This usually bothers me because it not only rob them of early marriage at prime age but also spurs the ready and capable brothers like me into marrying the ladies of other faith like I' m almost doing except a miracle happens which i still secretly pray for because I don't want to get it wrong a this critical decision stage of my life. So brothers and sisters lets discuss this issue which is gradually killing the spirit of the DEEN. jimohzz@yahoo.com

I've not actually experienced this, but my friends have a lot of times. . . I don't know what is going on, but i think some just tend to pretend about what they are not
But my brother, some brothers can really be funny, imagine someone telling my love that he's gonna rent a self contain room worth 60,000 naira for her, Hmm, even after she insisted on 'I'm engaged of a thing'.
My brother, just pray for a kind of relationship that will benefit you in this word and the hereafter. . .May Allah increase us all in faith, ameen

@Poster,

What do you think is there reason, if they have any?

BTW, I smiled a little at the post. . .

muhsin:

@Poster,

What do you think is there reason, if they have any?

BTW, I smiled a little at the post. . .

You needed to, 'cos it was funny

lol

I know of nothing like this in my area.

Me too. Why should they lie when their mate are married and they re busy roaming the street. It is a xtrian that i know they reach old age before marriage after sleeping with several boy friend. Salamu alaikum ya ikwan.

Abu Zola:

Me too. Why should they lie when their mate are married and they re busy roaming the street.  It is a xtrian that i know they reach old age before marriage after sleeping with several boy friend. Salamu alaikum ya ikwan.

Normally I wouldn't reply to you but trust me, people will sleep with others before marriage regardless of belief.  The "religious" ones will do that, true believers of any religion will not.

lasisi:

This usually bothers me because it not only rob them of early marriage at prime age but also spurs the ready and capable brothers like me into marrying the ladies of other faith like I' m almost doing except a miracle happens which i still secretly pray for because I don't want to get it wrong a this critical decision stage of my life. So brothers and sisters lets discuss this issue which is gradually killing the spirit of the DEEN. jimohzz@yahoo.com

Those women who have said they are engaged aren't for you.  Or you've been approaching the wrong type of women.

I would encourage you to hang in there.  Don't go for someone you aren't totally comfortable with, especially if they are not of the same faith because it will cause problems later on.

@last poster, are you a muslim ?
Am saying what i know is rampant in my society. The christians are the prime people that does the fornication alot than you can imagine. Am talking from experience, even though we have few among the muslim but is rampant among the christian.

Abu Zola:

@last poster, are you a muslim ?
Am saying what i know is rampant in my society. The christians are the prime people that does the fornication alot than you can imagine. Am talking from experience, even though we have few among the muslim but is rampant among the christian.

Well said.

abuzombi u are an old gay

luvola:

abuzombi u are an old gay

This was uncalled for.

@ mushin - cant u see wat yur fellor is saying

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@last poster, are you a muslim ?
Am saying what i know is rampant in my society. The christians are the prime people that does the fornication alot than you can imagine. Am talking from experience, even though we have few among the muslim but is rampant among the christian.

And I am saying what I know is rampant where I am. Replace "Christian" with "Muslim" - we are both talking from experience, because it is so does not make it exclusively right either way.

Where are you if i may ask. Read my previous post again, i said we have few fornicator compare to the christian, the christian are the master, you can find 70% of the christian in a geographical zone fornicates. And 20% muslim. You also know it unless if you have a hiden agenda coz everyone is aware of this.

Abu Zola:

Where are you if i may ask.  Read my previous post again, i said we have few fornicator compare to the christian, the christian are the master, you can find 70% of the christian in a geographical zone fornicates.  And 20%  muslim.  You also know it unless if you have a hiden agenda coz everyone is aware of this.

How many wives did mohammad marry?

Abu Zola:

Where are you if i may ask.  Read my previous post again, i said we have few fornicator compare to the christian, the christian are the master, you can find 70% of the christian in a geographical zone fornicates.  And 20%  muslim.  You also know it unless if you have a hiden agenda coz everyone is aware of this.

My intention is not to make sweeping generalisations of any one group, that is why I differentiate between sincere and devout believers and those who are "religious".

Geographically we inhabit very different worlds.  I don't have a "hidden agenda", if you find one let me know.  In the meantime, while you are looking for the said "hidden agenda", I will make it easier for you by not responding to your posts.

Also, if you have nothing further to add to the original post, I suggest it is best to cease de-railing the thread.

Abu Zola:

Where are you if i may ask. Read my previous post again, i said we have few fornicator compare to the christian, the christian are the master, you can find 70% of the christian in a geographical zone fornicates. And 20% muslim. You also know it unless if you have a hiden agenda coz everyone is aware of this.

What do you base your baseless research on ? Muslims are the most promiscuopus human being on earth. Hijab is just a deception. In my area, the Imam, that are residing there, are the greatest adulterers and fornicators.

99% of Muslims are fornicators and adulterers.

@post :

It is another way of telling you that they are not interested in your sorry self.

It is another way of avoiding their promiscuous men.

You don't expect her to cheapen herself. do you ?

I laff in french. Yesterday i saw a thread where ur sisters in romance section said they will be glad to marry womanizer/fornicator, they reject marrying a virgin man. Guy you and ur women have the license to fornicate anyhow, unlimited intimacy partners , yeah ! It is now a pride among christian to lose their virginity. I can remember some ladies in my school discussing how they were banged and mocking the other single girl who was a virgin as JJC. Thank God i be practising musulmi

Xtianity was begated by Jesus,whilst mohammad begat islam.We d followers must adhere to our leaders.Tell me zola how many wives mohammad&jesus had? According to ahadith,quran&bible.Include concubines as well

abuzola you are saying the reality and is the best go on joo

@abuzola
maybe you need to look inwards at your supposed muslim wives suffering in silence because christian ladies have the liberty to chose whom to marry unlike the 13 years olds married off to old men and then kept in the dark at the back of the house just like mohammad did.

if perpetual slavery and sadness is what a woman will look foward to as a muslim wife,no wonder these ladies you are on about are brushing moslem men off,who no wan enjoy like the christian wife listen to our marriage vow, to love and to hold,in sickness and in health,till death do us part,

muslim one is to thrash with koboko anytime she over steps her boundary because she is my property,to pray behind me so if i fart she will suck it all in.
to eat the remnants of me and my friend's food,and if she has female daughters they will inherit only a fraction of my property now chose which life you think a normal person will opt for??

No mind the cross worshipper

all of you be deceiving yourselves, come here to uk and see the female children of these supposed northern leaders and religious fathers how they are rocking and living the life you know islam is a sinking boat because no one wants to live the stone age life in the 21 st century so join us before you drown lol

Tunde, No mind the cross worshipper

Abu Zola:

I laff in french. Yesterday i saw a thread where your sisters in romance section said they will be glad to marry womanizer/fornicator, they reject marrying a virgin man. Guy you and your women have the license to fornicate anyhow, unlimited intimacy partners , yeah ! It is now a pride among christian to lose their virginity. I can remember some ladies in my school discussing how they were banged and mocking the other single girl who was a virgin as JJC. Thank God i be practising musulmi

Abuzola, muslim ladies are far, far worst.

They are banged by their fathers. They flirt in their husband's house because the man cannot satisfy her because he had so many wives.

Abuzola you are not a virgin, you are worst than a dog. So stop pretending !!!

t.truth:

Abuzola, muslim ladies are far, far worst.

They are banged by their fathers. They flirt in their husband's house because the man cannot satisfy her because he had so many wives.

Abuzola you are not a virgin, you are worst than a dog. So stop pretending !!!

Even before i could finished reading your post, i already knew you were the one, kudos

Can't you just act as if you are a literate for once? That should not be too difficult for you now, but if it is, then learn from your siblings, I'm sure they can't be this worse yet

So unreasonable. . .

t truth(ORAISA BOY) is so foolish and he goes about displaying it in every corner, or cant u just be resonable for once

MUNEER2:

Even before i could finished reading your post, i already knew you were the one, kudos

Can't you just act as if you are a literate for once? That should not be too difficult for you now, but if it is, then learn from your siblings, I'm sure they can't be this worse yet

So unreasonable. . .

I am more educated than all the muslims(including you) on this thread combined. Why not tell Abuzola your brother to stop being judgemental?

All I have posted are nothing but the truth.

Muneer (Mr Stack illiterate)

I am more educated than all the muslims(including you) on this thread combined. Why not tell Abuzola your brother to stop being judgemental?

All I have posted are nothing but the truth.

Muneer (Mr Stack illiterate)
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t.truth only foolish person commenting himself, dont you know that?

abio