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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by jakandeola(m): 3:01pm On Jun 20, 2017
Amarabae:
we don't need your type and we are not losing sleep over it.
Face your women.
is ur women ibo dat run afta us I put am a young boss in rums ibo girls start to pm me. most gals like yoruba cos we treat a woman as a queen
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Dayor100(m): 3:06pm On Jun 20, 2017
Brownbarbie97:
That's Good.Its our culture.
Bleep the useless culture
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Amarabae(f): 3:06pm On Jun 20, 2017
jakandeola:
it is ibo women ibo dat run afta us I put am a young boss in rums ibo girls start to pm me. most gals like yoruba cos we treat a woman as a queen
lolz, how many times will you guys keep repeating this propaganda Lie?
Ok. Oya go and marry, let me come to the owambe party. Lwkmd

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by jakandeola(m): 3:10pm On Jun 20, 2017
Amarabae:
lolz, how many times will you guys keep repeating this propaganda Lie?
Ok. Oya go and marry, let me come to the owambe party. Lwkmd
hahaha is tru I will invite u wen I marry but am I not a sweet guy most yoruba are. u live in our state we marry u in peace. is not a lie
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jun 20, 2017
NubiLove:
what of if he married her legally, does this stuff still apply?

my dear, no woman is married if her pride price hasn't been paid. if you like go to court. they families of both parties will never recognise them as couples. that's why before you do white wedding, you will answer some question in the firm they will give you and part if the wife's question is, have you been wedded traditionally? they are asking if your pride price has been paid.
is always worst when the man dies, his family will throw the lady out because they don't know you and they didn't carry wine to your place to SK for your hand in married. that is why the main wedding is traditional wedding. others are just to spice and bless it.

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by iLiquidator: 3:15pm On Jun 20, 2017
Emmenyk:

Nut waste you mean?
North West !!!



Igbo keep off my mention. I know it is your brother that is under scrutiny.
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by viexcey(f): 3:16pm On Jun 20, 2017
happney65:


My dear,You are just running away from the truth..We all know bride price is extremely high in the south east..We do not need to run away from that which is the truth..
please, get your facts right

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Emmenyk(m): 3:27pm On Jun 20, 2017
grin grin grin if you get to know the name of my village you'll never call me Igbo again in your life
iLiquidator:
North West !!!




Igbo keep off my mention. I know it is your brother that is under scrutiny.


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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by mechanics(m): 3:33pm On Jun 20, 2017
That's the fact, he's not serious at all, he thought maybe time was still on his side, whereas time was flying, now the deed has been done, he has no option than to marry the corpse, this same scenario happened some time ago during one phone in program in Abuja, guys just have to be careful, see the shame he has brought upon his family members, now it will it be a history that he married a corpse.

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Blackfire(m): 3:42pm On Jun 20, 2017
adadike281:
Dalu dear


Space odikwa for me...ndi ne sogi dikwa Ka disciples.
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Blackfire(m): 3:50pm On Jun 20, 2017
motivator4:


my dear, no woman is married if her pride price hasn't been paid. if you like go to court. they families of both parties will never recognise them as couples. that's why before you do white wedding, you will answer some question in the firm they will give you and part if the wife's question is, have you been wedded traditionally? they are asking if your pride price has been paid.
is always worst when the man dies, his family will throw the lady out because they don't know you and they didn't carry wine to your place to SK for your hand in married. that is why the main wedding is traditional wedding. others are just to spice and bless it.



Don't mind some of them... Too much pornography is confusing them.
To marry an igbo lady or live with one is more than sex..

Guy go and see there family for bride price and idoyen nmayan.


Life is more than sex.

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by judgedredd22(m): 4:04pm On Jun 20, 2017
adadike281:
if u want an Igbo woman as a wife, pls kindly go and pay her bride price, and if u don't have money, go and deposit ' drink' on her head.In igboland, we call it 'idoyen nmanya', its acceptable. otherwise, if anything befalls d woman, my brother u are on your own.

ada in full effect! grin grin grin grin

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Diademk07: 4:09pm On Jun 20, 2017
Decryptor:


YES! Proudly IGBO JEWS!!

That is the reason why our women with children are legally married to the man who impregnates them and this kind of penance serves as a deterrent to those who only want to cohabit. Unlike your smelly "green-slimy soup" eating women from your wastelands that will give birth to 1 bomboy for one agbero in oshodi, another one for a cultist in mushin, another for a skull miner in Ogun and then will chose to settle with being f*cked under the pedestrian bridges of lagos by touts after selling Agbo and kpomo. cheesy cheesy

Flavour's baby mama are what? Ibo dogs?

You people could be so funny eh.. The things you chest beat about are just foolishness! Is your woman a child to not know the things she want for herself or what?

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by nonut: 4:11pm On Jun 20, 2017
Oyindidi:
Not good, I'm not in support
Not in support of something that gives respect to women?
To pay dowry in the East doesn't cost much, depending on the area.
If that guy paid 10 - 50k for dowry, this wouldn't have happened. This tradition respects women and prevents cohabitation.
In some places, the family won't even take up to that much.
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by adadike281(f): 4:16pm On Jun 20, 2017
Blackfire:



Space odikwa for me...ndi ne sogi dikwa Ka disciples.
Lmao. all u need is to knock
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Diademk07: 4:18pm On Jun 20, 2017
Dancos:
And if the man had died who do you hold responsibe?. Just leave the man alone afterall if the economy was good the man would have done the needful. He did not put the woman in chains for all those years they were together. Give the man some money to take goodcare of his children. Stop compounding problem for an aggrieved man.

You dey mind dem?

If he had such money to begin with, he would have payed. The funny thing is the man is culping the whole blame but their adult daughter who went to leave with the said man is innocent, right? When it's not like the daughter is a kid..
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Blackfire(m): 4:19pm On Jun 20, 2017
adadike281:
Lmao. all u need is to knock



Kedu uzo ? Nne yemu direction.



Ko ko ko. Adadike onokwa here

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by steppins: 4:21pm On Jun 20, 2017
happney65:


Maybe your place sha and that is a small fraction..About over 90 Percent of tribes in the southeast pay so much on top say them wan marry..

And No,The Guy isnt Igbo..He is Yoruba
90 percent indeed. The real expenses in Igbo marriage are mostly during the main traditional wedding.
You can pay the dowry(it's cheap) and do the traditional marriage later.

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Fourwinds: 4:23pm On Jun 20, 2017
foolish man
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by steppins: 4:23pm On Jun 20, 2017
Diademk07:


You dey mind dem?

If he had such money to begin with, he would have payed. The funny thing is the man is culping the whole blame but their adult daughter who went to leave with the said man is innocent, right? When it's not like the daughter is a kid..
Well...she's no longer alive to say so.
A simple 10k would have stopped him from this crap he's passing through.

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by iLiquidator: 4:28pm On Jun 20, 2017
Emmenyk:
grin grin grin if you get to know the name of my village you'll never call me Igbo again in your life
Bros u r funny. gringringrin


Are you denying your Identity?
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by happney65: 4:33pm On Jun 20, 2017
steppins:

90 percent indeed. The real expenses in Igbo marriage are mostly during the main traditional wedding.
You can pay the dowry(it's cheap) and do the traditional marriage later.

Paid the dowry and that was like 500K..This is a fact and it happened in Ebonyi state..Thank you
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Rhodiumic(m): 4:33pm On Jun 20, 2017
uaassai42:
abeg shift lemme faint..
why you dey find space to faint, my brother faint as you are. Kindly check my signature
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Diademk07: 4:35pm On Jun 20, 2017
steppins:

Well...she's no longer alive to say so.
A simple 10k would have stopped him from this crap he's passing through.

A simple 10k would suffice? Like I don't know the Ibos? Abegi..

And it's important to know the said woman is an adult, not a kid and it's her decision she chose to live that way, it's no one's business. Were her family blind all this while she was cohabiting with the said man? Why now that she's dead that the greedy folks realised he didn't pay her bride price? Abegi.
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Goalnaldo(m): 4:43pm On Jun 20, 2017
all those condeming the man,what if the woman forced herself on the man.it can happen like that oh
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by GameGod(m): 4:47pm On Jun 20, 2017
Amarabae:
That is IGBO Culture, it is a sign of respect.
If you cohabit with a lady and both of you will have kids without the man paying her brideprice and marrying her officially in the traditional way.
If the lady dies, before she is buried, the husband will go to her place and pay her dowry and brideprice.
Benita27:
It's same culture in South-South. If a lady you're cohabiting with dies during child birth you'll have to marry her corpse before she's buried.

I think the lady's family was angry at the guy 'cause usually the bride price of a dead person means nothing. Money won't bring her to life so why demand for 5m?, even 800k is too much. In my place they collect less but you'll do the burial rites. The message in it is don't cohabit so you won't be married to a dead woman.
And u guys have the guts to call North backward. What sort of animalistic behaviour is this? Marrying the dead? That's disgusting really.
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by steppins: 4:48pm On Jun 20, 2017
Diademk07:


A simple 10k would suffice? Like I don't know the Ibos? Abegi..

And it's important to know the said woman is an adult, not a kid and it's her decision she chose to live that way, it's no one's business. Were her family blind all this while she was cohabiting with the said man? Why now that she's dead that the greedy folks realised he didn't pay her bride price? Abegi.
You know the "ibos"? How many are you married to?
Stop trash about what you don't know. My neighbour just did his traditional wedding after living with the wife for close to 7yrs now.
He went and paid the dowry from the onset and when the family asked to him to come for traditional wedding, he told them he would do that later.
Took him 7yrs before he did it. If the wife died during the 7yrs, he would have just paid for the trad wedding he was supposed to do and no one will accuse him of anything.
Don't talk about what you don't know.
happney65:


Paid the dowry and that was like 500K..This is a fact and it happened in Ebonyi state..Thank you
Yeah, right. Keep telling yourself that crap.
No dowry is up that amount. The traditional marriage requirements on the other hand may get up to that, depending on your bargaining power, the family and how much you're willing to spend.

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Goalnaldo(m): 4:51pm On Jun 20, 2017
Diademk07:


A simple 10k would suffice? Like I don't know the Ibos? Abegi..

And it's important to know the said woman is an adult, not a kid and it's her decision she chose to live that way, it's no one's business. Were her family blind all this while she was cohabiting with the said man? Why now that she's dead that the greedy folks realised he didn't pay her bride price? Abegi.
maybe they were waitin for the day their daughter will die,to use it as an opportunity to get rich

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Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Diademk07: 5:00pm On Jun 20, 2017
steppins:

You know the "ibos"? How many are you married to?
Stop trash about what you don't know. My neighbour just did his traditional wedding after living with the wife for close to 7yrs now.
He went and paid the dowry from the onset and when the family asked to him to come for traditional wedding, he told them he would do that later.
Took him 7yrs before he did it. If the wife died during the 7yrs, he would have just paid for the trad wedding he was supposed to do and no one will accuse him of anything.
Don't talk about what you don't know.
Yeah, right. Keep telling yourself that crap.
No dowry is up that amount. The traditional marriage requirements on the other hand may get up to that, depending on your bargaining power, the family and how much you're willing to spend.

Lmao. If you must know, we have an Ibo tenant in our compound and the wife has often told us about how her husband struggled to pay the enormous bride price requested by her folks. It's probably the reason why he thinks he can beat without repercussion because he already bought her from her folks.

You haven't answered my question though. Where were her folks all this while she was cohabiting with the said man? And how is it the man's fault if an adult chose to cohabit with him? These are all common sense.
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by happney65: 5:00pm On Jun 20, 2017
steppins:

You know the "ibos"? How many are you married to?
Stop trash about what you don't know. My neighbour just did his traditional wedding after living with the wife for close to 7yrs now.
He went and paid the dowry from the onset and when the family asked to him to come for traditional wedding, he told them he would do that later.
Took him 7yrs before he did it. If the wife died during the 7yrs, he would have just paid for the trad wedding he was supposed to do and no one will accuse him of anything.
Don't talk about what you don't know.
Yeah, right. Keep telling yourself that crap.
No dowry is up that amount. The traditional marriage requirements on the other hand may get up to that, depending on your bargaining power, the family and how much you're willing to spend.

Lol..Keep on running away from the truth..if the dowry is not up to that,so why is other requirements up to that?Paying 500K and bargaining in your words..What the fuckkkkk are you bargaining?Fowl or Ram?Issshhhhh...No wonder ladies from the south-east account for the highest number of single ladies in Nigeria..

This is what causes it
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Diademk07: 5:04pm On Jun 20, 2017
Goalnaldo:
maybe they were waitin for the day their daughter will die,to use it as an opportunity to get rich

LOL!

You could be right though because some people only care about their greedy selfish heart. What happens to empathy? The said man is still grieving for crying out loud.
Re: Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife by Oyindidi(f): 5:10pm On Jun 20, 2017
nonut:

Not in support of something that gives respect to women?
To pay dowry in the East doesn't cost much, depending on the area.
If that guy paid 10 - 50k for dowry, this wouldn't have happened. This tradition respects women and prevents cohabitation.
In some places, the family won't even take up to that much.
where u see that one?

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