I dated her for about 9 months before distance come in between us (we use to be the best lover then)and now we are hooked up again through facebook, i want her back and she wants me too but she is saying i should give more time to get to no me again after 3 weeks of our coming together, well we talk on phone ever since we met again and we talk for at least 15minutes daily, i shared all she needs to know about me again with her on phone , so all i was wondering is that maybe she is just playing me,i told her to come visit but she is turning the down the offer now saying she don't like travelling without any money on her and i promise to take care of her hospitality but she said she has to work and get money to do that on her own, please what is she up to?, is she for real or trying to play me

What if she's being honest?? Sounds like you might be trying to play some games, that way you will never see anything for what it truly is, you will always be trying to be one step ahead. I suggest you just keep your eyes wide open, because trying to prevent something isn't possible, you can only protect yourself if it's about to happen or when it starts, trying to pre-empt things doesn't work with love. It's unpredictable.

sorry hun but i dont think she is 4 real

Maybe u re rushing things,why not take it slow,be patient,u don't know wat has been happening 2 her while u guys were apart,u just dont expect things to go back the way they were,its a gradual process dear.

freecocoa:

Maybe u re rushing things,why not take it slow,be patient,u don't know wat has been happening 2 her while u guys were apart,u just dont expect things to go back the way they were,its a gradual process dear.

@freecocoa you are right all she is telling me is to give her time to digest all this all over again, and i told her maybe in the next 5 years she will come up with something and her reply was that we will have already have our 2nd kid by then, all this make me to think if she is real