Enough is enough. Girls know how to play with us when we are at the 'wooing stage.' Like zombies we concur to all their conditions/demands just because we need their attention. Some are extra-wicked, they keep you waiting for up to 3 hours when you both have fixed a date for a particular time. They make you spend and spend to prove your worth. The most frustrating part is they give us little or no attention when we are hanging out or chatting with them. The next thing you hear is: 'I've got to go,' 'something just came up' blah blah blah...

So give them a taste of their own medicine once they've let you in [only for the obstinate one o]. Give them little attention when they have endeared themselves to you. That way they'll feel the pain we go through. If possible react this way after passionate intimacy. Then tell her why you did it. That way, her orientation might change.

YOU CAN'T HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT

chai!

op sorry to say buh ur advice is wack u frustrate her, she notices, she dumps u after u fulfilled all her requirements while u were courting her and den ur back to square one ......

wasted efforts, wasted funds, wasted time, its not worth it op

The dumbest advice ever! So you do all that and then you piss her off and obviously she'll see the change and leave you so what was gained?

Chai, girls don suffer
Almost all the topics in this section na how to frustrate a girl life
Talking bad about them
E fit them self

This is so childish!

sinaj:
This is so childish!

You are entitled to your opinion. You don't know how it feels because you're not a man.

Halfpenny:
The dumbest advice ever! So you do all that and then you piss her off and obviously she'll see the change and leave you so what was gained?

if she leaves..it is her loss not mine...if I have left when she was misbehaving ..what will she have done?..abeg there are many fishes in the sea

redbeans:
You are entitled to your opinion. You don't know how it feels because you're not a man.

no mind them..the want to eat their cake and have it

babyfaceafrica:
if she leaves..it is her loss not mine...if I have left when she was misbehaving ..what will she have done?..abeg there are many fishes in the sea

The point is you should have left when she was 'Misbehaving.' Who hold you?

You guys need self respect and that isn't some random girls job. If there are so many fishes then why is this one playing you around? Men acting like children since Adam! Think for yourselves and create a world that doesn't rotate around our bumbums and boobs then maybe a woman would take you'll seriously. There are men who don't have these experiences, because you do doesn't mean other men do. These are fvckboy experiences.

redbeans:
You are entitled to your opinion. You don't know how it feels because you're not a man.

You will only do that if u never loved her.

If you are going to do it this way, its gonna end bloody and badly.


Agreed, women get shakara well well but if you want or really need something you will be patient. When you get it, you cherish it. That's what real men do!

Halfpenny:


The point is you should have left when she was 'Misbehaving.' Who hold you?

You guys need self respect and that isn't some random girls job. If there are so many fishes then why is this one playing you around? Men acting like children since Adam! Think for yourselves and create a world that doesn't rotate around our bumbums and boobs then maybe a woman would take you'll seriously. There are men who don't have these experiences, because you do doesn't mean other men do. These are fvckboy experiences.

your opinion...doesn't change anything..good day

babyfaceafrica:
your opinion...doesn't change anything..good day

#Toddlers

decatalyst:
If you are going to do it this way, its gonna end bloody and badly.


Agreed, women get shakara well well but if you want or really need something you will be patient. When you get it, you cherish it. That's what real men do!

what is wrong in paying her back in her coin,if she really needs me to..she has to be patient...their is no monopoly of shakara

Halfpenny:




#Toddlers

wussies

sinaj:
You will only do that if u never loved her.

love ke?...it is a new relationship nah?..na so love they grow?

Cc.. Lalasticlala. sweet thread don land. Guys need to open their eyes. Relationship is for mutual benefit so no one person should suffer

redbeans:
Enough is enough. Girls know how to play with us when we are at the 'wooing stage.' Like zombies we concur to all their conditions/demands just because we need their attention. Some are extra-wicked, they keep you waiting for up to 3 hours when you both have fixed a date for a particular time. They make you spend and spend to prove your worth. The most frustrating part is they give us little or no attention when we are hanging out or chatting with them. The next thing you hear is: 'I've got to go,' 'something just came up' blah blah blah...

So give them a taste of their own medicine once they've let you in [only for the obstinate one o]. Give them little attention when they have endeared themselves to you. That way they'll feel the pain we go through. If possible react this way after passionate intimacy. Then tell her why you did it. That way, her orientation might change.

YOU CAN'T HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT

As President of the Men's association, dude this is fucking immature. Stay real!

Halfpenny:


The point is you should have left when she was 'Misbehaving.' Who hold you?

You guys need self respect and that isn't some random girls job. If there are so many fishes then why is this one playing you around? Men acting like children since Adam! Think for yourselves and create a world that doesn't rotate around our bumbums and boobs then maybe a woman would take you'll seriously. There are men who don't have these experiences, because you do doesn't mean other men do. These are fvckboy experiences.

excuse me miss, Nigerian girls are wired to us 'toasting' them non-stop. This is not a case of loosing self-respect or fvckboy syndrome. Why not take things nice and easy with us from the start so we reciprocate the same gesture.
You think it's easy for us summon courage and go after a girl in the first place

redbeans:
excuse me miss, Nigerian girls are wired to us 'toasting' them non-stop. This is not a case of loosing self-respect or fvckboy syndrome. Why not take things nice and easy with us from the start so we reciprocate the same gesture.
You think it's easy for us summon courage and go after a girl in the first place

I'm not nigerian so let me excuse myself from this crazy conversation

youngbelieve:
,,

hw much?

That's cool , tit for tat.

redbeans:
Enough is enough. Girls know how to play with us when we are at the 'wooing stage.' Like zombies we concur to all their conditions/demands just because we need their attention. Some are extra-wicked, they keep you waiting for up to 3 hours when you both have fixed a date for a particular time. They make you spend and spend to prove your worth. The most frustrating part is they give us little or no attention when we are hanging out or chatting with them. The next thing you hear is: 'I've got to go,' 'something just came up' blah blah blah...

So give them a taste of their own medicine once they've let you in [only for the obstinate one o]. Give them little attention when they have endeared themselves to you. That way they'll feel the pain we go through. If possible react this way after passionate intimacy. Then tell her why you did it. That way, her orientation might change.

YOU CAN'T HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT

hmm u have a point .......but personally i dont think is good to replace evil with evil...my opinion though

Fmartin:
hw much?

$50 buh I'll give 10% cash discount

Boys that have not gotten to d age of puberty all want to turn to relationship experts...

youngbelieve:


$50 buh I'll give 10% cash discount

take d 10%.. send ur acct numb..

Fmartin:
take d 10%.. send ur acct numb..

banks re not operating today na and I need to use de money, so jus come down to my place na since ur everywhere

youngbelieve:



banks re not operating today na and I need to use de money, so jus come down to my place na since ur everywhere

lol on my way

Fmartin:
lol on my way

oya na

Instead of doing this,I think guys should just endeavour to elevate themselves to a level that'll make it very difficult for a girl to give negative attitude for too long..

*Make some cash( In an ideal world,this shouldn't be a requirement for love,but we do not live in an ideal world).

*Get in shape: Eat right,exercise more.

*Improve your charisma..and most importantly..

*Improve your self esteem:It pains me when I see a guy being treated like poo by a lady..I do not chase a lady for more than 12 days.,no matter how beautiful you are..
Even if the girl is stunning,there are 15. More girls out there more attractive than her..annd with a nice personality too.