pabostt:
Some people believe that if you are not in a relationship on campus the whole heaven will fall and life on campus will be boring. But in your own case it isn't so because you have different view about it. It is a known fact that tertiary education encompasses all aspect of human lives including the social life.

Do you have any reget skipping any love affairs? How are you able to exercise self-control and exercise emotional discipline?

Reference - http://www.treatrelationships.com.ng/2017/06/6-demerit-of-love-affairs-among-nigerian-students.html

Fadman4real:
It was easy in school then, just focused on two things my studies and fifa.

My close friends then where also not chasing girls so I had little pressure to get a girlfriend. But once I finished my studies and was no more with my close friends. I had d urge to get a gf and did I mess up, I guess I did.

I have had 3 gfs since den and lack of experience dealing with girls has been a problem for me. My first didn't work out cause she wanted to get married badly and my mum didn't like her plus I wasn't ready yet.

I didn't love the second at all and I made a mistake asking her out but found it difficult to tell her I didn't love her.

The third and present gf is the best and closest to my standard but I acted all goofy loovy when she said yes to my proposal and gave me all the opportunity to take control but I wouldn't and gave her d control now am battling to win the control back.

Based on my experience, I think I should have dated in school I probably won't be in this situation with my gf now.

pabostt:


I love your narrative. But looking back, would having a gf have effect on your academic performance? if not, how would you have manage it?

Fadman4real:


Hmmmmm come to think of it, I don't think it would have. It might even propel me to work harder because I would want to make it fast so I can marry the babe immediately after school.

I would have let the lady understand my drive to succeed academically and we would have helped each other to have good grades.

pabostt:


I agree with you but didn't you think there will be a time your relationship might experience some threat. How will you have handled it knowing fully well that emotional imbalance may put you off track academically?

Fadman4real:


I don't really know aw I would have reacted because love is a really strong emotion. I like bottling things up a lot cause of my temperament and a problem shared is half solved so I think it would av affected my academic performance if d threat took place during exams else if not during exams I would have a lot of time to recover for the exams.

Nigeriadondie:
For FUTO were I go guy no dey reason babe matter cos when u dey battle with ur GP na how prick go come rise na. U go ejaculate dem u come see say result for course na EFCC no body go tell u make u leave babe unless u wan be extra extra yr student.