Like some people in a relationship will say, "it is not possible to keep eating rice all the time, there should be supplement", what this means is that it is not possible to stay glued to just one woman/man in your entire life as it is like eating just one kind of food over and over again.

Many people forget so soon they signed for better for worse, richer and poorer till death do you part the day the oath was taken.

I don't understand why you will have your spouse, a loyal and beautiful or handsome one for that matter and you will be having one miserable feelings for someone else outside your marriage.

Something that isn't good has no two names than it being bad. The fact that you cannot say it aloud that you are in a relationship with someone else is enough to tell you that it is bad.

If you are nurturing a feeling for someone outside your marriage, it is better you look for a way to cut it off as soon as possible before the day break on you when there will be no solution.

It is selfishness to be dating someone else outside your marriage as you are not even considering the emotion of your spouse.

An ideal spouse will put themselves in their spouse's shoes to see if they can cope in case such thing is done to them too.

Feelings for someone else can only grow when you are tired of your spouse and you just want to allow new feelings entirely and a new person.

If you ain't tired and you are determined to see your marriage work you just have to slaughter that feeling that has turned itself to weed.

I agree it is not as easy as many relationship counselors think it is, however, just like you see fire and you decided not to allow it harm you, you can also strike out the decision to nurse romantic feelings for someone outside your relationship.

I want you to see that person as an enemy of your progress and reject the unnecessary feeling that may want to arise.

I am sure you know the emotional troubles it will cause your spouse if they catch you having a secret relationship, it will not be easy.

If you cherish your union and want it to last till eternity you need to be completely loyal, for the man, every woman have got same thing, no one has Air conditioner fixed to any part of her body that makes her different from your wife.

For the woman, it is better you just fix the issue which might make you grow feelings for someone outside your relationship together with your man.

Men don't forgive easily, it takes the grace of God to forgive you when you are caught in the act.

Please add comment as it is so important to me.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com/2017/05/this-is-what-you-can-do-if-you-are.html

Funny enough, Our African mentality, If a man is caught cheating, The woman will be asked to forgive and forget, the issue tends to be treated with kids glove, Turn the table around.......... World War iii,The woman is demonized and castigated so much that even the devil feels for her