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What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 4:52pm On Jun 11, 2017
This may be long but please do read and drop your advice.

I met this girl last year in school.

It was a Saturday so i went into the school with some of my guys to exercise myself and also gym, around 9am we decided to stroll over to the next campus which was just a few meters away from the main camp. we were five guys in a Toyota Highlander Jeep.

when we arrived the 2nd campus, we noticed that some departments were writing quiz or test (in some institutions) and luckily Mass Comm dept was also there, whao! this dept always have the slay queens, so we went fo hunt and this was how i gat to know this bae called bekky (not real name tho).

she was reading for her quiz (test) when i approached her, i tot she will snub me at first but hell no she gave me all the attention i needed and after some time we exchanged our numbers and the parole began.

all i wanted from her was s*x and notin else. On tuesday that week she chatted me and told me she was seriously sick and i should come over to her side and keep her company, gosh! i was like, me? how come?, doesn't she have a boo?. i later went to her place, she was seriously sick like she claimed, i have these inborn caring spirit in me, i hate seeing people broken, sick or down before me. i requested we qo to the nearest pharmacy and get drugs but she declined the request saying she hates drugs that i should just find something i can do to make the place lively and she'll be OK. Ah! i be like shuuuuu, many people get their own cure for sickness o.

we discussed a while and LO she could stand and walk around, so we went to a bush bar near the school and we had some cool refreshments, i escorted her back to her lodge and then headed to mine, it was already night.

Things were just flowing normal until she asked a question which i answered out of lust not knowing she was dead serious abt it. the question was "Samuel, do you love me?", i delayed b4 saying yes and this was the greatest mistake i made.

i was only in for flirt and she was ready for a relationship, she left her present boo and introduced me to all her friends as her Boo. i was not aware of the intro. i guessed she used my pics. i only knew abt this when i visited her dept on one occasion.

To cut the whole story short.

i got what i wanted (S*X) in full dose and started playing reluctant in the so-called relationship, she was heart-broken when she noticed my plans. she has just been deceived by another guy.

Though i was very caring to her, i never loved her. she met all my specs in a woman but missed one (she wasn't tall).

I never meant to hurt her but i couldn't help, it's late. that "YES" i said sometimes back spoilt a whole lot. i should've just told her we can be friends with benefit.

My school is a polytechnic so currently am on ONE YEaR I.T and so is she. sometimes i try to call her and let her know i never meant to hurt her but she always scolds me.

why i asked the question above is because i just met this girl again last week. My niqa, the one that owned the Highlander Jeep we rode on then got a new Corolla and he is a friend to Bekky's closest friend. They have informed him that they re around the school and will like to come over, so he went and picked the both of them and came home.

I was shocked to the marrow seeing Bekky again, she smiled at me but never spoke a word, even when i try to drop funny questions she still wouldn't answer. My guy trying playing a rough play i.e stylishly hit her by the side when she stood up and she fell my side, i tried to hold her but she was quick to get off me.

i got bored and left the sitting room to another room, it was a 3-bedroom flat so i didnt go to my room, i entered the next. I sat there blogging and viewing funny NL comments when i heard my name from the sitting room, it was Bekky's friend calling me, they're abt to leave, i snubbed and continue what i was doing.

2 days later, Bekky called my friend and told him that he should tell me to call her. i was there wid my niqa there and was like ah! no b Bekky wey say she no wan see my face or hear my voice again??

i called her and she spoke very calm as if she was still inlove, i was surprised and then she told me he will be coming again this month ending and she'll like to see me. i said ok and cut the call.

Now, my question is
1. Is it that she wants us to continue were we stopped?? i think i'll take her serious now, cos she was so caring and OMG (cnt explain wid words)
2. Is she trying to do something funny, cos i can remember she threatened some times ago.

She and her friend are Slay Momma's; pretty, endowed, etc. why is she coming back to me after the drama she acted last week in my house?

Abeg, relationship experts make una helep me.
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by NairalandCS(m): 5:02pm On Jun 11, 2017
Too long.

Modified

After reading the epistle i only have one thing to say;


Op you be otondo and not the Nysc type.

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jun 11, 2017
Go read your books!

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by mrmrmister: 5:08pm On Jun 11, 2017
Your questions are hilarious.
Only someone who reads minds can answer them.

Just keep calm until she visits, you'll know whatever she wants by then.

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 5:08pm On Jun 11, 2017
Nma27:
Go read your books!

my course is practical, and am an xpert in dat field, going to school for the certificate only.

i do read books shaa, buh occasionally.
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 5:09pm On Jun 11, 2017
mrmrmister:
Your questions are hilarious.
Only someone who reads minds can answer them.

Just keep calm until she visits, you'll know whatever she wants by then.

Ok, thanks
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jun 11, 2017
finnestdope:


my course is practical, and am an xpert in dat field, going to school for the certificate only.

i do read books shaa, buh occasionally.
Then leave the "Not Tall" girl alone. Tell her u don't like her if she gives u green light... Finito
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 5:17pm On Jun 11, 2017
NairalandCS:
Too long.

Modified

After reading the epistle i only have one thing to say;


Op you be otondo and not the Nysc type.

idontgerrit
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 5:20pm On Jun 11, 2017
Nma27:
Then leave the "Not Tall" girl alone. Tell her u don't like her if she gives u green light... Finito

Ah Ah! my dear, we are not quarreling na, besides i said am ready to love her now and i mean it.

Just that the sudden decision was suspicious
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jun 11, 2017
finnestdope:


Ah Ah! my dear, we are not quarreling na, besides i said am ready to love her now and i mean it.

Just that the sudden decision was suspicious
With your suspicious behavior? U are ready? U wanna eat ur cake and still own it ryt? Well, she might still have d spark for u.

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 5:33pm On Jun 11, 2017
Nma27:
With your suspicious behavior? U are ready? U wanna eat ur cake and still own it ryt? Well, she might still have d spark for u.

abeg no vex for me like dat na, i don repent of my sins.

You come de answer my most preferred sister's name. Nma kiss cool
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jun 11, 2017
finnestdope:


abeg no vex for me like dat na, i don repent of my sins.

You come de answer my most preferred sister's name. Nma kiss cool
wareva...

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by APCsupporter: 5:40pm On Jun 11, 2017
it seems like a plan to hit back at you

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by RichieDaVinci01(m): 5:42pm On Jun 11, 2017
*makes phone call

Oga we've bought land here too..shey make start fandashun?

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by teehamzat(m): 5:47pm On Jun 11, 2017
Hahahahhaha, she'd hit you so hard ud never see it coming, payback's a bitch, same as karma lipsrsealed

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 5:47pm On Jun 11, 2017
APCsupporter:
it seems like a plan to hit back at you

exactly what am thinking
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 5:49pm On Jun 11, 2017
Nma27:
wareva...

even if we ain't friends, cnt we fake it

c'mon
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 5:50pm On Jun 11, 2017
teehamzat:
Hahahahhaha, she'd hit you so hard ud never see it coming, payback's a bitch, same as karma lipsrsealed

hmmmm embarassed embarassed undecided cry
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 5:50pm On Jun 11, 2017
RichieDaVinci01:
*makes phone call

Oga we've bought land here too..shey make start fandashun?
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by teehamzat(m): 5:53pm On Jun 11, 2017
finnestdope:


hmmmm embarassed embarassed undecided cry
I can only but tell u to be very patient, less expectant nd most of all distracted, am sure u do figure cheesy

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by Splinz(m): 5:58pm On Jun 11, 2017
Ahem! Op, mbok before the said meeting, do well by writing your Will.
Be rest assured that I'd be there to offer the necessary support.

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by Darksider131: 6:02pm On Jun 11, 2017
Dude..Bleep her again

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by subtlemee(f): 6:03pm On Jun 11, 2017
Hope you have first aid box for acid burns in your flat?

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 6:06pm On Jun 11, 2017
teehamzat:

I can only but tell u to be very patient, less expectant nd most of all distracted, am sure u do figure cheesy


grabbed cool
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 6:07pm On Jun 11, 2017
Splinz:
Ahem! Op, mbok before the said meeting, do well by writing your Will.

Be rest assured that I'd be there to offer the necessary support.


lol, abeg o, no put fear for my body
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 6:08pm On Jun 11, 2017
Darksider131:
Dude..Bleep her again

mehn, that one no be d koko now, i de fear girls oh

abi u no de see as dem de take burn their so-called ex's
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 6:08pm On Jun 11, 2017
subtlemee:
Hope you have first aid box for acid burns in your flat?

i get first aid, lol grin
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by Ginaz(f): 6:15pm On Jun 11, 2017
So after I read this long long thing think say na better thing but na girl na end am.

Chaii, my village people don finally catch me.

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 6:19pm On Jun 11, 2017
Ginaz:
So after I read this long long thing think say na better thing but na girl na end am.

Chaii, my village people don finally catch me.


lol, wetin u been de expect
Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by ikp120(m): 7:12pm On Jun 11, 2017
The vibes from your story dey make me understand that she go ask you about the future of the relationship and whether you love her.

She distanced herself from you to make you miss her. She can't get over you but she can feel say that your love for her don reach ceiling. So she wants to balance account with ya.

You dey feel the vibes bro?

Just follow the vibes. LMAO grin grin grin Jesus Christ! What did I just type?

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by fineboynl(m): 7:59pm On Jun 11, 2017
give her a gift. a good and precious gift to show you have repent. she will drop any wrong doing if there are any. but you will need a lot to reassure her again. but my fear is that you will do it again. I have pass through that before trust me. the later was even worst than previous

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Re: What Is She Trying To Do? by finnestdope(m): 8:00pm On Jun 11, 2017
ikp120:
The vibes from your story dey make me understand that she go ask you about the future of the relationship and whether you love her.

She distanced herself from you to make you miss her. She can't get over you but she can feel say that your love for her don reach ceiling. So she wants to balance account with ya.

You dey feel the vibes bro?

Just follow the vibes. LMAO grin grin grin Jesus Christ! What did I just type?

bruh na u really talk wetin i wan ear.. *shakes hand with you grin cheesy*

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