what would you do if you find out that the one you love is cheating on you?

i think i will just bounce out!

What is the basis? What is the origin? What led to it? Give us a broader insight and more details. Then I can comment.


Thanks

I will first unleash my anger on him (ans I do have a temper) then I will calm down to hear exactly why he did it.
Based on his explanation I will take a decision to either break up, revenge, forgive but don't forget or forgive & forget!

Sleep with someone else and its over.
Very simple.

Dont pretend things will get back to normal as they wont!!!
They will actually carry on cheating as once a rat always a rat.

Why do you peeps make a big deal out of sex?Sex can be done with anyone irrespective of consanguinity or marital ties.

@hackney
Sometimes people cheat coz the partner was not there for them at some point or if they were 'seduced' when they were emotionally unstable for any reason.
For instance someone gets sacked and the partnr does not show enough care but another person is all over the emotionally distraught person. Anything can happen especially if the do-gooder has been dreaming of getting through. Things happen in this world, let's leave theory and talk practicality. Husbands/wives cheat and they still stay married.

its very easy for folks to just read a topic and say "i'd do this" or "i'd do that" but theres a whole lot more to it than that. at face value. i'd say: if my girl were to cheat on me, i'd'nt be mad at the other guy cos he didnt force her to do anything she didnt already want to. theres no point gettin mad at her either. maybe it was partly my fault too. like i said, theres a lot to it.

Lets not even pretend. . .it would never be the same. . .so lets save ourselves the waste of time and just part ways. . .simple!

I WILL BE DISAPPOINTED. I WILL HAVE TO DISCUSS THE ISSUE WITH MY MENTOR MAYBE THERE IS A WARNING SIGNAL WHICH I FAIL TO DETECT,WILL CONTINUE ON IT.

hollandis:

Why do you peeps make a big deal out of sex?Sex can be done with anyone irrespective of consanguinity or marital ties.

what you fail to realize is that cheating has very little to do with the sex part and ALL to do with lack of trust/respect for your partner.
the only reason why i would dump that person is because i could never trust them again and that they had no respect for what we had.

hbabe:

Sometimes people cheat coz the partner was not there for them at some point or if they were 'seduced' when they were emotionally unstable for any reason.
For instance someone gets sacked and the partnr does not show enough care but another person is all over the emotionally distraught person. Anything can happen especially if the do-gooder has been dreaming of getting through. Things happen in this world, let's leave theory and talk practicality. Husbands/wives cheat and they still stay married.

cheating because you were WEAK is what you are talking about but unfortunately COMMUNICATION is the key.

you should have talked to your man, tell him how you felt, tell him that you were "emotionally unstable".
if you were sacked and your man doesnt show you care then talk to him instead, explain the situation instead of jumping in another mans bed. . . . . by the way, how does being fukced by another person is going to help in the matter at hand?! did he promise to offer you a job?! is he gonna talk to your ex boss to get your job back?

yes people cheat and stay married but they mostly do it out of desperation etc. also if wifey does a mistake and the husband feels that she is truly sorry about it and wont do it again then ok but if someone went to fukc and make it seem like its her husband fault then they shouldnt be together.

you are in charge of your toto, you are in control of your body, dont put the blames on others for you inability to keep your legs closed . . . . . . . . and if you cant then COMMUNICATION is the key. talk to you man!!!!!!

all this long story, lol
firstly i'd ask why he did it?
if thrs no gud enuf xplanation or reason

nxt lyn of action z 2 GRILL HIZ BALLZ.next tym he wil think twice,

I am just being real! If I have to be away from my man for a over 6 months and he cheats on me I will forgive him!
All I am trying to say is that not all cases of cheating should result in a break up, sometimes the circumstance that led to the cheating has to be taken into consideration in our decision.

@hbabe

yes you are right but there is a big difference between being away from your man for 6 months and losing your job(as you stated earlier).

also, any person who expect their spouse to stay sexless for 6 months is a dreamer(its possible but not easy), the key is to talk about it like adults and come up with a compromise.

get my butt out

If am there 4him nd he cheatd,d relatnshp wil end weda explaind or nt.And if am married,divorc is d next step.cos i knw notin on earth wil make me cheat on him til death weda he's there or nt,nt evn a past relatnshp cn try. And evn if i stil stay wit him it wn't nd wil neva b as b4,dat he'l sugest we depart.

Report her 2 d pastor.

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No imam~

i will back off.i know its hurts,but a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

A partner. . .as in marriage or mere relationship?

In a marriage case, I'll make things work for good by simple conversations, won't break my marriage.

find out why it was done!sex is not all about love these days.