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Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Who are you staying with in the abroad? Another man? Or Nairalanders? This story is not adding up...where is Mynd44 and lalasticlala sef |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by sayhi2certified(m): 8:46pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
I saw terrible things... sister you tried a lot... will continue to join you in prayers to win this case.. the heart of men are so cruel |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Hmmn. The things that happens in marriages nowadays scares me Nawa o |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Efewestern: 8:46pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Juzzybabe: don't give you child to him.. get to any length but make sure you have your child with you. can I ask you some few question? Do you have a steady source of income? , the court might use that against you... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by ferdvict2(m): 8:49pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
God will see you through. He will never leave u nor forsake u not of him dat willeth but of God dat showeth mercy. God had heard ur plight. Trust in him dear. The last battle u lost will be d last u will ever lost because u case is different. It shall be resolved in your favour. God bless u. |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Efewestern: 8:50pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Slymonster: you are not making sense. how can a pregnant woman cheat on her husband, please if you have nothing to contribute just waka go. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by sekundosekundo: 8:52pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Juzzybabe: Madam, the truth remains that in as much as he legally married you, that child is completely his. Even if you refuse him the child today, time shall come when the child will ask you questions......... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by sirugos(m): 8:52pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Madam listen, the bitter truth is that if u refused to show ur son the way to his fathers home, the boy must and will surely go back to his father when he grows up. No grown up man is ready to ans a bastard. So the only advice i will give u now is for u guys to settle amicably interms of taking care of the boy. U re not doing him good by taking full possession of him. I might sound harsh but thats d truth 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by sekundosekundo: 8:53pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Efewestern: This is pure Ahitophel advice. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
There's nothing I hate the most more than ANY parent that uses children as a weapon during a divorce. The only pertinent question is this, "What is in the best interest of the child?". Ask yourself that question every minute of the ensuing melle and let that guide you. That the father allegedly didn't provide is partial. There's a difference between financial support and parental relationship. I wish the child the best of luck, the adults will be okay. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Qriousity(m): 8:54pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Juzzybabe on thing is certain; "They that put their trust in God will never be put to shame". Apparently, your so called husband has a nefarious heart. So long you stick to your God, then fear not. There is surely a great light awaiting you at the end of the tunnel. Lastly, pray for him though you don't want to settle things with him but still pray for him to be a better man tomorrow cause when we pray for those who persecute us, what'll go on in the spiritual realm is beyond human comprehension. Victory is surely yours, Amen 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Efewestern: Is this a serious question? |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
[quote author=Eketem post=57131696]You should have filed first, you have now given him more power [/quote You are given time to respond to a petition there is no power to be had here. Why relationships have to involve everyone including the dogs and the cats is beyond me. This is messy. He knows the only way to hurt her is through the children. |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by orjiakor86: 8:57pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
woz de contention ? |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Efewestern: 8:58pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
sekundosekundo: I have experienced so many issues like this and I know where to start from. op we are here for you.. please ignore some kids here |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by repogirl(f): 9:02pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
OP, I've been following your story since your first thread. I have no legal advice for you but I'm glad you are not in Nigeria anymore. Just get a lawyer for your Aunt, all will be well by God's grace. I just wonder how some men can be downright callous. Mental illness has got to be involved. 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
You've been on his issue for a longtime.... More than 3 years. That dude is a roadblock to where you are going. Many people will tell you to fight and keep the child.. Yea great right. I'd like you to think twice about this. He might not be able to take care of the child but trying to frustrate and give you sleepless nights cause he already knows the advice you'd be given. For the sake of the child, do you think he will be able to cater and provide for the child more than you can? I don't want to buy the 40K gist.. he has spent more than 40K on this case. Just so you don't have regrets tomorrow.... you know the dude more than anyone on this forum. The child might grow up to know his father and have this thought his father could have done better than you are doing. Have a real thought, don't just follow any advice asking you to keep a child if you know it will be more than tough for you. These days, it's not about food but good food, it's not about education but quality education. You need to give you child the upper hand from childhood if you want him to do well in life. I am sorry, I see many things differently. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Slymonster:my father is a good example of men in form of monsters ,so shut the fvck up, most Nigerian men are monsters 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by FynBabe(f): 9:05pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Hmmmm! It will be alright. Don't forget to save all those threat messages o! You may need them some day. You can as well block him on all your social media handles for now until you guys conclude your case. My prayer for you is that, if your husband is being spiritually manipulated, the God that can do all things should step in speedily! Juzzybabe: 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by patola080(m): 9:06pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Juzzybabe:Sorry for wot u re going through ma , but please wer do you base |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by LexngtonSteele: 9:07pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
This won't be a popular opinion. .. I would say give the baby to the man and exit the relationship. That's the ONLY way you can ever be rid of him. What are the advantages? 1. He doesn't have any right to see you again. 2. Your chances of settling with another guy improves. Believe me, no matter how diplomatic guys would want to appear, NO MAN WANTS TO TAKE CARE OF ANOTHER MAN's CHILD. The only disadvantage I can see is that you lose your own child. If you keep the child, no matter what the courts say, you must accommodate the father at some point. Question is....do you dislike the man enough to pay the price? 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 9:07pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:stop this gender thing... different humans. The women committing crime daily are what?? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by MARKone(m): 9:09pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Madam, relax, the law will always favor u here. The child is still very little, they won't grant him custody. Marriage is overhyped, peeps need to be very careful both man and woman. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
sirugos:Thank you! |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
LexngtonSteele:Thank you too!!! The dude is trying to be silly... knowing that something still connects them which is the child. He is just trying to slow this lady. She can always connect with her child later, that won't be a problem. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
majekdom2:the key word there is "MOST" , which means a larger percentage of Nigerian men are wicked and unreasonable,simple, remove sentiments and see the fact 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by AuroraB(f): 9:17pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
sirugos:You the only one on here to see ' a son' when others saw 'a girl' But then again, you made no sense at all You won't dare call anyone a bastard however little he/she is in person. I know you know 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Mayflowa(m): 9:18pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
Anyway, Nigeria law favours the mother to have the child up till 9 years old except you have been found unusually unfit to care for a child. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Efewestern: 9:18pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
EgunMogaji: yes.. hardly will a pregnant woman's cheat on her husband.. how do you reason women to be? please let's respect them. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Mayflowa(m): 9:21pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
LexngtonSteele: who said no man wants to accommodate a woman with a child? Talk about yourself pls! Do you even know the pains of losing a child? 20 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Divorce And Custody Of Our Child He Never Catered For! by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jun 02, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:your keyword doesn't make any difference. I have had encounters with more wicked women than men... How about that? Don't use your experience and standards to generalise... scum is no respecter of gender, wickedness is no peculiar to any gender! 2 Likes |
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