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Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by livinbygrace: 4:21pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
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Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
madridguy:If spare us this Cliché Jare.... A struggling guy who cant take care of himself properly has no business marrying. 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by mcgaius: 4:24pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Unfortunately most of the girls I met before I got married were make up artists including Oloshos but thank God I figured them out,.This post should be vise versa 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by otokx(m): 4:24pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Many Nigerians lie What does your next door neighbor do? Some will say they are university students but never go to the classroom except on examination days; some girls don't even go on examination days, sex and money makes a way especially for non practical/laboratory courses. Some will tell you they work 2 weeks of and 2 weeks in Bonny but that is a smokescreen. Others will say they are in to entertainment business always hosting one pageant or the other but there is more. The landlords do not care as long as the rent is paid on time until what happened to the Jumia guy in Port Harcourt repeats itself in Abeokuta, Sokoto, Nnewi, Badagry, Uyo, Asaba, Jalingo, Makurdi, Ibadan, etc. 5 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by madridguy(m): 4:25pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
funny you. But you will be glad to say yes to a banker who is selling customers banking information to street boys to steal their money? Or custom officer who specialize in clearing fake goods? SFU awaiting you. Nma27: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by livinbygrace: 4:25pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
With the present economic situation in the Country,most Nigerian girls dont care about your occupation.Most of them are after what a man can offer.So occupation is meaningless these days.No money is clean,make the money and deviate into business or politics.Most of the Billionaires today have been involved in one or two shady deals ,but the smart ones diverted into business or politics ,which the Evans could have done if not for his greediness. 5 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by ibkayee(f): 4:25pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
How do you not know your spouse's profession? That's even a first date question, not necessarily how much he earns (I'd want to know when we're married at the very least and I'd do the same) but just knowing what he does, thought it was standard. Different strokes for different folks sha 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Jabioro: 4:30pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
The OP has done some Justice, with a balance check to follow.. Here is ours ladies all they wanted is money .. |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Ontarget:Read the comment you just quote, and read this your comment to me. Now, come back and tell me how they correlate. |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by repogirl(f): 4:31pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Benita27:A guy with nothing to hide will be open About his occupation from the first day... And even explain it in detail sef. Only insecure/ jobless and paranoid ones will be shady about what they do 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by nobleblood: 4:35pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Every man wants to boast of a pretty wife. And every woman wants to boast of a rich and successful man. Somewhere in between is a bridge of sought. Were wisdom dwells and men possess sixth sense. Society lends a helping hand to this by projecting the right balance unto the individuals. The world generally is experiencing a paradigm shift of sought. Beauty and wealth is being projected over wisdom and virtues. It is not the faulty of the individuals I will dare say. We all actors being directed. Someone must be paying this pipers to play this tune so we all should dance this way. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by AjaniDWickedBoy(m): 4:37pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: I been dey wait your comment since |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
repogirl:Absolutely. I don't know why some of the dudes on this forum tend to assume everything is about gold digging. Who dates a man without knowing what they do for a living?. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Lionessza:The smart ones are still here with us. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
madridguy:Don't get me wrong o but I feel it won't b easy for a "struggling" to make it easy if married without a lil foundation. The guy must not be wealthy before settling but needs to b OK atleast. What's SFU |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by robosky02(m): 4:40pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by livinbygrace: 4:42pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Benita27: How old are you ? |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Benita27:You said if a guy didn't disclose his occupation to you then you walk away instantly. Isn't it? Then my position was that you have enough time ahead of you before getting married to make you discard someone so quick simply because he didn't disclose his occupation when you asked the first time. In order words, a serious lady ready to get married can't just walk away as easy as that for that reason. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
livinbygrace:Old enough to know what I want. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by repogirl(f): 4:45pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Benita27:Men are usually very proud of what they do and eager to impress ladies. So it's odd when they dont talk about it. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Crixina(f): 4:45pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
rawpadgin:most, will tell you, and make sure their story checks out, but it might not still be the real story, so it isn't just enough to ask imagine a guy that works in a bank, but still organizes robbery ops in his bank, where he gets his cuts. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by kyaagbanairaland(m): 4:45pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
An awesome write-up but ladies of nowadays are only after money even the modern day wife too. |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Ontarget:There's clearly a misconception here. I said if a guy is into illegitimate means of survival and he tells me I would walk away, and if he tells me what he does which is legitimate I would still have to be sure it's true. Go back to the comment you mentioned and compare with that of the person I replied. |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
In Nigeria, what you drive, the house you live in defines your wealth and prosperity not what you do. This is a social problem that has spoilt the minds of the youths. A reason why corruption and crime won't go easily. When we start respecting and appreciating hard work, a lot will change in the country. It's only a decision and a choice. Ladies are pressured to get married, the ladies see a wealthy man as an escape from poverty and the cycle continues. It's not about wife now, about children that are grown too. Do you know what your father does for a living? 9 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
repogirl:Anyone who doesn't talk about what he does obviously means there's something wrong. Could be into what Evans was caught up in or more. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
When anyone says Business man, he is trying to cover up. A honest person would say tell you exactly what business he is doing: haulage, transporter, trading, affiliate marketing etc. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Kuzee23: 4:54pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
The problem is our girls, ladies, women, re after the money, gucci & banana .. don;t care of you re a kidnapper , ritualist , yahoo yahoo , 419 , armed robber.. they just want you to spend the money.. You can imagine most girls want to date only guys who can spend on them every second.. The real good guys that do legit jobs can't spend their hard earned money like a yahoo boy... so these girls call that type of guy stingy boy friend.. or he is just broke.. One thing we don't understand is this... what goes around, comes right back around.. if you fall into the class of guys that spend your ill gotten money on women and eventually marry her.. trust me you will be served soon.. It will be painful sha.. For my surulere Gs trust me i see light at the end of the Tunnel.. Just stay busy and don't give up.. I know many have lost good girls to yahoo plus boys.. no think am at all.. move on bro... you will meet a girl who will support you big time to achieve your dreams... As u see me so.. i no dey impress any girl at all. I am rich and i wont even let you know i got millions in investment... no cash... so no even thing of kidnapping me.. I am a Pastor.. 6 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Benita27: u can't marry a yahoo nigga? very surprising to hear dat wen all Naija ladies r dying to ve dem. |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by livinbygrace: 4:56pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Benita27: Ok oo,Its well with you. |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by lepasharon(f): 4:57pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Ontarget: Neither should a guy feel uncomfortable about disclosing his profession WTF Unless he has no job or is insecure about it. Asking someone what they do is an everyday discussion/ small talk, questions on getting to know someone. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by hedonistic: 4:58pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
This is a very ignorant and stupid statement. Those of you slaves who live your lives under the yoke of servitude and convention believe that everyone must have what you describe as a "job". It's just idiotic. If he doesn't go to one office or the other and answer "sir" to one nincompoop for a pittance of a salary, then he must be jobless or shady? The first line of the original post rendered everything else meaningless. I didn't bother to read past that. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Know What Your Husband Does For A Living? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
iweecureyou: Evans d 2nd spotted |
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