Bism:
call the relationship off and see her reaction. if she shows some concern, then she till love you vice versa. Also, are you a bornagain christian because they are some things she listen to about relationship in her bible school.

Halfpenny:
Give her the space she needs. The church has put guilt and the fear of god in her. Either way this is the time you should take several steps back and watch. Chances are this could be the end of the relationship or maybe she wants a no sin relationship which means no touching, sweet talking, or romance of any kind. Either way leave her alone and see where it takes you.

BadlikeRIRI:
Break up

fran6co:
just like that

BadlikeRIRI:
It's not hard is it?

darbeelicous:
let her focus on what's more important to her. most times people's standards are what actually defines them and are not meant to be brought down. it's her path! since u truly love her, u should understand.

fran6co:
it is

fran6co:
thanks.

fran6co:
you ar saying the truth man.

Halfpenny:


Everyone goes through religious turmoil, and the guilt becomes over powering. If what you guys have is a good thing then trust that the relationship is safe. She could come out of this and things might go back to normal. Don't stress her and stop the frequent calls, just check up on her once a week with a message not a call. If after say 3 weeks nothing changes then have a chat with her and tell her how this makes you feel and that you are moving on to date others because you have emotional needs blah blah. If she is not responsive then it will be time to move on.

fran6co:

thanks alot. but the truth Is i feel the less time we communicate the more distance that exist between us. don't u think she might capitalize on it

Halfpenny:


Look you can't MAKE her stay with you infact if you don't give her space she will resent you that will give her the reason to leave. Let her miss you and if she doesn't then she isn't worth your love. Just check up on her once a week with a quick and short call or a text. You are too available and that makes you loose value.

fran6co:
thanks alot. I really appreciate

Halfpenny:


I would go as far as saying that you should start dating other girls (no sex though) this will keep your mind of her and it will make things easier for you emotionally if she decides to leave you. Get your power back by becoming valuable because right now you are too needy.

Curvinus:
Maybe she has been managing you and now she has found a better man who gives her the tingles. All women are like that, cold, calculated and merciless when they want to leave you. It's how nature has programmed them to advance the gene pool. Once they see a weakness in you, they are on to the next one, like monkeys swinging branches. So, stop trying to win back her affection. Rather, you should focus your energy on new adventure. But try to treat new relationships like an investment with it's risks and always have exit plans. And always remember to keep two or more in the kitty so you have options. This will also ensure that you don't come across as needy. While I'm not advocating that you be mean to her or mistreat women, I'd say you should stick to the golden rule. But abeg, if you know say you no fine and you no get money, just leave woman matter.

darbeelicous:
let her focus on what's more important to her. most times people's standards are what actually defines them and are not meant to be brought down. it's her path! since u truly love her, u should understand.