First thing first,learn how to express yourself in writing... Don't say it out before writing it.

Op, though this post has been long time you posted it seeking for advise, I would want to contribute to this. I feel that this relationship has gone bad cus the guy in question, no matter how your friend want to apologize,as an African man, he cannot build up any form of trust in the relationship if he decides to forgive her. One need not to love or marry out of sympathy.It cannot work this way.

My true advise is for you to advise her to move on with her life and build up another relationship devoid of lies and deceit.Always try to be open on certain issues as far as relationship is concerned.Never try to pretend.Never try to cover up an issue hoping that it will never pump up.

andyanders:
Op, though this post has been long time you posted it seeking for advise, I would want to contribute to this. I feel that this relationship has gone bad cus the guy in question, no matter how your friend want to apologize,as an African man, he cannot build up any form of trust in the relationship if he decides to forgive her. One need not to love or marry out of sympathy.It cannot work this way.

My true advise is for you to advise her to move on with her life and build up another relationship devoid of lies and deceit.Always try to be open on certain issues as far as relationship is concerned.Never try to pretend.Never try to cover up an issue hoping that it will never pump up.

look,the only advice she deserve is to forget anything relationship and keep up with her hdouble dating cos she z nt won't make a good spouse...relationship is not for everybody

I wil broke up wit that girl ASAP,if there is what i hate most in relationship is "lie" and "deceit".Why would u hide ur past relationship from ur current guy nd u stil keeps contact with him,its very obviours sometin can stil hapen between them be it unconsciously or consciously due to the affection they shared before.She wants to eat her cake and have it,it aint posible the guy wil feel he's been taking for a ride or fool.

sekxy:

I asked her this..the day I posted it here..that was when she told me the truth that she bought it herself

i dont understand again. ..
why are you all finding it difficult to see deep into this ..the op is the soo called girlfriend Who lied to her guy and he only got to find out when he went through her charts...
this reminds me some time ago when my X tried to put her pregnancy on me knowing fully well that i never fail to use protection. only to go through her phone while she was fast asleep...the charts between her and her besty revealed she had about 3 other guys harvesting her punnany,and she doesnt know who to put it on.
i simply woke her up and sent her home

sekxy:

I asked her this..the day I posted it here..that was when she told me the truth that she bought it herself

i dont understand again. ..
why are you all finding it difficult to see deep into this ..the op is the soo called girlfriend Who lied to her guy and he only got to find out when he went through her charts...
this reminds me some time ago when my X tried to put her pregnancy on me knowing fully well that i never fail to use protection. only to go through her phone while she was fast asleep...the charts between her and her besty revealed she had about 3 other guys harvesting her punnany,and she doesnt know who to put it on.
i simply woke her up and sent her home

sekxy:

I asked her this..the day I posted it here..that was when she told me the truth that she bought it herself

i dont understand again. ..
why are you all finding it difficult to see deep into this ..the op is the soo called girlfriend Who lied to her guy and he only got to find out when he went through her charts...
this reminds me some time ago when my X tried to put her pregnancy on me knowing fully well that i never fail to use protection. only to go through her phone while she was fast asleep...the charts between her and her besty revealed she had about 3 other guys harvesting her punnany,and she doesnt know who to put it on.
i simply woke her up and sent her home