McBrooklyn:

McBrooklyn:

trentslawson:

mehn it sounds weird to me o, I don't know how to come about it, I'm so confused right now

LOL, you ever try talking to her about it??

McBrooklyn:


LOL, you ever try talking to her about it??

McBrooklyn:


LOL, you ever try talking to her about it??

ikp120:
But how is that picture you attached related to the topic and write up?

ikp120:
But how is that picture you attached related to the topic and write up?

trentslawson:


I'm looking forward to that, but I don't want to give her a false impression that I don't trust her, but na the guy I no fit trust lol. how will I tell her without her thinking I'm jealous but the fact is I'm scared o

Oh boy, you be guy now... You sef go get yourself a female bestie and let's see how it goes now...

McBrooklyn:


Oh boy, you be guy now... You sef go get yourself a female bestie and let's see how it goes now...

trentslawson:

lol, no vex
lol, no vex, if you are in my shoes what'll you do?

trentslawson:

GUYS WHAT DO YOU SAY ABOUT THIS, IF YOUR GF HAS A MALE BEST FRIEND, HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT IT?? I WANT YOUR OPINIONS

MzEddytan:
There is absolutely nothing wrong in that, just make sure her best friend is also ur friend so that you can understand them better and trust ur gf.

Wow, God bless you for this your comment ma'am... This idea be sense making AF


cc: trentslawson

McBrooklyn:


Wow, God bless you for this your comment ma'am... This idea be sense making AF


cc: trentslawson

MzEddytan:
There is absolutely nothing wrong in that, just make sure her best friend is also ur friend so that you can understand them better and trust ur gf.

trentslawson:


Mehn the worst part be say she dey use the guy pic as her profile pic, but I need to ask fast

Mehn, which kind girlfriend be that one now??


You sef go dey find numerous ladies picture dey use am as DP... If she no turn up, then go find another babe... Simple!!!

McBrooklyn:


Mehn, which kind girlfriend be that one now??


You sef go dey find numerous ladies picture dey use am as DP... If she no turn up, then go find another babe... Simple!!!

McBrooklyn:


all this girls fit give person high blood pressure lol
Mehn, which kind girlfriend be that one now??


You sef go dey find numerous ladies picture dey use am as DP... If she no turn up, then go find another babe... Simple!!!

trentslawson:


I'm looking forward to that, but I don't want to give her a false impression that I don't trust her, but na the guy I no fit trust lol. how will I tell her without her thinking I'm jealous but the fact is I'm scared o

trentslawson:

GUYS WHAT DO YOU SAY ABOUT THIS, IF YOUR GF HAS A MALE BEST FRIEND, HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT IT?? I WANT YOUR OPINIONS

laplace19:


.... I am a graduate and was dating this undergraduate girl with both of us staying in different states. Most times she will upload a pic she took with her male bestfriend on whatsapp. I asked her about the guy and she said he's her coursemate, that the guy helps her out during exams and in some assignments. Sometimes if I call her she will tell me she's in her bestfriend's lodge. I always ignore cause I know the relationship will not end in marriage and I hardly get jealous over this things. She started complaining that I don't call her everyday (of course, I don't ) and she does not get to see me at least twice in a week.... that if I truly love her that I should atleast try and be calling her everyday( my voice soft shaa )....... I told her I can't do that because at this stage in my life I've many things going on in my head that I need to put in order. Sometimes, after site supervision I get weak and once I come back home the next is to sleep or start drawing a plan for client on my laptop. However, it's not just my character calling my girlfriend everyday no matter how much I love her. I told her this is the part she cannot change about me...(She will be crying on phone when I'm telling her all this)..... I love her to some extent so I advised her to end the relationship since I can't cope with calling her everyday and won't want her to be complaining and crying over it anytime we talk on phone... (seriously, it was much, we will talk on phone for like 18mins and 15mins out of it will be for her complains, crying and me begging ). I suggested she might consider her male bestfriend since she will get to be seeing him everyday in lecture halls and even be calling her everyday since it appears he has more time at hand to be doing all that than me. Before all this, I told her that she (as pretty as she is...) can't have a guy as a bestfriend when this same guy has no current girlfriend. There's no way he will not be emotionally connected to her and must have wooed her as well. She stylishly denied all that... After I broke up with her (cos I initiated it...that day she was in this her male bestfriend's room. She was crying on phone and the young man was consoling her...lolz).

I even asked her to give the guy phone so I can talk to him.... I advised the young man to always make her happy since as a guy I understand he might have some feelings for her....lol).... After some weeks, I came to Owerri to submit drawing plans I prepared for a client then I called to inform her that I'm in Owerri. She told me she's around. ...visited and met she and the male bestfriend doing clean-up in her room...lol.... As the boss, I asked her to bring a chair outside and get me a chilled water....after that I exchanged greetings with the guy and was like....Chris (not his real name) hope you're treating her right?...he said "yes boss".... I chuckled...
So currently, they are now dating.

@Op...All I can say is, if your girlfriend is pretty there's no way the male bestfriend won't be emotionally connected to her and as time goes on she might find a reason to start dating the bestfriend. Don't forget that if there's any squabble between both of you, her male bestfriend will be the first person she will tell for an advice. However, she might be ill-advised by the same bestfriend to have an advantage over you.

baZOOKer:
Used to fuckkk my bestie tat had a bf

trentslawson:



maybe I should just cut off the relationship to avoid stories that touch, that kind feeling of someone bleeping your gf, I need to get that out of my head with all this drama, if I start typing all those things she post on her Facebook concerning her male bestfriend omehn it's too much to bear, I'm too young for heart attack abeg, but thanks man.

trentslawson:


this one weak me