3. Betrayals and Saboteur

When words came to the rest of our enemies that I had rebuild the walls and not a gap was left, then they sent a message that we meet together in a neutral place for talks... (Nehemiah 6:1)

There are people you never will come across in life until you begin to succeed, not that they haven't been around or known you. All the while you were struggling they have always seen you but never approach you till your story changes... be watchful of such people in your marriage and relationships.

Most of them are the real battles you have been undergoing all the while, so they are appearing because you have up until that moment conquered them, so they have to change the method from hidden to direct approach.

For MEN:

You suddenly notice a friend calling you to join them for a drink at a joint and at night (even though they know you are married), most would ask you to come over to some hotel bar for a chat and at night.

When this starts to go on, please do not be deceived into believing "it's normal" I tell you the truth is a matter of time before your family become a second choice to you and all your effort all this while in building a meaning home will just vanish... it's the enemy at work, this isn't some modern world crap, spear yourself that nonsense.

For WOMEN:

You notice at certain point in your married life, friends start making you and not you making them. The worst of it all, if you observe you get to know that they often are specialist at marriage counselling even though most are still single women. This types tear homes apart especially homes that carry GLORY. If you don't realize you are in a war you will loose woefully.

The reason most people are not able to dictate who their real marital enemies are is because when they come out everyday, they look out for the guy with two horns, ugly and very black, so when they don't see any one like that, they just assumes everybody onward is a friend.

Too BAD, the world has advanced and so does your adversaries, they are more like you, simple people on the look, even more good looking than you.

The bible says "by their fruit we shall know them" that is to tell you that your enemies look more like you physically, so in other to dictate them it will be by their ways.

If you don't pick them out, they will destroy the dreams you and your partner has just began to lay the foundation. Their sole purpose is to terminate your dreams and when they are done, off they go.

You know the popular saying that says "When there is money, friends come and when trouble comes, off they go" ?

Be watchful your Marriage means a lot to God who instituted it.

Series To Be Cont'd...

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