Amarabae:
That is IGBO Culture, it is a sign of respect.
If you cohabit with a lady and both of you will have kids without the man paying her brideprice and marrying her officially in the traditional way.
If the lady dies, before she is buried, the husband will go to her place and pay her dowry and brideprice.

iLiquidator:
Bros u r funny.


Are you denying your Identity?

Emmenyk:


Not at all, our heads are actually big not flat

Psoul:


Pls can you for at least once talk like someone that has a developed brain. Don't just talk because words are flowing in and out of your mouth. Before you tal reason beyond your scope and kw that others will analyze/diagnose you through what u say or write.

It is a foolish question to ask if God asked anyone to marry the dead. It is also foolishness to expect to see every offense and their punishments written in the Bible or Quran.
Even in your family, do u write out all the offenses and their equivalent punishments to ur family members. Sometimes your child will commit something and u chose to punish him/her by denying him/her a meal. Tell me where approved such punishment. Still the punishment is acceptable as a corrective measure.

Bros, we have culture and most of them are used to checkmate activities of people. So if your cultures allows all thing, our do not.

iLiquidator:
is your head the size of olumo rock

Emmenyk:


Maybe but not cone shaped

eflintsone:
u see wah i have been saying "good sense is not scarce, find one " so paying her dowry is a means of punishment ryt ?? so the man is the cause of the death of the woman he wants to marry ?? gosh so after all this ur long talks i still find u low in I.Q , u igbos are daft at this attitude , had it been this news came frm kenya ,yoruba land or hausa land u guys will the d first to lay curses but the moment it comes from ur region u find daft means of justifying shits.... real sense no scarce , find one

Psoul:


How i wish u really understand what I.Q. is. If u do, you will see that u have a very pathetic level of it. Ur hatred for Igbos is engulfing u and it may destroy u if u do not retreat.
Can u go back and read this ur respond again. Assume to be neutral in this case. After reading it, grade urself and ur level of reasoning.

Ppl's tradition says that before you takes a girl to ur house as a wife there are certain rites u MUST perform and u chose to "steal" the girl. On the process, the girl dies while living in ur house and you expect the family to be happy wt you.
If this ur reasoning is what you termed high I.Q. your brain must have been tampered.
I kw everything goes in ur tradition, ours is not like dat. There is sacredness in many things in our tradition.

eflintsone:
the family will not be happy for sure so as the man who lost his woman to be but i think the man should be made to foot the bills of the funeral , how does it sounds when u hear the living married the dead ?? does it sound holy to u ?? use ur head na .. the igbo in u wont let u think straight sadly ..shitty ,evil, wicked culture

eflintsone:
the family will not be happy for sure so as the man who lost his woman to be but i think the man should be made to foot the bills of the funeral , how does it sounds when u hear the living married the dead ?? does it sound holy to u ?? use ur head na .. the igbo in u wont let u think straight sadly ..shitty ,evil, wicked culture

1234IKECHhukwu:
but don't remove the fact that sex is very sweet or why do u think people cohabit without waiting to formalize their union in a proper way.

Psoul:


I can see that you are enjoying the free tutorial I am giving to you. Well u may not go beyond this ur present level if you habour such hatred to Igbos, the best tribe so far, the tribe after God's heart. The unstoppable tribe. The tribe that God has given the authority to dominate the whole world.

Well, back to our topic. Marrying the dead is what we call punishment. It is a deterrent. It discourages other from following the same path.

A man burying his dead wife is not a punishment. So asking the man to just go and bury the girl is not punishing him cos every man has the obligation of burying his wife. Asking the man to bury the "wife" just like dat is lack of respect to the life that was lost. His punishment is to marry her dead body. We are Igbos, we have tradition. As u rightly said, the Igbo in me will not allow me to think straight. Igbos do not think straight. We consider so many thing before arriving to our decision point unlike you people that think straight.

In our tradition, a child born out of wedlock has no serious inheritance in that house. That is why we discourage the above kind of marriage.

Psoul:


I can see that you are enjoying the free tutorial I am giving to you. Well u may not go beyond this ur present level if you habour such hatred to Igbos, the best tribe so far, the tribe after God's heart. The unstoppable tribe. The tribe that God has given the authority to dominate the whole world.

Well, back to our topic. Marrying the dead is what we call punishment. It is a deterrent. It discourages other from following the same path.

A man burying his dead wife is not a punishment. So asking the man to just go and bury the girl is not punishing him cos every man has the obligation of burying his wife. Asking the man to bury the "wife" just like dat is lack of respect to the life that was lost. His punishment is to marry her dead body. We are Igbos, we have tradition. As u rightly said, the Igbo in me will not allow me to think straight. Igbos do not think straight. We consider so many thing before arriving to our decision point unlike you people that think straight.

In our tradition, a child born out of wedlock has no serious inheritance in that house. That is why we discourage the above kind of marriage.

efavour:
who sent the boyfriend message. My friend, "just don't live with someone's daughter with their permission simple"

Decryptor:


YES! Proudly IGBO JEWS!!

That is the reason why our women with children are legally married to the man who impregnates them and this kind of penance serves as a deterrent to those who only want to cohabit. Unlike your smelly "green-slimy soup" eating women from your wastelands that will give birth to 1 bomboy for one agbero in oshodi, another one for a cultist in mushin, another for a skull miner in Ogun and then will chose to settle with being f*cked under the pedestrian bridges of lagos by touts after selling Agbo and kpomo.

Franchise21:
You're very silly

QueenOfNepal:
You are so slow with your thought process that you can't decipher a literal word

Blackfire:




Eru.
Don't let us wash your dirty clothes outside.
Is your mother in her afternoon husband or evening husband house...

Ofemmanu1:

Your fada is very silly.

Franchise21:
Ur ancestors are very silly

Ofemmanu1:

Your ancestors are most silly

Franchise21:
E pain am... Ofemmanu1

Ofemmanu1:

Hehehe..

E pain am.

I go teach you lesson.

Franchise21:
Taah!!! Gbafuo

Ofemmanu1:

Taah! Gbafuo aru eme.

free2ryhme:
This is what u get in this part of the world when u cohabit with a woman u didnot pay her dowry to her kindred.

Forget civilisation I am not from the east but you must respect other people's culture.

No family will accept such disrespect from anyone.

A lesson for those men who think they can drink stolen water and run away

laudate:


Forget the family. What about the silly girl who accepted to cohabit with the guy? Did he hold a gun to her head? What was her family doing when she moved in with the chap, and was dashing the guy free booty? These families will keep quiet and be watching, when their kids are doing rubbish, but then when the girl dies they then start pretending to be righteous and demanding that the guy should marry her corpse. Nonsense!

free2ryhme:
it is not a ground for not doing the right thing

pray make e no happen to you, you go know say na story you dey type for here

Brownbarbie97:

F*uck you.and Learn to respect people's culture