oodua1stson:
so maga like you still de town? No wonder girls de misbehave.



In this time and age when girls will do anytime just
to have a man? You're here fooling yourself

I know ur type very well especially from d tone of ur language. One dat wld crying on a woman's feet with mucous everywhere. You type are 'chuck tails'

M-U-M-U

mandmis007:


She still loves me dis I can confidently.

Guy u r not just serious and u v no one to tell you. It's even quite embarrassing reading your story. You part of the kind of guys I pity for. You saw ur so-called woman with another guy and u want to fight the guy, who does dat? Is your name written on her forehead? How was the other guy supposed to know she was taken or had someone else? I'm even surprised he didn't arrest u and charge u for assault. Wat if u guys fight and u r disfigured or worse still die there? This part of your story alone shows why she doesn't want to marry u coz u r childish. Only an immature and insecured human being will want to fight over a woman. Moreover forget this your claims of she loves u and read the handwriting on the wall and be practical to yourself. She may love you but she isn't sure about spending the rest of her life with u for reasons best known to her and from ur story which aren't far-fetched. Stop bothering yourself and move on. You urself said there is another girl dat loves u which means u v been seeing someone else by the side if am not mistaken. Actions are worth a thousand words, she didn't pick your call, and den lied to u, and den drove off with another guy, wat else do u want her to tell you? Just stop embarrassing yourself coz of s girl ah ah

[quote author=mandmis007 post=56956788][/quote]


Bro ...can't comment justly on this scenario . When you do introduction in some cultures you are technically engaged to this lady ( modified : he hasn't done introduction yet )

However let me tell you a simple nuance : women and men get toasted and toast a lot before and after marriage what matters is response to third parties . Unfortunately God alone reserves the Monopoly on being everywhere at once so you won't always know what your partner is up to .

If she was sick I wonder why she did not call you to let you know ...either way # shrugs .

Sha just put the brakes on for now and start to observe her and listen to your guts .

The way both of you are behaving now is the way both of you will behave during marriage .

It's a hard thing to do but bro as a natural giver , you will always want to give her things but you need to let her fish for herself sometimes . # easier said than done .

Before you get married to her please make sure that both of you have started careers and grown roots in your respective fields if possible # easier said than done .

And learn to observe your partner without handcuffing your partner ...in any relationship intelligence gathering seems to be key .

Lastly don't react when you see your partner in another man's car ...e dey pain ohhh ... Just bear it and walk away and deal with it later .

Be yourself mate all the best .

tifany89:

Guy u r not just serious and u v no one to tell you. It's even quite embarrassing reading your story. You part of the kind of guys I pity for. You saw ur so-called woman with another guy and u want to fight the guy, who does dat? Is your name written on her forehead? How was the other guy supposed to know she was taken or had someone else? I'm even surprised he didn't arrest u and charge u for assault. Wat if u guys fight and u r disfigured or worse still die there? This part of your story alone shows why she doesn't want to marry u coz u r childish. Only an immature and insecured human being will want to fight over a woman. Moreover forget this your claims of she loves u and read the handwriting on the wall and be practical to yourself. She may love you but she isn't sure about spending the rest of her life with u for reasons best known to her and from ur story which aren't far-fetched. Stop bothering yourself and move on. You urself said there is another girl dat loves u which means u v been seeing someone else by the side if am not mistaken. Actions are worth a thousand words, she didn't pick your call, and den lied to u, and den drove off with another guy, wat else do u want her to tell you? Just stop embarrassing yourself coz of s girl ah ah

Still on the thread n listening

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Bro ...can't comment justly on this scenario . When you do introduction in some cultures you are technically engaged to this lady ( modified : he hasn't done introduction yet )

However let me tell you a simple nuance : women and men get toasted and toast a lot before and after marriage what matters is response to third parties . Unfortunately God alone reserves the Monopoly on being everywhere at once so you won't always know what your partner is up to .

If she was sick I wonder why she did not call you to let you know ...either way # shrugs .

Sha just put the brakes on for now and start to observe her and listen to your guts .

The way both of you are behaving now is the way both of you will behave during marriage .

It's a hard thing to do but bro as a natural giver , you will always want to give her things but you need to let her fish for herself sometimes . # easier said than done .

Before you get married to her please make sure that both of you have started careers and grown roots in your respective fields if possible # easier said than done .

And learn to observe your partner without handcuffing your partner ...in any relationship intelligence gathering seems to be key .

Lastly don't react when you see your partner in another man's car ...e dey pain ohhh ... Just bear it and walk away and deal with it later .

Be yourself mate all the best .


Tnx. I think a lot of tinz u said is reverberating in my mind n making loads of sense.

mandmis007:


I know ur type very well especially from d tone of ur language. One dat wld crying on a woman's feet with mucous everywhere. You type are 'chuck tails'

M-U-M-U

no vex. I say make I help your ministry nI





Btw I have a wife

oodua1stson:
no vex. I say make I help your ministry nI





Btw I have a wife

Then we shld nt do it with abuse. I respect pple with courtesy n decorum.
Ur status 'married' shld make u more responsible in utterances.

mandmis007:


Then we shld nt do it with abuse. I respect pple with courtesy n decorum.
Ur status 'married' shld make u more responsible in utterances.

the truth hurts but it's not an abuse