell you (i mean the stoopid guy)

i love how people here think nothing of having several abortions but b*tch and moan about how in the "west" there are single mother. at least the single mothers take responsibility for thier actions instead of killing the child (regardless of where they live)

agathamari:

i love how people here think nothing of having several abortions but b*tch and moan about how in the "west" there are single mother. at least the single mothers take responsibility for thier actions instead of killing the child (regardless of where they live)

i guess that's the stigma attached

no big deal as long as they r easy to get along with

agathamari:

i love how people here think nothing of having several abortions but b*tch and moan about how in the "west" there are single mother. at least the single mothers take responsibility for thier actions instead of killing the child (regardless of where they live)

I agree.

sistawoman whosai you no longer coming back on nl.

what happened to you? oga keeping you between the sheets

happy new year boo

I love the way some peolpe are running to the single moms cus to to them it shows she's 'fertile'. But,imagine this scenerio: WHAT IF AFTER THAT ONE CHILD SHE CAN NEVER GET PREGNANT AGAIN!!! What do u do then?

Abortion is quite normal and prevalent in todays world, especially in Nigeria and elsewhere so, please guys, lets stop the pretence once and for all!!!

For tohose of you, who can truthfully say - NEVER! I am sure there are loads, sister, daughter, girlfriend, wife etc who we/you/i cant truthfully say have/will NEVER.

Hypocrisy na sin ooo!

[b]i have a close female friend (she was my coursemate)who got pregnant mistakenly  back in our school days,i once asked her out then but she refused and that was what led to our closeness,we were intimate friends that my other friends tot we were going out already,some other ppu even joke that i was responsible for her pregnancy but between us we know we dont have any love affairs.
on the other hand my so called virgin GF started mis-behaving character-wise but after much talk,i finally decide to stay aloof off her.i could sense it that she's seeing someone else
but the other school mate has been close,supportive and caring,i will say she has everything a man could ask for, infact if things continue the way it is,i wont hesitate to ask her out again,if it's ok with her i can joyfully adopt her 4 year old daughter as my child.
in essence i really salute her courage for not aborting the baby,as compared to a girl that has committed one (if it not more than once) abortion in the past.[/b]

single lady with an abortion.  hey i don't get to play step daddy to a crumb snatcher.

bawomolo:

single lady with an abortion. hey i don't get to play step daddy to a crumb snatcher.

a murder is more attractive than a single mother how neat

bawomolo:

single lady with an abortion. hey i don't get to play step daddy to a crumb snatcher.

Lol

OgaMadam:

guys just out of interest.

if you had to go for one?

- the single mum
- or the single lady (but has abortion in her history)

this is controversial and quite sensitive i know and sorry not to hurt any one or anything
i just wanted to know how guys' mind operate.

some of them say the would never date a woman with kids and then
what if you give them a lady who doesnt have kids due to an abortion?

thanks all.

I can never be with a woman with kids. . . . . .It's grotesque.
I will gladly take the woman who's had an abortion. . . . .