SirVintageCock:
Letting you know what Hmmm. Is it letting you know what is so obvious or what?? Once bitten twice shy.......hmmm. It happened to you thrice and you are still asking same question. I'd say that you are not smart or maybe a bigot spoiling for a showdown with Igbomen in the ring.

SirVintageCock:
Letting you know what Hmmm. Is it letting you know what is so obvious or what?? Once bitten twice shy.......hmmm. It happened to you thrice and you are still asking same question. I'd say that you are not smart or maybe a bigot spoiling for a showdown with Igbomen in the ring.

Bezed:
Its funny how your comments and statements fly one sided and also selfish... How can you want a man to keep sentiments aside and go against his values , yet you affirmed you can't do the same... Its simple since you don't want to change your church or beliefs for any man, narrow your dating to only Pentecostal man... You can't tell me that there ain't lots of non catholic man that has got those exact features you see in the catholic ones...since you've known most won't end up marrying a non Catholic, its best you ask any man be4 bringing in feelings into your relationship and then coming back to the same question

Thoniameek:


Oh well! Good for your mother

I've lost three relationships to this nonsense

I'm not Igbo and I cannot be Catholic

NoToPile:
Op I guess the reason why you are feeling it is because a very large number of catholics are igbos , you hardly see an Igbo family that somehow somewhere doesn't have a catholic background. Even the ones that attend another church mostly have catholic background.

There's a possibility that a large number of Igbo guys you meet are catholic and I believe thats where the problem is

The simple truth is a lot of times catholics don't accept to marry non Catholics, reasons best known to them.

I know a lady can't decide who walks up to her but once you know he's a catholic just forget about it , its that simple and You will get what you want, its just a matter of time. If you're expecting one of them to marry you and you dont want to convert to the catholic religion you are just deceiving your self.

NoToPile:
Op I guess the reason why you are feeling it is because a very large number of catholics are igbos , you hardly see an Igbo family that somehow somewhere doesn't have a catholic background. Even the ones that attend another church mostly have catholic background.

There's a possibility that a large number of Igbo guys you meet are catholic and I believe thats where the problem is

The simple truth is a lot of times catholics don't accept to marry non Catholics, reasons best known to them.

I know a lady can't decide who walks up to her but once you know he's a catholic just forget about it , its that simple and You will get what you want, its just a matter of time. If you're expecting one of them to marry you and you dont want to convert to the catholic religion you are just deceiving your self.

MiddleDimension:


it is a problem to be catholic? is it also a problem to be redeem, mountain of fire, winners etc. is it also a problem to be a muslim, hindu bhudist and atheist? i am someone who believes we all should be able to go with our hearts.

what the op is concerned about is what i believe is te problem with peole of faith as a whole especially the abrahamic ones.

there are alot of catholic men that have married and are still marries to women from other religioua churches. i know some.

SirVintageCock:
Letting you know what Hmmm. Is it letting you know what is so obvious or what?? Once bitten twice shy.......hmmm. It happened to you thrice and you are still asking same question. I'd say that you are not smart or maybe a bigot spoiling for a showdown with Igbomen in the ring.

Thoniameek:


True...

But I just wonder why so many grown men would allow church elders take away what makes them happy

49cents:


I am igbo and catholic....guy be gentlemanly even o o faceless forum

Pidgin2:
Catholic is the best Church that's why, if you want to marry my Igbo brothers you better be prepared to change to Catholic Church or sorry is your name

Qasaforlife:
pls what makes it the best? I really want to know.

Pidgin2:
Catholic is the best Church that's why, if you want to marry my Igbo brothers you better be prepared to change to Catholic Church or sorry is your name

Thoniameek:
I ask that we put aside sentiments when we want to answer questions that were honestly asked.

When you come in contact with someone you like I don't think the first thing that comes to mind is where they worship

And it's not in my place to be on the lookout for such criteria as I'm not the that it is important to

Those guys should stay away from girls like us or let us know from the onset

Pidgin2:
Catholic is the best Church that's why, if you want to marry my Igbo brothers you better be prepared to change to Catholic Church or sorry is your name

AHCB:
Why is catholic church the best church?

Qasaforlife:
pls what makes it the best? u really want to know.

wealthywiseman:


For starters, the Catholic Church is the first and only Church founded by Christ.

Others are mere creations and thoughts of mere mortals.

You dig?

Pidgin2:




It's the most organized church

Very rich tradition

Uniformity of practice

Training of children in the Catholic faith via catechism

The only church that has an entire country of its own

The church with the richest history

The celebration of daily masses

Daily communion service

Blessed Sacrament

Silent meditations

Intercessions from patron saints

Dedicating children to devotional worship e.g Legion

Practice of celibacy by our priests and nuns (meaning they have time for parishioners)

Apparitions

Understanding of heavenly activities

Rich liturgy

No one can hold it to ransome

stunningjudy:

So Pentecostals don't do same? I have a friend who swore never to marry a Catholic because she is a Pentecostal member, infact dating criteria is non-Catholic. The world will be a better place when we all mind our business, believe whatever you want and I do same.

dingbang:
ok let me be straight with you...


The catholic church does not allow catholic men to marry outside the church... Their kids won't be baptized in the Catholic faith... There you go

Cuddlebugie:
You can only speak for yourself. Most catholics are extremists (pardon my word choice). They won't meet you halfway,.lailai........... You hear stories like, 'my dad won't allow me marry you cuz you aren't a catholic(girl to boy), 'you have to put aside your religious belief and embrace Catholicism if you want this relationship to work', 'no, you can't be a pentecostal while i'm a catholic, it's absurd', and all that crap.

dingbang:
well some men can be pretty funny...

stunningjudy:

So Pentecostals don't do same? I have a friend who swore never to marry a Catholic because she is a Pentecostal member, infact dating criteria is non-Catholic. The world will be a better place when we all mind our business, believe whatever you want and I do same.

stunningjudy:


Life isn't so difficult, if you cannot be Catholic, don't bother dating them then turn around to complain. The same way you cannot be Catholic is the same way they cannot marry yo.

enkayhope:
. Sir I would advice u to be very sure of d statements u make. U just confirmed u r a Catholic n ready to marry a non catholic so y dat statement. Ofcos catholic men can marry from any denomination whatsoever.

dingbang:
Babe relax.. I am Igbo and catholic and I don't even intend marrying an Igbo girl in the first place...