i just went home to pick something from my house now!
i met my little sister and her friend (girl) touching each other,and before now most time when am dressing she stays and be looking at me,she notice any change on my skin but i have never thought of it for one day that she is ,
she came to stay for a while,should i send her back and tell our parents? please i dont know how to handle this.i need help.

sweetmum:

i just went home to pick something from my house now!
i met my little sister and her friend (girl) touching each other,and before now most time when am dressing she stays and be looking at me,she notice any change on my skin but i have never thought of it for one day that she is ,
she came to stay for a while,should i send her back and tell our parents? please i dont know how to handle this.i need help.

sad children of nowadays, i guess the best line of action would be to have a heart-2-heart with her first to ascertain her orientation, if she is just experimenting, then that can be helped but if she is fully into women then its prayer time

She needs serious counseling.First talk to to know what she is up to which she may deny but still ask her.Dont involve your parents in ds cos they will be disappointed and short of words.

Send her to me ,she needs serious counseling and spanking .

womam to woman na lesbianism.

I think kenny g's idea is d way forward.

how old is this sister of yours? and didn't you experiment when you were young? and so what if she likes girls?

The idea is that girls mature before boys in so many ways which leads to them experimenting before they catchup with boys and some girls just never do

omega25red:

how old is this sister of yours? and didn't you experiment when you were young? and so what if she likes girls?

The idea is that girls mature before boys in so many ways which leads to them experimenting before they catchup with boys and some girls just never do

she 18 and she is my half sister.i did not experiement with girls

@poster
at 18yrs old, i think that she is old enough to do what she pleases with her body/life as long as she is not doing anything criminal.
whether it be experimenting, bisexual or lesbian is not the problem, the problem is that she should be careful of locking the doors next time she wants to get busy with her girlfriends.

lol not every woman will experiment with girls!!

how ever when theres lack of men. . . . . . need i say more

if u caught her self servicing will u send her home??lolz

ask her if shes gay, or better still ask her if she likes men

if she says yes, you have nothing to worry abt

sweetmum:

i just went home to pick something from my house now!
i met my little sister and her friend (girl) touching each other,and before now most time when am dressing she stays and be looking at me,she notice any change on my skin but i have never thought of it for one day that she is ,
she came to stay for a while,should i send her back and tell our parents? please i dont know how to handle this.i need help.

Eurghhhh, shouldn't you be more worried of your incestuous half-sister ogling your naked body than her lesbian tendencies towards another girl Oh boy, what a calamity

Why would you need help with dealing with the issue? It does not directly affect you.
It is her sexual and relationship preference.
and she is 18 not 12

rokiatu:

Why would you need help with dealing with the issue? It does not directly affect you.
It is her sexual and relationship preference.
and she is 18 not 12

your idea is wrong coz she will end up bn a lesbian.

nikkykay:

She needs serious counseling.First talk to to know what she is up to which she may deny but still ask her.Dont involve your parents in ds cos they will be disappointed and short of words.

nice suggestion.

try and find out if she is a lesbian, if she is take her for counseling. gay is demonic and if i happens to be a president of nation i will put it as capital punishment

rokiatu:

Why would you need help with dealing with the issue? It does not directly affect you.
It is her sexual and relationship preference.
and she is 18 not 12

maybe her family is against lesbianism

firedancer:

guess she is old enough to decide wat she wants for herself but being her elder sister you should prolly have a talk with her and see if you can change her sexuality

so are you saying that a person can change their sexuality by just a quick chat? so anyone could talk to you and you could turn gay/lesbian?! woah thats a new low!

R.Biafra:

try and find out if she is a lesbian, if she is take her for counseling. gay is demonic and if i happens to be a president of nation i will put it as capital punishment

this is the reason why people with views like yours can never be elected. its called homophobia. whats next?! kill all the muslims/christians/jews because they are not the way you like them to be?! kill all the poor/sick/handicapped people because you dont like them?!
grow up.
i hope none of your family memebers turn out gay/lesbian

Leave am!! No b naija we dey? She go tire

sorry BrwonJay but Homosexuality is a demonic though doesn't mean we should hate them, it's an attack on the spirit.call it what u what expression of oneself or being born that way, at the end of the day it's demonic and unGodly that's all to it.

Daling i heard all u said,but my advise 2 u is dat ur sis is 18yrs and she is matured so hv a tight conversation wit her first,then observe her,i believe she will she change.After dat,if she doest,u can involve any of ur matured family member who she respect and love.

pc guru:

sorry BrwonJay but Homosexuality is a demonic though doesn't mean we should hate them, it's an attack on the spirit.call it what u what expression of oneself or being born that way, at the end of the day it's demonic and unGodly that's all to it.

"LET HE WHO HAS NO SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE"

as you guys are "supposedly" god fearing christians, i am amazed how this other guy is quick to want to kill all gays and lesbians and who knows what/who else he is against?! [b]and yet [/b]you dont say anything about this would-be sinner?!

is there sins bigger than others in your bible? are some sins punishable and others acceptable in your bible.
we are all sinners and therefore no better than the "supposedly" gay/homosexuals or the simple liar.

there is nothing wrong with having difference of opinion/life but then you should pray for the salvation of the homosexuals the same as you would pray for any other person in sin (is it not what your bible teaches you?!).

homosexuals are still made in the image of God even though they are "supposedly" sinner. . . . . ,   therefore, you should show them the same dignity and respect as any other human being. nobody is asking you to approve of their lifestyle(or "supposedly" sin).

Don't compromise your christianity by doing exactly what your bible doesnt want you to do. becoming a sinner to help a "supposedly" other sinner.

Just because someone is a homosexual does not mean that you cannot love him (or her) or pray for him (or her).

sweetmum:

i just went home to pick something from my house now!
i met my little sister and her friend (girl) touching each other,and before now most time when am dressing she stays and be looking at me,she notice any change on my skin but i have never thought of it for one day that she is ,
she came to stay for a while,should i send her back and tell our parents? please i dont know how to handle this.i need help.

what utter bullshit - so if your sister was gay she would be attracted to her sibling - a woman on the wrong side of thirty, proably with loose fleesh in all the wrong places ?

are you living in a face me i face you one room apartment - since 'most time when am dressing she stays and be looking at me'

sharp sharp the girl become half sister when people drop queries

frickin attention seeker

@ Poster. . . . kini big deal if she likes women. . . .pls give your sista a big hug for me!!

like i said condemn the Act not the Person, brownJay so don't put me in the category of Gay -Bashing cuz i don't it's their life they can do whatever they want with it.but still it's not appropriate also as for the "Godly pple like me" i wish i was,

sweetmum:

i just went home to pick something from my house now!
i met my little sister and her friend (girl) touching each other,and before now most time when am dressing she stays and be looking at me,she notice any change on my skin but i have never thought of it for one day that she is ,
she came to stay for a while,should i send her back and tell our parents? please i dont know how to handle this.i need help.

why don't you discuss this with her and see her reaction before making a conclusion in your heart.
Then you can now counsel her and show her the danger of same sex acts

sista-jay:

@ Poster. . . . kini big deal if she likes women. . . .pls give your sista a big hug for me!!

and for you, There is a very big deal.

Lets face the fact, man's free will power is what is killing him. let be plain here and lets us not self deceit ourselves. fornication is wrong in the sight of God, but somehow a relationship between a girl and a boy is acceptable in the society. i.e you can tell your friends this is my boyfriend if you are a girl. But Homosexuality or Lebianism is wrong before God and Man. cos a fellow girl cannot introduce a girl as her girlfriend. I am not condeming the people involved but I am condeming the act. The fact the one is involved doesn't mean it is right.

@Post
Globalization is now creeping into our youth and we have decided to throw morals to the dogs. You know what she is indulging in is wrong, and she knows it. try and Stop her from experimenting if she has not gone too deep into the act. If such a thing should continue, i bet the bound of familyhood will be destroyed sooner than we think. Please let condemn the act discourage the people involved. If you agree with me that Murder, stealing is not good, then Self sex mates is not GOOD also

she is 18? leave her be. if she were with a guy would you care? probably not. being upset by this only shows your prejudice. leave her be, its her life not yours

oluclem:

[b]why don't you discuss this with her and see her reaction before making a conclusion in your heart.[/b]Then you can now counsel her and show her the danger of same intimacy acts


and for you, There is a very big deal.

GOOD POINT

chidyke77:

your idea is wrong coz she will end up bn a lesbian.

so?

sexyLeamon:

maybe her family is against lesbianism

but its her life

^^^_{I DEY SUSPECT U OH}

Why do guys think we exprirment on each other?


@poster- what does your heart tell you to do?