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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 12:38pm On Jun 01, 2017
OLAJADON:

you are not getting my point, am not talking about disrespecting a lady in fact any man that does that is a coward, all am saying is ladies are expected to covered their body to prevent more springing up of more bastards.
that my point

well i got your point and what am saying is...those bastards should learn to zip up and control themselves thats all am saying..it should not be the ladies fault and i take it..you think the uncovered meat is to be blamed right?no the cat should have the blame

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by OLAJADON: 12:56pm On Jun 01, 2017
cristianisraeli:


well i got your point and what am saying is...those bastards should learn to zip up and control themselves thats all am saying..it should not be the ladies fault and i take it..you think the uncovered meat is to be blamed right?no the cat should have the blame
yea the cat should be blame but imagine if the meat was not open would the cat even know there is anything inside the point.
naturally, we men are move by what we see, it is only the disciplined ones that put their emotion in check
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 12:58pm On Jun 01, 2017
OLAJADON:

yea the cat should be blame but imagine if the meat was not open would the cat even know there is anything inside the point.

well even if you open the meat does not mean the cat should come and eat it...the cat can look at it and walk away..just like trained dogs..when you dont say eat they wont eat..until u say EAT

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by blesoh(f): 1:49pm On Jun 01, 2017
cristianisraeli:


you see were we are wrong again..instead of us to say those touts should go to jail..you are saying for safety and respect.what is wrong with nigeria and nigerians.we always support whats wrong.AGAIN WOMEN HAVE THE RIGHT TO WEAR WHATEVER THEY WANT AND NOT BE HARASSED..NIGERIA IS NOT SAUDI ARABIA OR IRAN.the issue shouldnt not be the way women dress..men should find a way to tame themselves or look the other way or GO TO JAIL..simple..you touch or harass any women because of the way shes dressed..then you go to jail..women should have freedom not to be oppressed.most of those women in hijabs want to be free..in saudi women run to USA because they want to be free.A man have no right to disrespect a woman because of the way shes dressed and infact you have no right to disrespect a woman even if you find her in a LovePeddler house.if you are a disrespectful man you are a disrespectful man..thats all
When you talk about freedom, I wonder if nudity is the said freedom. Same white men say dress to be address.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by BerryAnny(m): 2:29pm On Jun 01, 2017
permit:
.why because she is right, but for u who fink By seducin every tom and dick then maximum attention will accredited to u as expected,attention miner is wat u are with thos who drink from same cup with you.pple lik u bring only pusssssy to table notin more. Hnmm i spit on ur foolishness
See how you write ambigiously,no capitalisation,wrong punctuation marks,wrong spellings et al. I don't need to argue or exchange words with a low-life slowpoke like you,I can even sense you are a teen so enjoy y' day kid.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by permit(m): 2:32pm On Jun 01, 2017
blesoh:

When you talk about freedom, I wonder if nudity is the said freedom. Same white men say dress to be address.
.high 5

Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 2:35pm On Jun 01, 2017
blesoh:

When you talk about freedom, I wonder if nudity is the said freedom. Same white men say dress to be address.

i was hoping you would speak on the points i made there and to answer your question..YES NUDITY IS FREEDOM AND WHITE PEOPLE ARE THE MASTERS OF NUDITY
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by blesoh(f): 6:02pm On Jun 01, 2017
cristianisraeli:


i was hoping you would speak on the points i made there and to answer your question..YES NUDITY IS FREEDOM AND WHITE PEOPLE ARE THE MASTERS OF NUDITY
Wow thanks goodness u said the 'whites' I was expecting to hear the African society, BTW my reply was base on ur roburst reply, it all base down to freedom, till tomorrow nudity will never be our culture cos not all things u learn from ur teacher that u have to copy.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by SirMichael1: 6:05pm On Jun 01, 2017
Estharfabian:

Lol. grin

may I ask... WTF is Indecent dressing? Who gives these rules? What's the Yardstick for measuring Indecency? why do a bunch of Busy-Bodiez feel the need to tell Grownups How and how not to Dress?

All these Oversabiz tho!
lol. and Thank you... lol. I dress Very INDECENTLY. grin

I know you dress in rags grin

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by musawisdom(m): 6:46pm On Jun 01, 2017
cristianisraeli:


well am telling it to you now straight..YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO TELL ANYONE THEY WAY TO DRESS..NO RIGHT...have you heard of deeper life before and lords chosen and all of them...even if its a christian..i will give it to her straight..but muslims are always claming too holy.they want the world to dress like them,do like them..you cant force anyone..its happening all over the world..in arab countries..muslim men always spit on women if wear something thats not islamic..they will harass you..its happening in germany and sweden now.do you know sweden is the RAPE capital of the world now and guess the guys that are raping women...ITS THE muslim men...they say because the women dress provocatively and they cant help themselves..now tell me..whos fault is it...the man that cant control his zip or the women thats on minis skirts..tell me?i respect other peoples religion and what i dont respect is when other religion tells other religion how to dress..no...
Tell me something about this bible verse
First Timothy 2:9-10 “Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works.”
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by musawisdom(m): 6:57pm On Jun 01, 2017
Proverbs 31:30 “Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by musawisdom(m): 7:00pm On Jun 01, 2017
Romans 12:2 “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jun 01, 2017
Angel196:


It seems you are confused cause you aren't making any sense. Did anyone here talk about decent dressing in a religious perspective? NO!!! Stop embarrassing yourself going off topic talking about Islamic perspective of decent dressing this topic is not about that. It's about DECENT DRESSING in general.

You keep dragging in things that has nothing to do with the topic, namely religion. Again decent dressing isn't equivalent to being religious but having self respect. If I can show those pictures as not being indecent, you should stop embarrassing yourself further by calling me a religious extremists, it's so sad.

Please before you quote me further Google the meaning of indecent dressing.

If you feel walking around half naked is decent, that's not my problem. Just don't blame anyone for thinking you're a hooker when you're dressed like one.
now it seems you lack understanding, what extremists like you may call indent isn't what a liberal person will call indecent, stop trying to remove religion from it,because in the end what you perceive as indecent is greatly influenced by your religion,I should be the one to rather tell you to stop embarrassing yourself.No matter how much you try to lie,what a non Muslim calls OK will be tagged indecent, cos according to you and your religion, looking like a ninja is synonymous with decent, and why should I even walk naked?,for all I know I can be wearing a high waist knee length and ninja looking people like you will still call it indecent ,that is why people like you need to shush it

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 9:35pm On Jun 01, 2017
frenzyduchess:
now it seems you lack understanding, what extremists like you may call indent isn't what a liberal person will call indecent, stop trynbg to remove religion from it,because in the end what you perceive as indecent is greatly influenced by your religion,I should be the one to rather tell you to stop embarrassing yourself.No matter how much you try to lie,what a non Muslim calls OK will be tagged indecent, cos according to you and your religion, looking like a ninja is synonymous with decent, and why should I even walk naked?,for all I know I cab be wearing a high wait knee length and ninja looking people like you will still call it indecent ,that is why people like you need to shush it

Embarrassing and pathetic indeed. Don't use religion as excuse to comfort yourself.

Are any of the women below Muslims or are they wearing hijab? What's the difference between them? undecided

Done with this too.

Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 9:58pm On Jun 01, 2017
Angel196:


Embarrassing and pathetic indeed. Don't use religion as excuse to comfort yourself.

Are any of the women below Muslims or are they wearing hijab? What's the difference between them? undecided

Done with this too.
you are the pathetic caged one,no o ,dont be done,keep poking your nose where it doesn't belong, as if they sent you on an errand, nonsense!,if you want to associate dressing with self respect what about your sisters that dont wear pant under their hijab?, do they have self respect, meeetw, face your mosque and stop dictating to other people, just because you are stuck with being a ninja even under hot sun doesn't mean everyone has to be like you, amebor

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by NaeChris: 11:06pm On Jun 01, 2017
Maxi112:
op go get a life... jealousy will do you no good. it's their life not yours.


mind your business please.

you can't buy expensive cloth is not their fault.

you can't dress like them isn't their fault.


your thread reeks of jealousy
Keep shut!
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by CaptainGOOD: 12:31am On Jun 02, 2017
shinarlaura:


Hahahaha.

Hi dearie
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by MistadeRegal(m): 10:10am On Jun 02, 2017
Hannysmilez:
Lol. You represent yourself alone. Her appearance tells who she is,of course. Your refusal to greet her tells who you are as well.
Respect is a personal thing,when you understand this, you'd treat even newborn babies respectfully.
#YouAreResponsibleForWhatYouDo

Btw,why are you so interested in what others wear? Is minding your business too hard these days

You don't seem to get it.
South Westerners prostrate to greet elders. Now if she's wearing such a skimpy dress do you expect a male in-law in his right senses to prostrate in front of her?

And as for me, I don't give a damn about what people wear. It's your problem. I've seen ladies who wear skimpy dresses, mini skirt and while going on the way they'll start pulling it down! What madness! Why not wear what you know will give you less or no frustration already or where you forced to wear it?

I've witnessed a situation where some ladies are barked at like dog because of the way they dress.

The Yoruba adage says, "Your appearance decides how you'd be addressed." And that is absolutely true.
When a lady dress smartly. The feminine way, she commands respect and you'd hear men address her as 'Madam' while those who dress, in their own mind as 'sexy' are addresed as 'Bae', 'Baby', 'Girl', etc.

If not for moral decadance in our world of today, women won't think of dressing such disgusting ways.
So dress appropriately and be respected.

Therefore, don't tell me again about minding my business. Whatever you wear is your problem not mine.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 11:30am On Jun 02, 2017
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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by bpee: 11:35am On Jun 02, 2017
scarletkinq:
have have not seen one
omotola is one
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by dacoza007(m): 4:57pm On Jun 02, 2017
Angel196:


Embarrassing and pathetic indeed. Don't use religion as excuse to comfort yourself.

Are any of the women below Muslims or are they wearing hijab? What's the difference between them? undecided

Done with this too.

damn!!!....thats not indecency, that's hot
u b muslim true true , I just realized that,
I will choose d indecent!!!!! WTF
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 5:11pm On Jun 02, 2017
Hundreds join in Jerusalem 'SlutWalk

Hundreds of young Israelis, many wearing just bras and shorts, staged a "SlutWalk" through central Jerusalem on Friday to defend women's right to dress as they want without being assaulted.

"No, that means no," they chanted as the marchers, mostly women but also some men, made their way along Jaffa Road and near religiously conservative Ultra-Orthodox Jewish areas such as Mahane Yehuda where women cover up in long robes.

The annual march, held with a police escort, passed off without incident.

Margaret, 23, told AFP she was there to show that "all women and all men have the right to wear what they want... and that nobody has the right to touch or attack them for that".

Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 7:18pm On Jun 02, 2017
dacoza007:


damn!!!....thats not indecency, that's hot
u b muslim true true , I just realized that,
I will choose d indecent!!!!! WTF

Really? And she can wear that to a church right? Very funny.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 7:27pm On Jun 02, 2017
Angel196:


Really? And she can wear that to a church right? Very funny.

if you can not answer this question i asked you..then let the matter rest..dressing decently no go mean say your boyfriend/huband no go marry another..am not disrespecting you..am just saying..


Uncovered women are viewed as prostitutes and adulterers and the prevailing attitude is that if an uncovered woman is raped she asked for it. In September 2006 in a Ramadan sermon on adultery, Australia’s most senior Muslim cleric blamed immodestly dressed women who don't wear hijab for being preyed on by men. Sheik Taj Din al-Hilali alluded to the infamous Sydney gang rapes in 2000, committed by a group of fourteen Lebanese Australian men, and suggested the attackers were not entirely to blame. Sheik Hilali said: "If you take out uncovered meat and place it outside on the street, or in the garden or in the park, or in the backyard without a cover, and the cats come and eat it ... whose fault is it, the cats or the uncovered meat? The uncovered meat is the problem." That is the psychology of Muslim refugees who have been welcomed into Sweden in extraordinary numbers.

angel196..please what do you think about those...whos to blame the uncovered meat or the cat?open question to all here..who do you blame...the uncovered meat or the cat?please honest answers
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 8:31pm On Jun 02, 2017
cristianisraeli:


if you can not answer this question i asked you..then let the matter rest..dressing decently no go mean say your boyfriend/huband no go marry another..am not disrespecting you..am just saying..


Uncovered women are viewed as prostitutes and adulterers and the prevailing attitude is that if an uncovered woman is raped she asked for it. In September 2006 in a Ramadan sermon on adultery, Australia’s most senior Muslim cleric blamed immodestly dressed women who don't wear hijab for being preyed on by men. Sheik Taj Din al-Hilali alluded to the infamous Sydney gang rapes in 2000, committed by a group of fourteen Lebanese Australian men, and suggested the attackers were not entirely to blame. Sheik Hilali said: "If you take out uncovered meat and place it outside on the street, or in the garden or in the park, or in the backyard without a cover, and the cats come and eat it ... whose fault is it, the cats or the uncovered meat? The uncovered meat is the problem." That is the psychology of Muslim refugees who have been welcomed into Sweden in extraordinary numbers.

angel196..please what do you think about those...whos to blame the uncovered meat or the cat?open question to all here..who do you blame...the uncovered meat or the cat?please honest answers

This is the very last response I'll give you.

First of all my post never discussed decency from my religion's point of view but it seems you find it too difficult to understand that fact.

Second, talking about an uncovered meat and cats, the uncovered meat has not sense between right and wrong and a cat can't really reason as a human so comparing the both to a human situation is not valid.

Nobody here excused rape. I am a woman so I can never excuse rape. Unless a woman gives the greenlight no man is right for forcing himself upon her.

I talked about disrespect and treating indecently dressed women as cheap, disrespect for you might mean rape but rape is not what I referred to disrespect in this context.

Seeing a woman who is dressed like a hooker, walking up to her and asking how much she charges per night, if she isn't really a hooker definitely she'll take offense and say she was disrespected by the guy which is true but seriously who will you blame? The girl who dressed like a hooker or the guy for mistaking her for one? Its just like the senerio of a guy dressed like a cop and taking offense when people mistake him for one.

Some women, most who dress indecently love having one night stands or purely sexual relationships with no strings attached. If a guy sees a girl who's dressed like those sort of girls he's used to interacting with, mistakes her for one of them, has sex with her and then the next day the girl asks when he'll call, he tells her he won't and what happened between them is just sex. Yes, the guy has fault for not letting her know before hand. But they are both at faults so she can't blame everyone but herself for the woes she'll face for dressing indecently.[b]

Before you start quoting me, asking me about those that are decently dressed and yet are still used by some men, go back to my topic, SOME WOMEN ARE THE REASON GUYS DISRESPECT THEM. Of course even in that situation the guy has fault but again, the girl can't blame everyone but herself for the woes she'll experience. You can dress the way you like but be ready to accept and face the consequences it's gonna attract.

But anyways I have discovered you are one of those who don't see anything wrong in people walking around half naked which is why you especially should stop involving religion in this cause even your religion is against it and preach it as wrong and a sin. You don't have your religion to back you up in your views either. Dressing and looking good for one's husband as you said pastors preach isn't synonymous to walking around half naked. And no one asked anyone to tie wrapper. [b]

HAVE A NICE NIGHT.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 8:57pm On Jun 02, 2017
Angel196:


This is the very last response I'll give you.

First of all my post never discussed decency from my religion's point of view but it seems you find it too difficult to understand that fact.

Second, talking about an uncovered meat and cats, the uncovered meat has not sense between right and wrong and a cat can't really reason as a human so comparing the both to a human situation is not valid.

Nobody here excused rape. I am a woman so I can never excuse rape. Unless a woman gives the greenlight no man is right for forcing himself upon her.

I talked about disrespect and treating indecently dressed women as cheap, disrespect for you might mean rape but rape is not what I referred to disrespect in this context.

Seeing a woman who is dressed like a hooker, walking up to her and asking how much she charges per night, if she isn't really a hooker definitely she'll take offense and say she was disrespected by the guy which is true but seriously who will you blame? The girl who dressed like a hooker or the guy for mistaking her for one? Its just like the senerio of a guy dressed like a cop and taking offense when people mistake him for one.

Some women, most who dress indecently love having one night stands or purely sexual relationships with no strings attached. If a guy sees a girl who's dressed like those sort of girls he's used to interacting with, mistakes her for one of them, has sex with her and then the next day the girl asks when he'll call, he tells her he won't and what happened between them is just sex. Yes, the guy has fault for not letting her know before hand. But they are both at faults so she can't blame everyone but herself for the woes she'll face for dressing indecently.[b]

Before you start quoting me, asking me about those that are decently dressed and yet are still used by some men, go back to my topic, SOME WOMEN ARE THE REASON GUYS DISRESPECT THEM. Of course even in that situation the guy has fault but again, the girl can't blame everyone but herself for the woes she'll experience. You can dress the way you like but be ready to accept and face the consequences it's gonna attract.

But anyways I have discovered you are one of those who don't see anything wrong in people walking around half naked which is why you especially should stop involving religion in this cause even your religion is against it and preach it as wrong and a sin. You don't have your religion to back you up in your views either. Dressing and looking good for one's husband as you said pastors preach isn't synonymous to walking around half naked. And no one asked anyone to tie wrapper. [b]

HAVE A NICE NIGHT.

hahaha..you didnt answer the question directly..you twisted it,LOL..the uncovered meat should never be the one to be blamed,the cat should always learn to look the other way and zip up..simple.what you dont know is..harrasment leads to rape if it happens in the nite or whenever....anyways let me not prolong the matter..nite nite
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by dacoza007(m): 8:53am On Jun 03, 2017
Angel196:


Really? And she can wear that to a church right? Very funny.

now u confusing me....you specifically said it ain't about religion
I might be an atheist you don't know
anyway, sh cant wear that to church and it's just like the men can't wear caps hats or ripped jeans or sag their trousers
in some really big churches, u can wear it and nobody cares , cos serving God is a personal thing
I can smell the religious setting u trying so hard to bring but keeps twisting wen caught

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 9:09am On Jun 03, 2017
dacoza007:


now u confusing me....you specifically said it ain't about religion
I might be an atheist you don't know
anyway, sh cant wear that to church and it's just like the men can't wear caps hats or ripped jeans or sag their trousers
in some really big churches, u can wear it and nobody cares , cos serving God is a personal thing
I can smell the religious setting u trying so hard to bring but keeps twisting wen caught

That's where you got it all wrong, it wasn't about religion but what was it you who said it seems I was a Muslim, as if its only Islam that preaches about indecent dressing..

If I was talking from my religion's point of view, tell me, would I see the other women as decent?

damn!!!....thats not indecency, that's hot
u b muslim true true , I just realized that,
I will choose d indecent!!!!! WTF

What was that supposed to mean? That only Muslims see that dressing as indecent? Give me a break for goodness sake.

Not even in our tradition would anyone see that as close to decent not Yoruba, not Igbo not hausa, well except traditions who allow their women to go topless. And no respectable lady would wear that to a respectable place, not her in laws house nor her children's school. As for the street anything goes.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by dacoza007(m): 6:49pm On Jun 03, 2017
Angel196:


That's where you got it all wrong, it wasn't about religion but what was it you who said it seems I was a Muslim, as if its only Islam that preaches about indecent dressing..

If I was talking from my religion's point of view, tell me, would I see the other women as decent?



What was that supposed to mean? That only Muslims see that dressing as indecent? Give me a break for goodness sake.

Not even in our tradition would anyone see that as close to decent not Yoruba, not Igbo not hausa, well except traditions who allow their women to go topless. And no respectable lady would wear that to a respectable place, not her in laws house nor her children's school. As for the street anything goes.

d respectable places u listed ar inlaw's place children's school
what about girls in early 20's huh
a husband should tell his wifey if e's not satisfied with d way sh dresses not u....same goes for fiance

so anything goes for street....n u choose to call it indecency
nawa for u
just dress d way u want and stop complaining about aw some women ar disrespected .....so far u ar not related
it's called minding ur business

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Angel196(f): 7:58pm On Jun 03, 2017
dacoza007:


d respectable places u listed ar inlaw's place children's school
what about girls in early 20's huh
a husband should tell his wifey if e's not satisfied with d way sh dresses not u....same goes for fiance

so anything goes for street....n u choose to call it indecency
nawa for u
just dress d way u want and stop complaining about aw some women ar disrespected .....so far u ar not related
it's called minding ur business

Hahaha, early age is not an excuse to dress indecently but hey, its their choice but what makes me mad are those sort of people blaming everyone but themselves for things they experience for dressing indecently.

The fact that you don't see this dress as indecent doesn't mean it isn't. Again no respectable woman would wear that to respectable places.

Again I'm not telling anyone how to dress but not to blame everyone but themselves for the disrespect they'll face for dressing indecently. You are always free to choose but you aren't gonna be free form the consequences of your choices, that's life.

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