I just found out a girl I'm very serious about was in a very sexual music video ( sofa). I have been fuming since, I don't know what to do. I tried to talk to her about it but she's busy talking her career this her career that.... which career? Please is video vixen a career? I'm trying to swallow it up and try to understand but I know that our music industry is just a sex hub! Plus going semi nude in front of millions only increases the amount of pressure coming from men who view you as a LovePeddler! Please help. (no insults).
cc: Lalasticlala, farano, Rocktation. Pls assist,

Bros it's ur choice, I've been with one before twasnt a nice story... Forget perception and face reality. U and I know the truth... Let it set u free.

Why would you do that?

Is like dating a stripper ..its a profession but there is no honor in it.
Between, With time, video vixen Is a short term career.she go venture into oda line of business or career at the long run.

Doctorfitz:
Bros it's ur choice, I've been with one before twasnt a nice story... Forget perception and face reality. U and I know the truth... Let it set u free.

I'm already being joked about by my friends! You know how the conversation goes.

dyadeleye:
Is like dating a stripper ..its a profession but there is no honor in it.
Between, With time, video vixen Is a short term career.she go venture into oda line of business or career at the long run.

Do I try to wait it out? I don't know if calling it quits will be too much!

charlesadams926:
I'm already being joked about by my friends! You know how the conversation goes.

Like I said, we both know the truth deep down so let it set u free... U don't need anyone to tell you what to do

Lewaluv:
Why would you do that?

Date a video vixen or call it quits?

Doctorfitz:


Like I said, we both know the truth deep down so let it set u free... U don't need anyone to tell you what to do

Right now I can't think straight. You seem more experienced in this. Please what is the best approach?

charlesadams926:
Do I try to wait it out? I don't know if calling it quits will be too much!

You dont need to quit, she will get tired of it with time...new slay queens do arrive every now and then...video vixen doesn't last long .

dyadeleye:


You dont need to quit, she will get tired of it with time...new slay queens do arrive every now and then...video vixen doesn't last long .

Thanks, she seemed really serious about this. I don't want to seem like an enemy of progress! But honestly i hated every minute of seeing her in that video.

charlesadams926:
Thanks, she seemed really serious about this. I don't want to seem like an enemy of progress! But honestly i hated every minute of seeing her in that video.

Live and let live bruh

charlesadams926:
I just found out a girl I'm very serious about was in a very sexual music video ( sofa). I have been fuming since, I don't know what to do. I tried to talk to her about it but she's busy talking her career this her career that.... which career? Please is video vixen a career? I'm trying to swallow it up and try to understand but I know that our music industry is just a sex hub! Plus going semi nude in front of millions only increases the amount of pressure coming from men who view you as a LovePeddler! Please help. (no insults).

As much as you may not see it, there is a career in it as some of the best in the biz make serious cash... Sadly, it is not easy for a man to accept that their woman is known the world over for being half naked on vids showing her best body feature.

Ye, this type of job opens the door to men going after your woman, but if she is a good woman, then the job "extra" won't get to her head... But, if she is an airhead, jumping on every yeyebrities lap in excitement when meeting them, abeg run!!

She has already told you that this is the road she wants to go down, so either accept it or let her go.... Basta!
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A video vixen who just appear on videos for the sake of appearing or a video vixen who dances seductively??

She's not doing anything wrong is she?

MrBrownJay1:


As much as you may not see it, there is a career in it as some of the best in the biz make serious cash... Sadly, it is not easy for a man to accept that their woman is known the world over for being half naked on vids showing her best body feature.

Ye, this type of job opens the door to men going after your woman, but if she is a good woman, then the job "extra" won't get to her head... But, if she is an airhead, jumping on every yeyebrities lap in excitement when meeting them, abeg run!!

She has already told you that this is the road she wants to go down, so either accept it or let her go.... Basta!
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Never saw it that way. But you know women are easily swayed. It won't be long before I'm not who she's listening to.

lashorrt:
A video vixen who just appear on videos for the sake of appearing or a video vixen who dances seductively??

She's not doing anything wrong is she?

Have you seen the video (sofa)

charlesadams926:
Have you seen the video (sofa)

No. Where can I find it ? YouTube? Hope it's not provocative

charlesadams926:
Never saw it that way. But you know women are easily swayed. It won't be long before I'm not who she's listening to.

It all depend on the type of woman she is AND the type of man you are.... It is certainly not The easiest of r/ship but they can work, you just have to both be mature about it all and well grounded.

If you are dating a great/sexy/beautiful woman then it comes with the territory (whether video vixen or not), and SHE should know how to handle these dudes on her own.

Why not. Its the mindset not the job. Probably she will leave the job for better things

Yo man, listen. Video vixen isn't a long time career, there is always the need for new faces in videos so with time she wouldn't be "relevant" any more. But the kind of exposure she is going to have during this shirt sting is going to change everything. With her been a fresh face, the attention she is going to be getting from celebs and trust me they will all want a taste. Can she even handle the attention without it getting to her head making you look inferior or the kind of luxury the she will be exposed to hanging out with celebs.
Been there done that. Bros simply move on, trust me it going to safe you a lot of headaches but if you are patient, then support her. Even porn actress do have husband and boy friend.

charlesadams926:
I'm already being joked about by my friends! You know how the conversation goes.

Is her name Tola?

dyadeleye:


You dont need to quit, she will get tired of it with time...new slay queens do arrive every now and then...video vixen doesn't last long .

That's not his point, would you trust a video vixen a girlfriend?

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That's not his point, would you trust a video vixen a girlfriend?

Yes...like trusting a stripper!...
Yeye

charlesadams926:
I just found out a girl I'm very serious about was in a very sexual music video ( sofa). I have been fuming since, I don't know what to do. I tried to talk to her about it but she's busy talking her career this her career that.... which career? Please is video vixen a career? I'm trying to swallow it up and try to understand but I know that our music industry is just a sex hub! Plus going semi nude in front of millions only increases the amount of pressure coming from men who view you as a LovePeddler! Please help. (no insults).
cc: Lalasticlala, farano, Rocktation. Pls assist,

Oga.....u are the only one that knows if this chic is good girl or not....beign a video vixen doesn't necessarily mean she's a bitch...some are ho's though but some have big dreams and they feel beign around the shows will eventually be beneficial for them.
its usually a short term thing cos young faces are needed in the business...alot of video vixens most time end up as musicians or dance legends and choreographers or even actresses......

With respect to dancing half nakked....bone story....don't the big time artists like Beyonce, nikki minaj and the rest perform half nakked and even naaked sef....did you see miley cirus video where she sat on the wrecking ball completely nakked...

There's hardly any profession where women are not exploited cos of what they need....its the girls personality and choice to give in that determines...there are lots of girls that get ahead in life with sexx but there are also many of them that are principled

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Is her name Tola?

lol . Bad guy!

charlesadams926:
lol . Bad guy!

Lol is it?