you see, here in d zanga, we dont chase such chicks away, we just take our mind off them, continue d pretence of love and continue fvkcing them till God knows wen.
Now do d above while u search for a loyal chick
thank me later.
#zanga
bros you don madt finish!! Lmfao!!!! We go need you for 'awon weyrey gang' na your type we need! Iamkingzlee coman see this guy!
. Im naive actually because I dont do "player" thing and wont even become a close friend with a lady if I won't be dating her (as in; I have my boundaries so to say). I dont want someone making me feel I ve used and dumped her (as they quickly say) or I ve broken her heart. Although this s not my first relationship but I really love her like none.. Things are getting clearer now. Thanks again boss
If she really loves u she won't be flirting with other guys. And why is she asking guys for porn? She's greenlighting them. Your girl is sexual adventurous. She wants to act out the live scene with the guy she's requesting porn from.
This one na real olosho. I'm a woman. I can tell. Run for your dear life op.
Padiimii: Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help. Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers. Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman. When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends. Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see. After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love. Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter).. I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.
PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here? EDAKUN EPP ME
this is the reason am single today..Never Trust any woman. They girl dey play ur head but ROVE has beclouded u that u can never see the fact....she is not real or into you,just using u to pass time. Just walk away as simple as that. The handwritting is very clear on the wall for u to read but i bet if u can cos ROVE has beclouded u.
Op@ Padiimii But I don't understand the part of this story, were she is requesting Porn videos from people online
Is it their personal Sex videos, or just normal porn
Why can't she go and download or watch it on porn websites.
Not endorsement of porn, but I wonder why someone at this age and time will ask friends for pornography.. Unless she is very naive or a teenager
Nope. She not naïve. She is using style to tell the guy she is requesting porn from that she would like to do stuff like that with him. That's her own way of greenlighting...
you see, here in d zanga, we dont chase such chicks away, we just take our mind off them, continue d pretence of love and continue fvkcing them till God knows wen.
I know Alot of girls on Nairalnder will avoid thread like this because thats wah majority of them do....na spirit,,,, it cant leave them until their nemesis recalls their senses but by then they r alrdy 40 which wud be too late...
TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing. And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.
That was what really got me confused man. She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart.
man up and grow some balls. a woman can be a pervert too, ive met many. too many sef. elationship broken, the problem she has will follow her into any relationship she has anyway, except u want to bear the cross, be sure u will regret it.
its an addiction she has to deal with by he own choice and self, its like trying to date a lesbian, ant work.
stambouli: Bro ,you don't need help on this one. It should be a straightforward easy decision to make.let her be a goner . she's obviously manipulating you and you are also acting naive. Man up bro
lol, straight to d point, you just said what i wanted to say, but in a more nicer way
Op, First of all if you were married, I would have assumed that your wife was my ex.that has been asking me for porn videos. Secondly, you don't need to be an alpha male, to know that when a girl starts asking a random guy for porn video its an ultimate invitation to come and discuss the sex scenes, if you know what I mean Thirdly, most girls are ultimate pretenders, many of them are very innocent looking but whores and tigers in bed, ladies in the street, but freaks in bed, they don't wear anklets nor nose rings, and waist beads, but they will sure bang your brains out, that's ur girlfriend. I won't ask you to leave her, you will break her heart and yours too, so just chill, continue banging her, tell her to use her talent to be begging for money also, not just porn videos, train her on how to use her flirting skills to empower you both, I am done reading about whimps complaining about their girls, you should be several steps ahead of your girl, don't try to stop her, encourage her to channel such efforts to your benefit, she will love you more. Thank me later. Martin d Looter
Padiimii: Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help. Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers. Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman. When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends. Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see. After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love. Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter).. I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.
PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here? EDAKUN EPP ME
Please how old are you? You sounds like a boy & not a man.
. Im naive actually because I dont do "player" thing and wont even become a close friend with a lady if I won't be dating her (as in; I have my boundaries so to say). I dont want someone making me feel I ve used and dumped her (as they quickly say) or I ve broken her heart. Although this s not my first relationship but I really love her like none.. Things are getting clearer now. Thanks again boss
one thing about this life is that guys,who dont flirt are easily hurted. For me,i ve sworn never to take any woman serious in my life again... Na so life be....be on ur own,forget women cos the woman u say u love might be fucking 100 men at ur back. Its better to Bleep a woman and pay her than keeping an oloshi as a girlfren who u even spend on.
Nope. She not naïve. She is using style to tell the guy she is requesting porn from that she would like to do stuff like that with him. That's her own way of greenlighting...
. Im naive actually because I dont do "player" thing and wont even become a close friend with a lady if I won't be dating her (as in; I have my boundaries so to say). I dont want someone making me feel I ve used and dumped her (as they quickly say) or I ve broken her heart. Although this s not my first relationship but I really love her like none.. Things are getting clearer now. Thanks again boss
This whole thing in your post I said at one time, you know what i got to find out? Sometimes emotions or the love thing doesn't work, but i assure you, she will come to realize the value of what she had after she encounters a series of beasts and demons in men sadly this only happens after a break up.
Take it from someone who has been in your shoes.
The fact you used your heart in dealing with her and emotions doesn't make you weak or Mumu, you showed a vulnerability many are not so strong to do so. Trust me it takes more strength to be that than being a player.
I assure you, you will stand out in the series of men she eventually encounters.
Guy please in your best interest.....don't just leave this girl...chase her away from you....please have been in a similar situation though mine was not was asking for pooooorrnn .....
TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing. And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies.
That was what really got me confused man. She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart.
If you want peace of mind, dont return to that relationship. will u allow ur sister date a drunkard that loves her? your ex has an addiction and addictions destroy people around them also. Find a better girl. Pray for her and move on, God might have just rescued you.
As a woman if you caught her in the act and there was no remorse of any care about your feelings and emotions then my dear you aren't in a relationship with her you are just passing time. It's one thing to be wife material and another thing to be emotionally tuned to your spouses needs and wants in life
This is why puppy love fails love is spiritually deeper than that
stambouli: Bro ,you don't need help on this one. It should be a straightforward easy decision to make.let her be a goner . she's obviously manipulating you and you are also acting naive. Man up bro
God bless you bro, Issue like this has already decided itself.
You are just jealous, it's good to be jealous that shows you love her... She loves to flirt with guys online so what... Most people do it but when it comes to real life you dear not say such things to them. She just want to explore that's all. I bet she's a virgin.
OLAJADON: she want to eat her cake and have it back. she want a stable boyfriend and won't stop flirting around, it start from somewhere now she is doing it online who knows who she will try it with when you guys marry maybe you boss at work and she will tell you the only relationship between them is work. no matter the advice we give you here, if you decide to go on with her thinking she will change it your life. my Yoruba people use to say this, nkan ti eyan ole gba ni olowo, talika loma tin ko I.e behaviour that someone cannot accept when rich it is from when poor he will start avoiding such act
lol...well said... The problem of we guys is expecting a lady,an oloshi to change in her character....its never possible..i use to think like that till when an elderly man told me,Women that flirt too much hardly or never changes.
Bro, kindly take a walk before she turn u into a mad man. I have experienced one before nd i can tell you confidently that u are a on a loooooinnnnnnnnng thing!
The issue is that op is not satisfying the girl sex..ually, if he does so the girl will not even bother with all these things hes blabbling about. Or maybe OP is just an insecure guy.
Padiimii: Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help. Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers. Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman. When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends. Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see. After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love. Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter).. I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting.
PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here? EDAKUN EPP ME
you see, here in d zanga, we dont chase such chicks away, we just take our mind off them, continue d pretence of love and continue fvkcing them till God knows wen.
Now do d above while u search for a loyal chick
thank me later.
#zanga
Bad guy.. you are my typa guy.. it's as simpleas that bro.
