ivolt:


It does most time, most of our feeling of happiness and satisfaction
are based on comparison, if it is better than x, then it is good.
Moreover, humans are slave to pleasure and pain,
there is no reason why a sexually active woman with many
boyfriends before marriage will suddenly stops sleeping around
just because she is married.

The wife already had the best sexual experience her husband
can never match, any slack on his part and the wife will go for
her one of e has nothing to compare with, even if
the husband can't satisfy her, she will most likely discuss and solve the
problem in-house than seeking new sexual partners.

LOL! I guess it's only women that compare, men don't. So, we should keep hooking virgin women to sexually adventurous men.

Virgins know good sex!
In this internet age, you think she needs an ex to compare or cheat with? When there are xrated movies everywhere? There are colleagues, neighbours, even your friends?

Humans are naturally adventurous, virgin or not.
There is always that urge to know what's on the other side. It takes only self control to hold back. Please note, that some virgins have sinister motives for remaining virgins till marriage.

This is serious ooo
just one week in camp and she no fit hold body....
konji shaa!!!

MasterRahl:
I'm sure she will cook up a story for the innocent husband at home

I pity the unfortunate man..

pocohantas:

LOL! I guess it's only women that compare, men don't. So, we should keep hooking virgin women to sexually adventurous men.

Virgins know good sex!
In this internet age, you think she needs an ex to compare or cheat with? When there are xrated movies everywhere? There are colleagues, neighbours, even your friends?

Humans are naturally adventurous, virgin or not.
There is always that urge to know what's on the other side. It takes only self control to hold back. Please note, that some virgins have sinister motives for remaining virgins till marriage.

Men also compare and if you end up with a lose adventurous man,
you will be likely be frustrated for a very long time. Mind you,
having no standard regarding men is not men's problem but
the problem of the specific woman, same applies to men with
no standard.

Movies are not equivalent to an actual sexual experience.

I repeat again, no woman who spent a large part
of her life sleeping around will suddenly stop because they
are married, only naive partners think so and they usually
end up disappointed.

As to motives, you are only privy to your own thoughts not others,
projecting how you feel about sex to other people is plain wrong,
people don't see sex the same way, while some consider it as trivial and casual,
others are more restrained in their dealings.

Finally, adventurous nature of human does not translate to being
irresponsible.

ivolt:


Men also compare and if you end up with a lose adventurous man or woman,you will be likely be frustrated for a very long time. Mind you,
having no standard regarding men is not men's problem but
the problem of the specific woman, same applies to men with
no standard.

Movies are not equivalent to an actual sexual experience.

I repeat again, no woman who spent a large part
of her life sleeping around will suddenly stop because they
are married, only naive partners think so and they usually
end up disappointed.

As to motives, you are only privy to your own thoughts not others,
projecting how you feel about sex to other people is plain wrong,
people don't see sex the same way, while some consider it as trivial and casual,
others are more restrained in their dealings.

Finally, adventurous nature of human does not translate to being
irresponsible.

You should have saved the rest, leaving just the bolded.

MasterRahl:
I'm sure she will cook up a story for the innocent husband at home

And if the husband is one of the mugus, then he will just say that's alright honey

Hahaha

pocohantas:

I don't know how to define it, but virgins fantasize, they talk to sexually active friends, some even watch porn, some sex chat with their boyfriends. They already have a mental image of how it should be, how they should feel after it... if it doesn't meet up, they may tag it bad sex.


You might wanna explain this o

well, i wannu agree wt u quite strongly. Cos, in the current dispensation of things, there's literally no "Virgin ". This is because almost everything in life now carries a sexually provocative them which leads even the physical Virgin to have become Mentally raped before they even engage in the actual act. This leads to a situation where they long ernestly for the action JUST TO CONFIRM OR AUTHENTIC THE THE KNOWLEDGE OF SEX already acquired.

The world is now gone gaga wt sex, & i wonder what is left of the future of our children & morals.
All this is facilitated especially by the GSM advent & revolution.

It is well o.

Burgerlomo:


And if the husband is one of the mugus, then he will just say that's alright honey

this one make me laugh

Burgerlomo:


And if the husband is one of the mugus, then he will just say that's alright honey

Don't worry bro. One of these days, we'll see a thread on nairaland front-page titled husband butchers wife over case of infidelity. Na so e dey take start.

Charly68:
I pity the unfortunate man..

Plus the children assuming she had any.

dis one na kasala bursting tinz

cant stop laughing this is some funny shit the weather. like seriously? are u telling me there r no cucumber or at least even mango tree in camp if u r that desperate

Is it today married women started cheating. You haven't seen anything.

SirL0neWolf:

http://gistreel.com/married-female-corper-caught-sex-plateau-nysc-camp/

by ominirajj : 9:14am On May 27 Hi matured minds I need an honest advice here. My husband has become a stumbling block for me, whenever i bring any opnion to him he sees the negative aspect only . i told him i want to learn hair dressing he goes against it, there was a time i got a job in airport hotel went against it. Now why am so depressed and sad is that i have went to field to train because i cannot afford money to attend GYM house what he have to say is that that place is not secure becos of thugs. This is a kind of man who doesnt contribute to my getting a befiting work, all he does condemn anything i do Am a Gospel artist , he wont allow me go for outings especially night vigils. Am i not in trouble already or what can i do? He is also violent and a bully

MasterRahl:
Don't worry bro. One of these days, we'll see a thread on nairaland front-page titled husband butchers wife over case of infidelity. Na so e dey take start.

I don't support killing over infidelity no matter what, but instead just take an almighty walk out on the union and move on with your life.

The gutter must be very dry without water. KONJI is a bastard. So na so the thing dey scratch married women?

Olosho in uniform!

1bkaye:

Not bad thank you, hope you're well

Yeah..
I'm good

rosieluv:
inside gutter , naso the Konji bad reach, even married women can't be trusted smh

Hi matured minds
I need an honest advice here. My
husband has become a stumbling
block for me, whenever i bring any
opnion to him he sees the negative
aspect only . i told him i want to
learn hair dressing he goes against
it, there was a time i got a job in
airport hotel went against it.
Now why am so depressed and sad
is that i have went to field to train
because i cannot afford money to
attend GYM house what he have to
say is that that place is not secure
becos of thugs.
This is a kind of man who doesnt
contribute to my getting a befiting
work, all he does condemn anything i
do
Am a Gospel artist , he wont allow
me go for outings especially night
vigils. Am i not in trouble already or
what can i do?
He is also violent and a bully









what about dat

Livefreeordieha:
ur analogy is stale and based on extincted facts that if you are not careful because of diz ignorance you will weep greatly in diz present day life..if you want to argue with me...before you do ..please come with a guaranteed proof that marrying a virgin ensures an eternal union as it wereobviously u are completely naive about diz virgin stories..MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU.

Wake up and smell the lipton tea

Premarital Sex and the Risk of Divorce

This article examines the relationship between premarital sexual activity and the long-term risk of divorce among U.S. women married between 1965 and 1985. Simple cross-tabulations from the 1988 National Survey of Family Growth indicate that women who were sexually active prior to marriage faced a considerably higher risk of marital disruption than women were were virgin brides.

http://www.jstor.org/stable/352992

The influence of the family on premarital sexual attitudes and behavior.

Children whose mothers have less restrictive attitudes have, on average, less restrictive attitudes themselves. Further, the attitudes of mothers are also reflected in the behavior of their children, so on average, mothers with more permissive attitudes have children who are more sexually active.

http://www.springerlink.com/index/G8W42260607T3858.pdf

Premarital Sexual Behavior and Attitudes toward Marriage and Divorce among Young Women as a Function of Their Mothers' Marital Status

Women from intact families reported the most positive attitudes toward marriage, while those in the reconstituted-family group reported the most accepting attitudes toward divorce. Women from divorced and reconstituted families reported significantly more sexual experience than did those from intact families. Family conflict, disruption, and the presence or absence of one's father emerged as significant predictors of dating behavior and attitudes.

http://www.jstor.org/stable/352568

barallanee:
D funniest part is DAT she is married.. Why all dis

whether married or not married a female dat will do this foolish will still do it

hardbody:


I tire ooo. Even if it's true, is it their sèx? Is it their preek ? Is it their puccy? Infact is it their konji? People no go mind their own business

wasn't our concern or business until d Agberos and Area boys were raise in d wrong way. from parents....what are dey today to d society u live.?


hope they are peaceful and law abiding...

pocohantas:
I wonder what makes people think marrying a virgin guarantees faithfulness. The worst thing that'll even happen to you, is to introduce a virgin to sex and leave her unsatisfied with time.

Don't deceive yourself into thinking virgins don't know good sex.

Pray for a partner that has self-control.

This story is fake anyway.

more here on that matter here
@ http://
www.exlinklodge.com/2017/06/
married-female-corps-member-
caught.html

GuntersChain:
I thought nysc send married corpers back to there state of residence. Abi this one hide her marriage status.

it is after d orientation camp dat dey normally redeploy

Frenchie1:
To be honest I condem their acts. However, what sort of nonsense rule is that for grown ups....

when there is no rule of law., what happpens.?

pocohantas:

It takes a woman with self control to maintain virginity till marriage. The problem is, it doesn't guarantee faithfulness, that's the point I was trying to address.

I know someone who was a virgin till she met her husband, after engagement and introduction ...the guy decided to taste and test. Immediately after that, this girl went on rampage. Within that one year they took to finalise their wedding, you don't want to know how many she tasted.

Her excuse was that, he has tasted several girls and he can confirm he opened the package. What's the guarantee, she isn't still tasting now? Her husand would pride himself as marrying a virgin, he won't know her own waywardness started after he confirmed the hymen.

No behaviour can be generalised
100%.
It is not strictly virgins but girls with
limited sexual experience tend to
stay contented.

MasterRahl:
I'm sure she will cook up a story for the innocent husband at home

Edited

A few days from now, we'll see a thread on nairaland front-page titled husband butchers wife over case of infidelity. Na so e dey take start.

but NYSC wicked self them no be children now.

but come to think of it that guy na sharp man just how many days you done catch her abi u use otumopo

somebody tell me y shld sex hungry woman?

Never Take Certain Things Serious..
#NoteToSelf

pocohantas:

Not being one isn't the end of the world.
Some of your mothers didn't marry as virgins, lots of your sisters are not virgins...lots of you will still marry non-virgins.

What then is the issue?

My mom was before she met my dad. I am still a virgin at 31and will will also marry one.

WhoBeThisMan:
Married Female Corper Caught by a soldiers Having Sex In Plateau State NYSC Camp

Is it caught by a soldiers or caught by soldiers?