Bro its well with ur soul, keep hustle real.

Afonjashapmouth:
Bottom line wait till you are ready before investing in a lady, you are putting unnecessary things ahead of your career. mend up and be somebody, then many will flock after you.

[b]I'd learn my lesson in an hard way bro.. Thanks so much 4 d piece of advise..

Afonjashapmouth:
Bottom line wait till you are ready before investing in a lady, you are putting unnecessary things ahead of your career. mend up and be somebody, then many will flock after you.

I'd learn my lesson in an hard way bro.. Thanks so much 4 d piece of advise..

Mehhhn, where's dingbang and papiikush....i'm sure they got the right words for this dude.

So many threads on NL on broke guys and relationships... Smh

OP, you're gonna feel the hurt alot because you invested way too much in this relationship. It appears you barely have enough to keep body and soul together. Now, I'm not saying go all tight-fisted on your girl. Nah.

Only give an amount that won't keep you awake all night worrying about the next day's meal. You've learnt a lesson. Dust your a$$ and move ahead. Don't forget in all your relationships going forward:

1. You don't own the girl nor her you
2. You don't owe the girl nor her you
3. Invest in your relationship but do so sparingly (where it's a relationship without prospects e.g marriage or deliberate baby-mama-ism


PS: No point "retaliating" when you hammer. You can be rich and still find love. Love and wealth are NOT mutually exclusive.

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Smh. Are u her father?
Besides u cannot satisfy a girl like that. There would always be someone richer than u are.

firstking01:
Mehhhn, where's dang and sh....i'm sure they got the right words for this dude.

lmao.. Me sef weak...

iamadonis2:
So many threads on NL on broke guys and relationships... Smh

OP, you're gonna feel the hurt alot because you invested way too much in this relationship. It appears you barely have enough to keep body and soul together. Now, I'm not saying go all tight-fisted on your girl. Nah.

Only give an amount that won't keep you awake all night worrying about the next day's meal. You've learnt a lesson. Dust your a$$ and move ahead. Don't forget in all your relationships going forward:

1. You don't own the girl nor her you
2. You don't owe the girl nor her you
3. Invest in your relationship but do so sparingly (where it's a relationship without prospects e.g marriage or deliberate baby-mama-ism


PS: No point "retaliating" when you hammer. You can be rich and still find love. Love and wealth are NOT mutually exclusive.

Thanks bro.. Ur advise x duly noted sir..

Retaliate against who?

Afonjashapmouth:
Bottom line wait till you are ready before investing in a lady, you are putting unnecessary things ahead of your career. mend up and be somebody, then many will flock after you.

any guy reading this post if at all u don't gain anything. but let the last 2 lines of this comment keep ringing in your head

Op, i feel for you sha.

You cried? Awwwww....I guess breakup is not easy on guys also.

I beg you biko don't retaliate o, don't come and make one innocent girl pay for another money-mongers mistake.

So here comes my advice: focus on your studies and fix your brokeness then when she come's back to you later, tell her that you only date virgins. Easy chizzy. Case closed.

no vex
but op
u a big fool

You want to know why she left you?

Well,she left because you do not have a mind of your own. She left because you were struggling to satisfy her.You cant please a woman by mere material things otherwise you'll appear as a weakling .Must you please a girl? What is so bad in saying no when you can't afford what she is demanding for. Why should you go and borrow just because you want to please a girl. Are you her Daddy ni? Have you adopted her ni?


Bro,you do not love her neither do you love yourself.

when money is involved in a relationship that's not dating anymore. money in relationship shouldn't be on demand like no money no dating, when it get to that stage back out.

only give when you know you need to. you will never regret or get heart break at the end of any dating.

Op u fall my hand aswear
y must u borrow money 4 a lady
she's still bearing her father's name
guy leave relationship 4 now.....don't let it hurt u
just hustle wella nd see different species running after u

firstking01:
Mehhhn, where's dingbang and papiikush....i'm sure they got the right words for this dude.

Bro, I am short of words.

[quote author=bayocute post=57261221][b]I and my ex gf jes cut ties yesterday evening. I caught her in a pre-intimacy act with anoda guy and i felt sad. I asked her what could have led to this and she gave me sum lame excuses. I satisfied my ex with everytin, bought her Tecno W4 with my handouts and foodstuffs money bcus she said she loves it and want it. Bought her so many tins so she won't luk outsyd. Of recent, she told me she needs to get sum books cost 7,000. I told er dat she knows abt my status. I'm not yet working, i'm still a student, she replied dat she undastand bt d book is more important. I had to borrow d money for her till now, i'm still paying debts. Now, if i'm rich and comfortable and i decided to retaliate, they wuld say men x cruel.. But i've decided to learn my lesson.. I've cried and cried. But d deeds as already bin done.. These is what brokeness have deprived me of.."Feelings, love, trust, respect nd affection". I wished i'd neva met her.. This is my oUr ex is wicked

[quote author=CaraJewel post=57266417][/quote] samething happen to you?

In Africa. love does not exist.
go get the money and be a god.
kapish

I wonder if I will even marry with the way our ladies r damaged these dayz

Boys no dey hear word, always take your brain along when in a relationship. Have it at the back of your mind that no matter how heavenly the relationship feels, there is always the possibility it won't end well so always be prepared.

And change your mindset, when you are rich not if you are rich. Enjoy your heartbreak bro, down 2 bottles of orijin; welcome to the club.

feel fr u bro...sometimes dz experience r best to teach us,i will advice u dnt change n bcom a hrt brker,bt b wiser n cautious wt ladies wu say dh lov.I can relate

why should I come and go and kill myself for a girl. I remembered some years back I deprived my brother of buying him a soccer boot all in the name of meeting the need of my then GF perhaps my younger bro might have been in England Under 13 by now , truth be told she never asked me but I felt I needed to do that since I am capable of doing at that point in time. But unfortunately she was busy flirting with online lovers as far as Benin Republic. At the end she openly told me to cut ties with her even to the extent of telling me "make boundary no join us", just because of a little misunderstanding which she was the underlying cause. She is a snake in a grass, not until I was trying to secure her FB password since she is fond of telling me about some guy called Tunji which I eventually tried on her FB and it logged me in.

I was shocked to see what her discussions looks like hardly could you get a female conversation, I was among her enormous lover. Although already we parted ways before I took advantage of securing her FB, even before breakup she was busy flirting with online lovers.

Bro if you have your way, get along with a very close person of hers (especially if she got a younger sister who seems matured in her doings, start the game from there. She will get the biggest regrets this worked for me, and till date she is tendering apologies, sometimes I feel like taking advantage but I have got conscience. It is not advisable to bed who you intend using to kill her emotions, to avoid stories that touch just play your cards well.

You will be the boss

bayocute:
I and my ex gf jes cut ties yesterday evening. I caught her in a pre-intimacy act with anoda guy and i felt sad. I asked her what could have led to this and she gave me sum lame excuses. I satisfied my ex with everytin, bought her Tecno W4 with my handouts and foodstuffs money bcus she said she loves it and want it. Bought her so many tins so she won't luk outsyd. Of recent, she told me she needs to get sum books cost 7,000. I told er dat she knows abt my status. I'm not yet working, i'm still a student, she replied dat she undastand bt d book is more important. I had to borrow d money for her till now, i'm still paying debts. Now, if i'm rich and comfortable and i decided to retaliate, they wuld say men x cruel.. But i've decided to learn my lesson.. I've cried and cried. But d deeds as already bin done.. These is what brokeness have deprived me of.."Feelings, love, trust, respect nd affection". I wished i'd neva met her.. This is my own predicatement..

don't feel bad ..that's the phase of life...thank God u have learnt ur lessons...just try and invest on urself first before anyother thing...and make sure ur investment on ur next date is worth it...that's the advice I will still give my brothers

please don't retaliate the evil been done to u on another...

sekxy:

don't feel bad ..that's the phase of life...thank God u have learnt ur lessons...just try and invest on urself first before anyother thing...and make sure ur investment on ur next date is worth it...that's the advice I will still give my brothers

please don't retaliate the evil been done to u on another...

you are very correct ma'am if we don't learn and we feel ourselves as wise people, biko who be the teacher wey mentor us

I hope your CGPA is around the region of first class or Strong 2:1, if not I go slap your ears come out from your vice.

And don't come back home asking p-man for pocket money again till you collect that one you gave your girlfriend....

On the hand, Take heart bro. ..And be wiser next time.

sekxy:

don't feel bad ..that's the phase of life...thank God u have learnt ur lessons...just try and invest on urself first before anyother thing...and make sure ur investment on ur next date is worth it...that's the advice I will still give my brothers

please don't retaliate the evil been done to u on another...

Thanks dear.. I reali do appreciate..

Fkforyou:
I hope your CGPA is around the region of first class or Strong 2:1, if not I go slap your ears come out from your vice.

And don't come back home asking p-man for pocket money again till you collect that one you gave your girlfriend....

On the hand, Take heart bro. ..And be wiser next time.

I was blindfolded with love bro. I had to do everything 4 her so she will feel contented.. Falling in Love can be so foolish at times.. Thanks 4 d advise.. I'll try work more on myself..